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@fancistyle.bsky.social
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Sickle cell warrior, rediscovering myself & learning to actively love me, Mother of 2, patient and community activist, loves fashion and well constructed garments, travel, good food and my family, wife #fancistyle
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Being born with a disability while looking “normal” is the greatest double edged sword in my life. #disability #disabledmom #community
Is it fair to judge historical figures and men of their time through a modern lens? I’m rereading the autobiography Malcolm X and I have questions. Rethinking my opinion of certain people. #MalcolmX #NationofIslam #blacklove #community #history
I never realized how little my elders interacted with one another in their marriages. My parents shared their bedroom, but that’s it. My other elders had separate rooms. Is the key to successful marriages separate lives/bedrooms? #happywifehappylife #marriage #blacklove
youtube.com/shorts/T7bR7... So being from a two parent household made her a pick me willing to sacrifice her morals for a man with no knowledge of commitment? They’re a beautiful couple & it worked for them. Ladies, don’t ever compromise your self for a man. #selfrespect #blacklove #strugglelove
Tabitha was willing to meet Chance in his misunderstanding, and that's all he needed. #blacklovedoc
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Hot take: two parent households don’t necessarily produce better men & have produced as many women with daddy issues as single parent households; if not more. Two parent households are great optically but are often toxic. #singlemotherhood #toxicrelationships #twoparenthouseholds #generationalcurses
I’m so proud of myself for focusing on my mental health. I only wish I had realized half of my mental alignments were caused by the assholes I allowed in my life. #niceforwhat #selfcentered #stressfree
I can’t believe it’s been a year since you transitioned. I’m so blessed to have met you and proud that my girls continue to follow in your footsteps. #nycc #MrLeroy was community activism, he was #eastflatbush His legend and legacy will forever live on. #Imissyou
There’s a reason #Diddy was found #notguilty on the RICO charge. It’s the same reason the jury was stacked with middle aged men. We don’t see women as valuable and men view women as property. DV painted as not that bad & coercion as okay because it’s happening in “loving” relationships. #mensmindset
I decided to reread all of books and rewatch the movies I loved as a teenager/young adult. I cannot wait to fall in love again with the characters I loved as a child.
The fact that my children have participated in more pride events for years than I have makes me sad. #happypride #pride #family
Two weeks ago my baby made her broadway debut at the #AmsterdamTheater as part of the #Disneykidstheater program in #NYC I can’t wait to see where her love for the stage takes her. Thank you to all of Disney’s dance and vocal coaches for the training and support you gave our children.
I am my mother’s daughter. I am kind, loving, caring and generous to a fault. But one thing I have never been is nice. I love this for me and about me. Loving, caring, kind and generous are what you are. Nice is a momentary social contract others perceive. #tinasdaughter #momsgift
It finally hit me, my #bff is gone. At 44, I don’t think I’ll ever have the love, bond, appreciation, respect, support and friendship I had with her. She wasn’t just my bff she was my #soulmate 33yrs with my #twin. I wish God saw fit to give me just one more day. #brokenhearted
I’m going to ask my community to understand that switching out a white predator for a black predator is of no benefit to us. #nyc #ericadams #areyoustupid
“The heart is like a seed; it needs to crack in order to grow.” #JadaPinkettSmith, #Worthy
My baby is being #bullied at school. I’m losing my mind because I don’t know what to do. I think back on my childhood and I applaud my parents. How did they find the balance between #protection and #sheltered? #schoolbullying #mommode #notmybaby
Hot take: #twitchboss widow has the right to do and say whatever she wants with his possessions and legacy. He chose her for his life and legacy. Feel bad for his mom/family. The NDA maybe weird, but she was his wife.
My heart is hurting for this community.
At least 95 people died in a 7.1-magnitude earthquake that struck a region near one of Tibet’s holiest cities, close to the Himalayan border with Nepal, Chinese state media said. nyti.ms/3W4vrw8
I just watched something that made me cry. Ladies, abuse isn’t connected to a race. It can sometimes be linked to economics, but it always involves toxic people who crave control @jovibeauty.bsky.social thank you for sharing this.
Happy birthday James Stephen. You have always been one of my greatest protectors. You are an amazing brother and even better uncle. You’ve been there through some of my best & worst times. I can’t begin to thank you enough for always being my rock & my covering. #siblings #brotherandsister