V
@feelinggrimm.bsky.social
Part time goth💀, full time cat mom🐈
Scorpio🦂♏
Pokénerd/FFXIV🎮
MCRmy⚰🖤
Keeping RVA weird 🥀⚰🖤
Scorpio🦂♏
Pokénerd/FFXIV🎮
MCRmy⚰🖤
Keeping RVA weird 🥀⚰🖤
The transaction fee is 3 pets
December 3, 2025 at 2:21 PM
The transaction fee is 3 pets
Got our Christmas tree yesterday, first tree in my new car and idk if we just got a smaller one than usual or if this car is just that much longer but it didn't even get in the way much up front. (Conclusion: bigger tree next year???)
December 3, 2025 at 3:04 AM
Got our Christmas tree yesterday, first tree in my new car and idk if we just got a smaller one than usual or if this car is just that much longer but it didn't even get in the way much up front. (Conclusion: bigger tree next year???)
This was supposed to be my year of being selfish but instead I did a lot of trying to make other people happy & putting my own feelings aside & in 2026 I'm gonna do my best to evict my people pleasing side because I'm tried of feeling anxious & exhausted all the time & then being told Im still wrong
December 2, 2025 at 8:10 PM
This was supposed to be my year of being selfish but instead I did a lot of trying to make other people happy & putting my own feelings aside & in 2026 I'm gonna do my best to evict my people pleasing side because I'm tried of feeling anxious & exhausted all the time & then being told Im still wrong
My husband grew up in a Hanburger Soup family and I grew up in a Ham and Bean Soup family, we are not the same.
December 2, 2025 at 4:30 PM
My husband grew up in a Hanburger Soup family and I grew up in a Ham and Bean Soup family, we are not the same.
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look at james’ drawing of dratini
December 2, 2025 at 1:03 PM
look at james’ drawing of dratini
This is such a weird thing to miss but I used to go Christmas caroling with my youth group and later school choir as a kid/teenager and I just really miss singing Christmas carols in a big group.
December 2, 2025 at 2:38 AM
This is such a weird thing to miss but I used to go Christmas caroling with my youth group and later school choir as a kid/teenager and I just really miss singing Christmas carols in a big group.
November started with my dad dying and ended with me taking my husband to the ER, this month has been enough stress for a whole year.
December 1, 2025 at 1:07 AM
November started with my dad dying and ended with me taking my husband to the ER, this month has been enough stress for a whole year.
We only made brunch with a turkey breast and stuffing and I didn't get a lot of leftovers from my 2nd meal so I was missing mashed potatoes with my leftovers tonight and made some myself and folks, there is a reason I made the mashed potatoes at my family's house for a good 10 years.
November 29, 2025 at 2:34 AM
We only made brunch with a turkey breast and stuffing and I didn't get a lot of leftovers from my 2nd meal so I was missing mashed potatoes with my leftovers tonight and made some myself and folks, there is a reason I made the mashed potatoes at my family's house for a good 10 years.
Family Thxgvng brunch was nice too, got my sister to come for the first time in years and I'm a big breakfast girly so I love a brunch.
November 28, 2025 at 5:49 PM
Family Thxgvng brunch was nice too, got my sister to come for the first time in years and I'm a big breakfast girly so I love a brunch.
I think this is the prettiest most aesthetic Thanksgiving table I've ever sat at and with a butter candle??? Incredible (credit @iamwomanking.bsky.social )
November 28, 2025 at 4:44 AM
I think this is the prettiest most aesthetic Thanksgiving table I've ever sat at and with a butter candle??? Incredible (credit @iamwomanking.bsky.social )
A Thanksgiving Crisis: the 2 blocks of cheese bought for our breakfast casserole have been sitting, unbeknownst to me, in my reusable grocery bags for 3 days.
November 27, 2025 at 4:06 AM
A Thanksgiving Crisis: the 2 blocks of cheese bought for our breakfast casserole have been sitting, unbeknownst to me, in my reusable grocery bags for 3 days.
I feel like thxgvng really snuck up on me but maybe that's because I'm having one of the most traumatic months of my life lol
November 27, 2025 at 12:18 AM
I feel like thxgvng really snuck up on me but maybe that's because I'm having one of the most traumatic months of my life lol
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sorry if i seem depressed lately it’s the depression
November 26, 2025 at 9:46 PM
sorry if i seem depressed lately it’s the depression
My aunt is one of those Very Southern Ladies where "bless your heart" is definitely an insult and after my dad's memorial this weekend she came to me and said "Well your friends are just lovely!" and I was just like of course they are like what kind of people did you think I had as friends???
November 25, 2025 at 1:53 PM
My aunt is one of those Very Southern Ladies where "bless your heart" is definitely an insult and after my dad's memorial this weekend she came to me and said "Well your friends are just lovely!" and I was just like of course they are like what kind of people did you think I had as friends???
I know we are truly living in a dystopian capitalist hellhole because I've just seen a Black Friday ad for weight loss drugs.
November 24, 2025 at 8:39 PM
I know we are truly living in a dystopian capitalist hellhole because I've just seen a Black Friday ad for weight loss drugs.
I've had thr oddest collection of liquor today- cherry moonshine, peppermint vodka, dark Jamaican rum, orange and mint liqueur. Pray for my 36 year old ass waking up in the morning.
November 23, 2025 at 4:05 AM
I've had thr oddest collection of liquor today- cherry moonshine, peppermint vodka, dark Jamaican rum, orange and mint liqueur. Pray for my 36 year old ass waking up in the morning.
My dad's memorial is today and my mom requested people wear stuff to match his interests (Godzilla, Star Trek, Sci-fi, Marvel) so I'm gonna put on this terribly pixellated Godzilla vs Kong shirt he gave me many years ago that I'm sure he bought on Amazon for himself but it came too small.
November 22, 2025 at 2:34 PM
My dad's memorial is today and my mom requested people wear stuff to match his interests (Godzilla, Star Trek, Sci-fi, Marvel) so I'm gonna put on this terribly pixellated Godzilla vs Kong shirt he gave me many years ago that I'm sure he bought on Amazon for himself but it came too small.
Had a nightmare that I invited a new friend to a music festival, then she broke my phone in what seemed like an accident, but I uncovered a plot she made to ruin my day completely out of malice. As a scorpio even while unconscious, I executed a revenge plot so silly it could only be done in a dream
November 20, 2025 at 5:19 PM
Had a nightmare that I invited a new friend to a music festival, then she broke my phone in what seemed like an accident, but I uncovered a plot she made to ruin my day completely out of malice. As a scorpio even while unconscious, I executed a revenge plot so silly it could only be done in a dream
I have a Dr's appt today & it's one I'm usually a bit nervous about but now I'm even MORE anxious b.c I just KNOW she's gonna ask how I'm doing & I'm gonna have to be like "my father died" & will likely cry about it + I have to do bloodwork & have been eating like shit w/ the whole grief process.
November 19, 2025 at 2:51 PM
I have a Dr's appt today & it's one I'm usually a bit nervous about but now I'm even MORE anxious b.c I just KNOW she's gonna ask how I'm doing & I'm gonna have to be like "my father died" & will likely cry about it + I have to do bloodwork & have been eating like shit w/ the whole grief process.
Southern buffet restaurant called Nanny's, only open 11-2 most days, only late on Fridays (rib night) and Saturdays. We pulled up at noon on a Wednesday it was PACKED.
November 19, 2025 at 12:40 AM
Southern buffet restaurant called Nanny's, only open 11-2 most days, only late on Fridays (rib night) and Saturdays. We pulled up at noon on a Wednesday it was PACKED.
You know you really try so hard not to date people like your father and here I am married to a tall bearded individual who also loves video games, toys, painting tiny models, and whose holiday drink is also eggnog and dark liquor. At least I didn't end up with my dad's personality I guess 🤷♀️
November 18, 2025 at 3:58 PM
You know you really try so hard not to date people like your father and here I am married to a tall bearded individual who also loves video games, toys, painting tiny models, and whose holiday drink is also eggnog and dark liquor. At least I didn't end up with my dad's personality I guess 🤷♀️
I do work from home and most days I probably could just work in my pajamas but I usually try to put on some regular clothes to make myself feel more "at work" but a Monday when I'm sick and it's 50 degrees outside? Nah I'm working from my PJs and blankie.
November 17, 2025 at 6:56 PM
I do work from home and most days I probably could just work in my pajamas but I usually try to put on some regular clothes to make myself feel more "at work" but a Monday when I'm sick and it's 50 degrees outside? Nah I'm working from my PJs and blankie.
This year was supposed to be *MY* year after our wedding in January and we had a good few months but then it went into the shit spiral that I'm still drowning in now. I just hope 2026 will be better.
November 17, 2025 at 2:49 PM
This year was supposed to be *MY* year after our wedding in January and we had a good few months but then it went into the shit spiral that I'm still drowning in now. I just hope 2026 will be better.
A coworker told me she was shocked I was back at work so soon after my father died and that she would be out at least a month if it happened to her and I'm just like well this company only gives us 5 days of bereavement leave or I wouldn't be back yet at all. Fucking capitalism strikes again.
November 15, 2025 at 12:01 AM
A coworker told me she was shocked I was back at work so soon after my father died and that she would be out at least a month if it happened to her and I'm just like well this company only gives us 5 days of bereavement leave or I wouldn't be back yet at all. Fucking capitalism strikes again.
Today would've been my dad's 70th birthday and my sister and I took off work to be with my mom, walked into the house to these birthday candles on his cremains along with a book a family friend intended to gift him. Nobody does morbid celebration like my family!
November 13, 2025 at 2:32 AM
Today would've been my dad's 70th birthday and my sister and I took off work to be with my mom, walked into the house to these birthday candles on his cremains along with a book a family friend intended to gift him. Nobody does morbid celebration like my family!