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They had been in touch online and by phone already, he was funny, smart, he fitted. She liked his openness despite it not being his nature, his hints of shyness, his obvious desire to submit to her, his sense of humour, even his inexperience had appeal. In the last week before meeting, he seemed to be having doubts. [...]

I like it when you falter, are made shy and unsure.  Not by me, really, though there is that.  It comes from you: That voice in your head that tells you to stop it, to not say that, to not do that, to not THINK that, but something in you urges you to say, do, think it anyway. I watch your conflict like a predator watching prey, [...]

I am crouching in front of him, his hard cock (my cock) in front of my face, but I am not interested in the cock right now. I am nipping at him, biting, which is the thing that has driven him closest to safewording with me. I nuzzle at his skin, lips and softness, tongue lapping at him, [...]

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This bed is on fire with passion and love, the neighbours complain about the noises above, but she only comes when she’s on top… Ahh, you think you’re so pretty… Dressed me up in women’s clothes, messed around with gender roles, dyed my eyes and called me pretty…  You’re driving me crazy, when are you coming home?   [...]

A tribute to the beauty of submissive men: If you've ever wondered about the myriad of ways submissive men are beautiful, let me show you.

I’ve taken to calling him ‘holy-fuck-beautiful-eyes’ (in honour of the fabulously articulate email I sent him on a whim), which is the worst nickname EVER but it makes me smile every time I use it. He’s not a match for me (he agrees with this), and I am unlikely to meet him (I’ve told him this), and yet, [...]

I want to write glorious things. I want to write about snippets of play with bambi, I want to write about how I am feeling, I want to write about what happened, I want to write about what’s next, I want to write about a lot of things. Truth is, I am scattered. My head is all over the place. It’s not necessarily bad. It’s just… [...]

Do you want to sit in on a chat with me? Pretend we are in a bar, having some champagne, and having a cosy little chat? You can, sort of! Unspeakable Axe and I talked for nearly three hours when he interviewed me for Masocast. His interview style is lovely, so it’s a low key, casual, friendly chat where we cover a whole range of topics. He then had to trawl through my ramblings to edit it down to about an hour and twenty minutes (nice work, [...]

The OKCupid version (yes, I joined a vanilla dating site: more on this later!). These are random emails I have sent out to men whose profiles I liked (as opposed to replies to emails that landed in my inbox).  To be clear, the first three were not potential matches: I just like to send out compliments to people when I see something interesting. [...]

This is again one where you MUST see what landed in my inbox, because… well, I like to share… I am good to you like that… ___   i pooed in my diaper and so now i have to wear my dirty mess and sit in it like the pathetic piece of shit that i am. ___   Me, killing myself laughing and passing it on to all my friends: OMG!! [...]

Snippets from the hot femdom movie Verfolgt (Punish Me, Hounded) about an older sadist and a young masochist.

This is the second volume of happy femdom stories: More real-life stories from F/m folks living in happy, healthy relationships. This volume includes stories from long-term married couples transitioning to F/m, an Fmm poly family, a dominant who married her submissive after he left the Catholic priesthood, a couple who found each other later in life, a long distance poly couple and many many more.

“Hands behind your head.” You comply quickly, and you wait. “We’re going to do something that we’ve done before, can you guess?” I ask, smiling. We are new together, there aren’t that many choices. “No Ma’am,” you reply quickly. You are nervous. “The pegs,” I grin at you.  You make a face at me, screw up your nose, your lip curls. [...]

The lovely AudioDiva was kind enough to share the story of meeting her boy, and how their relationship developed. She sweetly added that ‘life is pretty fantastic’, and their story bears that out. It’s just lovely *happy sigh*.  Author: AudioDiva I met My boy last year while I was in the middle of a bad break up from my vanilla husband. [...]

My head is full of you and my pussy wet with you, fucking you, helpless and crying on that beach, and you are so thin, and in pain, with pieces of you missing because I have taken them and swallowed them. And yes, my fingers in your mouth to turn your head to me, and I want to kiss you, [...]

Ugh.  So holy-fuck-beautiful-eyes pulled out of the kissing date. It was supposed to be tomorrow night. Yesterday we were finalising plans. Today he told me that a woman he had been on a few dates with had expressed serious interest in him this morning, and he was equally interested in her. Given that had arisen, he didn’t think it would be right to go ahead with the kissing date. Understandably, [...]

… continued from On ‘becoming a Domme’ Part I So I found a lovely vanilla submissive and had it all sorted, right? Well, kind of. I fucked that one up, but I learnt what I wanted in a man, and in a relationship, from being with him. And that was no small thing. I had some other short term relationships after that which ‘worked’, [...]

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This year the fabulous Molly of Molly’s Daily Kiss took on the monumental task of putting together the Top 100 Sex Blogs list for 2015. I’m beyond thrilled to be in the top ten. TOP TEN! I may have squeed. In the tradition of all respectable awards, I want to take a moment to say thank you to everyone who reads my blog; [...]

Your recent post “Once Upon a Time When I was a lesbian…” makes me want to ask a follow up question. There seems to be a lot of good information that suggests sexual preference is deeply rooted, hard wired, if you will. In fact, many reputable researchers and therapists make strong cases that this doesn’t typically change over time, [...]