I’m Jess Sayin’…
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Thirty and flirty and thriving. NYC. LGBTQ+ he/him/his #booknerd. Kylie Minogue is my Queen. #gaymer
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Hail, coffee, dark of roast, caffeine be with thee. Blessed art thou amongst gremlins and blessed is the brew of thy grounds, espresso. Blackest coffee, saviour of souls, pray for us newly awoken, now and at the hour of our slump. Amen.
The two lines in #HeatedRivalry that destroyed me:
“He deserves sunshine. And so do you.”
“We didn’t even kiss.”
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
“He deserves sunshine. And so do you.”
“We didn’t even kiss.”
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
December 14, 2025 at 3:29 AM
The two lines in #HeatedRivalry that destroyed me:
“He deserves sunshine. And so do you.”
“We didn’t even kiss.”
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
“He deserves sunshine. And so do you.”
“We didn’t even kiss.”
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Introduced my husband to Doctor Who and he’s pretty much like, “What the fuck did I just watch?” 😅
December 14, 2025 at 12:32 AM
Introduced my husband to Doctor Who and he’s pretty much like, “What the fuck did I just watch?” 😅
Manifesting Heated Rivalry’s influence on bigger asses for tops and bottoms in 2026. I know I’ll be doing my part 😛🍑
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December 13, 2025 at 5:19 PM
Manifesting Heated Rivalry’s influence on bigger asses for tops and bottoms in 2026. I know I’ll be doing my part 😛🍑
I still can’t get over the ICONIC club scene in #HeatedRivalry episode 4 with t.A.T.u’s “All The Things She Said” PERFECTLY timed. *This* is cinema. Fuuuuuuck.
December 13, 2025 at 3:48 PM
I still can’t get over the ICONIC club scene in #HeatedRivalry episode 4 with t.A.T.u’s “All The Things She Said” PERFECTLY timed. *This* is cinema. Fuuuuuuck.
Dearest gentle reader: I have most recently discovered that today is “SantaCon” in NYC. The chances of my husband and I venturing forth from our warm abode to mingle amidst the… revelers, is very slim indeed.
December 13, 2025 at 2:57 PM
Dearest gentle reader: I have most recently discovered that today is “SantaCon” in NYC. The chances of my husband and I venturing forth from our warm abode to mingle amidst the… revelers, is very slim indeed.
If listening to the Charlie Brown Christmas album doesn’t make you dance like this, we can’t be friends.
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December 12, 2025 at 7:59 PM
If listening to the Charlie Brown Christmas album doesn’t make you dance like this, we can’t be friends.
The best way to close out 2025!!
The Canadian hockey romance, ‘Heated Rivalry,’ has been renewed for a second season on Crave and HBO Max, right in time for the holidays.
Heated Rivalry Is Going Into Overtime
The Canadian hockey romance, ‘Heated Rivalry,’ has been renewed for a second season on Crave and HBO Max, right in time for the holidays.
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December 12, 2025 at 6:26 PM
The best way to close out 2025!!
The only benefit of a 24°F morning is the dogs do their business very quickly 🥶
December 12, 2025 at 12:58 PM
The only benefit of a 24°F morning is the dogs do their business very quickly 🥶
Happy Heated Rivalry Episode 4 day!!!!
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December 12, 2025 at 12:32 PM
Happy Heated Rivalry Episode 4 day!!!!
There are two things I simply cannot refuse during Christmas: mince pies and Ferrero Rocher. Fuck. Me. Up.
December 12, 2025 at 3:34 AM
There are two things I simply cannot refuse during Christmas: mince pies and Ferrero Rocher. Fuck. Me. Up.
The first mince pie of… CHRISTMAAAAAASSSS!
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December 11, 2025 at 1:34 PM
The first mince pie of… CHRISTMAAAAAASSSS!
One of the beautiful things about NYC is there’s a store for everything.
December 11, 2025 at 2:15 AM
One of the beautiful things about NYC is there’s a store for everything.
Did we need to see Serhant showering? No. Do we LOVE to see Serhant showering? Absofuckinglutely.
December 10, 2025 at 10:42 PM
Did we need to see Serhant showering? No. Do we LOVE to see Serhant showering? Absofuckinglutely.
Who knew chewing caffeine gum and clicking away at a grip master was the key to my productivity 🤣
December 10, 2025 at 6:41 PM
Who knew chewing caffeine gum and clicking away at a grip master was the key to my productivity 🤣
I fucking love Miriam Margolyes. She has no filter and it’s so refreshingly hilarious 🤣
December 10, 2025 at 3:38 AM
I fucking love Miriam Margolyes. She has no filter and it’s so refreshingly hilarious 🤣
When you have a husky and don’t share your tuna with her, she throws a hissy fit.
December 9, 2025 at 11:59 PM
When you have a husky and don’t share your tuna with her, she throws a hissy fit.
Had the strangest dream last night that trees already contained their stories but the only way for them to be told was to cut them down and turn them into paper. Kinda fucked up 😅
December 9, 2025 at 12:54 PM
Had the strangest dream last night that trees already contained their stories but the only way for them to be told was to cut them down and turn them into paper. Kinda fucked up 😅
I stfg ChatGPT writes an evaluation like an HR wet dream and I’m here for it. 😎
December 8, 2025 at 5:30 PM
I stfg ChatGPT writes an evaluation like an HR wet dream and I’m here for it. 😎
Just realized that I have to do my biannual cyber security training by the end of the week and my end of year review is due tomorrow… Monday is a fugly slut. Do not trust her.
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December 8, 2025 at 3:21 PM
Just realized that I have to do my biannual cyber security training by the end of the week and my end of year review is due tomorrow… Monday is a fugly slut. Do not trust her.
Gay powers restored 💇🏻♂️🌈 ✨
December 6, 2025 at 3:01 PM
Gay powers restored 💇🏻♂️🌈 ✨
There’s no place like home.
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December 6, 2025 at 1:22 AM
There’s no place like home.
Let me try that again… not me getting HOT and bothered on the train reading gay hockey smut 🥵
December 5, 2025 at 11:40 PM
Let me try that again… not me getting HOT and bothered on the train reading gay hockey smut 🥵
Was not expecting the DMV to get a decent snow day before NYC, but it did. ❄️
December 5, 2025 at 10:53 PM
Was not expecting the DMV to get a decent snow day before NYC, but it did. ❄️
I have been nice AND social all week. Now there’s an open-mouthed chewer smacking away behind me on the train. There might just be a Murder on the Northeast Regional. 🤬
December 5, 2025 at 9:00 PM
I have been nice AND social all week. Now there’s an open-mouthed chewer smacking away behind me on the train. There might just be a Murder on the Northeast Regional. 🤬
To the barista questioning if I really wanted 4 shots in my dirty chai:
a woman says i have a lot of questions number one how dare you ..
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December 5, 2025 at 1:41 PM
To the barista questioning if I really wanted 4 shots in my dirty chai: