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Hope with Holly @hopewithholly.bsky.social · May 5

Heady Going to couples therapy doesn’t mean we’re not right for each other, it actually means that we’re committed to showing up as our best self. #couplestherapy #therapy #relationshipadvice #datingadvice

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Hope with Holly @hopewithholly.bsky.social · May 5

Let’s talk about how humans evolved and how we got different races. #evolution #creationism #australopithecus #youngearth #oldearth #science #deconstruction #exvangelical

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Hope with Holly @hopewithholly.bsky.social · May 5

Want to join me at a dating conference? It’s at Niagara Falls in Canada and I am the guest speaker along with Mountain Man. #datingadvice #datingconference #niagarafalls #datingcoach #canada

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Hope with Holly @hopewithholly.bsky.social · May 5

It’s so important, when you’re dating, to not just be dating, but to be vetting them before you become exclusive. This means that you are observing their behaviors, collecting data, gathering information, in order to make an informed decision about whether they are a good fit for your life #dating

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Hope with Holly @hopewithholly.bsky.social · May 4

Does God hate divorce? I don’t think so, and I’ll tell you why. #divorce #divorced #divorcedwomen #exvangelical #deconstruction

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Hope with Holly @hopewithholly.bsky.social · May 4

If you are a woman who lives in Charlotte, North Carolina, you’re welcome to join us for a St. Patrick’s Day lunch and create friendships at the same time. Just join our Soul Sisters group!! #charlottenc #tapandvinequailhollow #soulsisters #womenempowerment #womensupportingwomen #sisterhood

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Hope with Holly @hopewithholly.bsky.social · May 4

ChorePlay is Wen. A man thinks that if he does chores around the house that he should be rewarded with physical intimacy and bedroom time. And this is a transactional approach versus just handling your responsibilities. #relationshipadvice #marriageadvice #datingadvice #chores #choreplay

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Hope with Holly @hopewithholly.bsky.social · May 4

Horne Cussing is my love language ☺️ #cussing #cussingmom #intelligent

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Hope with Holly @hopewithholly.bsky.social · May 4

A woman’s purpose is her own. It’s whatever she wants it to be. A woman’s purpose is not to submit to a man and be his helpmate. That’s what oppressors believe though.

Hope with Holly @hopewithholly.bsky.social · May 3

When dating, here’s how I differentiate between my nonnegotiable, my deeply important issues, and my preferences. #dating #datingadvice #datingtips #nonnegotiable #standards #standardsarehigh #preferences

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Hope with Holly @hopewithholly.bsky.social · May 3

When you are dating and vetting people for long-term partnership, here are the 10 essential C’s qualities you should look for in your partner. #dating #datingadvice #nonnegotiable #standards #standardsarehigh #preferences #vetting #10essentialCs #aretheyrightforyou

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Hope with Holly @hopewithholly.bsky.social · May 3

Is empathy a sin? I would say that dangerous empathy, where you do not have boundaries, will lead to an unhappy life. But healthy empathy, where you put yourself in another person, shoes, but you have boundaries and discernment and self-care, that’s the way to go! #empathy #empathymatters

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Hope with Holly @hopewithholly.bsky.social · May 3

Come with me on our date night to Lobster and Cirque for a freaky Friday night!! #paranormalcirque #cirqueitalia #redlobster #datenight #datenightideas

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Hope with Holly @hopewithholly.bsky.social · May 3

Lee Banning transgender people from the military is discrimination based on someone’s identity and that is unpatriotic. ##transgender##lgbtq##military##american##freedom##discrimination

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Hope with Holly @hopewithholly.bsky.social · May 2

When you are dating, it’s important to know whether you want a casual connection, companionship, or a partnership so that you can express that to one another and both be on the same page. #dating #datingadvice #datingtips #datinglife #hookup #friendswithbenefits #companionship #lifepartnership

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Hope with Holly @hopewithholly.bsky.social · May 2

For educational purposes only, let’s talk about women’s history regarding when they were able to wear pants and how they were laws against women wearing pants. ##womensfashion##womenshistory##womenshistorymonth##womenwearingmensclothes##crossdressing

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Hope with Holly @hopewithholly.bsky.social · May 2

Pina For educational purposes only, let’s talk about what the Bible says about purity and lust, and then we can decide if we want to use that book to define our own ethics. #puritycultureistoxic #purityculture #biblestudy #exvangelical #deconstruction

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Hope with Holly @hopewithholly.bsky.social · May 2

Decentering others will help you center yourself so you look to yourself for validation, you pursue your goals, and you’re not influenced by society or traditional, gender roles to dictate, who you need to be. #decentering #validation #pickme #desperate #genderroles

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Hope with Holly @hopewithholly.bsky.social · May 2

For educational purposes only, let’s talk about what control manipulation and the neglect looks like in relationships so you can recognize it and walk away. #datingadvice #relationshipadvice #marriageadvice #controlling #manipulate #abuseawareness

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Hope with Holly @hopewithholly.bsky.social · May 1

Green Flags to look for when you’re dating or in a relationship. #greenflags #datingadvice #relationshipadvice #datingtips #datinglife

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Hope with Holly @hopewithholly.bsky.social · Apr 30

The lucky people in the world are the ones who know how to love themselves well! #selflove #selfcare #selflovejourney #selfadvocacy

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Hope with Holly @hopewithholly.bsky.social · Apr 30

We often talk about how women need decenter men but today I’d like to talk about how men need to decenter women. their self-worth and their value as a human is not based on their ability to be in a relationship with a woman, conquer a woman, or use her for emotional labor.

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Hope with Holly @hopewithholly.bsky.social · Apr 30

Doubting the Bible and asking questions is ok friends. You have every right to seek understanding. #christian #exvangelical #deconstruction #doubt #criticalthinking

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Hope with Holly @hopewithholly.bsky.social · Apr 30

Let’s talk about how Republicans view Jesus versus Democrats view Jesus. #republican #democrat #jesus #christian #exvangelical #deconstruction #bible Nonsense Spirituality

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Hope with Holly @hopewithholly.bsky.social · Apr 30

Is friends with benefits, a good idea? Not generally, unless you are somebody who can totally separate your emotions from physical intimacy. #dating #datingadviceforwomen #datingtips #fwb #friendswithbenefits

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