I help women leaders get paid, get free, and get shit done. Without the spiral.
Everything you want is on the other side of the conversations you’re avoiding.
But it's also the energy I want to bring everywhere, being in curiosity and service to others as a practice.
This is what collective power feels like.
But it's also the energy I want to bring everywhere, being in curiosity and service to others as a practice.
This is what collective power feels like.
Me: Absolutely not.
Them: How about four 1 hour episodes?
Me: I'm in.
Death by Lighting is really good, BTW.
The entire cast is a knock out - highly recommend.
Me: Absolutely not.
Them: How about four 1 hour episodes?
Me: I'm in.
Death by Lighting is really good, BTW.
The entire cast is a knock out - highly recommend.
Today's ask gives your exec function the roadmap it's been searching for.
Want the "Anchor in Your Value" tool to make this ask from a place of power, not doubt -
DM me "ASK" for Spooky Ask master guide
Today's ask gives your exec function the roadmap it's been searching for.
Want the "Anchor in Your Value" tool to make this ask from a place of power, not doubt -
DM me "ASK" for Spooky Ask master guide
For an ADHD leader, an unnecessary meeting isn't just a time-suck; it's a neurological tax that derails your regulation and work.
Today, we practice canceling one, using the "focus guard" script I use.
DM me "ASK" for the link to ALL this month's Asks.
For an ADHD leader, an unnecessary meeting isn't just a time-suck; it's a neurological tax that derails your regulation and work.
Today, we practice canceling one, using the "focus guard" script I use.
DM me "ASK" for the link to ALL this month's Asks.
Right now, Donald Trump and Republican leaders would rather keep the government closed than figure out a solution to save your health care. Watch what they do, not what they say.
Right now, Donald Trump and Republican leaders would rather keep the government closed than figure out a solution to save your health care. Watch what they do, not what they say.
And we're defining the destination.
What's the one problem you want solved by January 1st?
I'm sharing the exact "Future-Self Journaling" prompt I use to turn vague ambition into a tangible target.
It's a game-changer.
Want it? DM me "ASK" for the daily email.
And we're defining the destination.
What's the one problem you want solved by January 1st?
I'm sharing the exact "Future-Self Journaling" prompt I use to turn vague ambition into a tangible target.
It's a game-changer.
Want it? DM me "ASK" for the daily email.
Live, lead, and make moves on your own terms.
Do the work to let people be wrong about you. It's a doozy, but so necessary.
Because the real work - deciding how much access and energy you give people who refuse to see you.
Live, lead, and make moves on your own terms.
Do the work to let people be wrong about you. It's a doozy, but so necessary.
Because the real work - deciding how much access and energy you give people who refuse to see you.
But some conversations aren’t optional - not if you're gonna get what you want.
The conversations you avoid shape your leadership just as much as the ones you have.
Tell me: is it harder to start a tough conversation or to stay present when tensions arise?
But some conversations aren’t optional - not if you're gonna get what you want.
The conversations you avoid shape your leadership just as much as the ones you have.
Tell me: is it harder to start a tough conversation or to stay present when tensions arise?
That’s exactly why DEI policies exist.
Rolling them back doesn’t restore “merit-based hiring.”
DEI ensures hiring based on merit, not race or gender.
That’s exactly why DEI policies exist.
Rolling them back doesn’t restore “merit-based hiring.”
DEI ensures hiring based on merit, not race or gender.
So of course I rely on tools to keep me focused… with mixed success.
Because the tools always work - when I actually remember to use them.
So of course I rely on tools to keep me focused… with mixed success.
Because the tools always work - when I actually remember to use them.
Because every single episode, I'm like "WHAT. JUST. HAPPENED."
It's so good.
He's so good.
Because every single episode, I'm like "WHAT. JUST. HAPPENED."
It's so good.
He's so good.
Reminder to myself:
-Focus on what matters most.
-Find your people.
-Use your voice.
-Rest. The work needs you, but not at the expense of you.
Reminder to myself:
-Focus on what matters most.
-Find your people.
-Use your voice.
-Rest. The work needs you, but not at the expense of you.
Retreat doesn’t create change.
Keep listening. Integrating. Showing up.
The work isn’t about perfection.
It’s about staying in the discomfort long enough to make real change.
Retreat doesn’t create change.
Keep listening. Integrating. Showing up.
The work isn’t about perfection.
It’s about staying in the discomfort long enough to make real change.
You know, the ones that make you cringe but also light you up?
The magic isn’t in playing it safe. It’s in saying the weird thing and doing it anyway.
You in?
You know, the ones that make you cringe but also light you up?
The magic isn’t in playing it safe. It’s in saying the weird thing and doing it anyway.
You in?
There's SO many options!
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What am I leaving out?
What questions should I be asking myself to decide?
There's SO many options!
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What am I leaving out?
What questions should I be asking myself to decide?
Trump and other leaders aren’t hiding their power grabs or their use of Othering to do it.
Stay informed, not inflamed:
•Touch grass. Seek joy.
•Build community.
•Create safety in conflict.
•Speak up. Speak out.
Trump and other leaders aren’t hiding their power grabs or their use of Othering to do it.
Stay informed, not inflamed:
•Touch grass. Seek joy.
•Build community.
•Create safety in conflict.
•Speak up. Speak out.
A bit too on the nose given the political malpractice of this weekend, and the Project 2025 kickoff on Monday.
Dude really wrote that over 20yrs ago.
And we’re living it today.
SO many good lines, but this one is a keeper:
“And if I’m flying solo, at least I’m flying free.”
A bit too on the nose given the political malpractice of this weekend, and the Project 2025 kickoff on Monday.
Dude really wrote that over 20yrs ago.
And we’re living it today.
SO many good lines, but this one is a keeper:
“And if I’m flying solo, at least I’m flying free.”
Wild at Heart was my fave David Lynch creation.
Photography by Josh Telles
Wild at Heart was my fave David Lynch creation.
Photography by Josh Telles
Rinse. Repeat.
That's life with ADHD.
Rinse. Repeat.
That's life with ADHD.
News has been relentless, Weather downright rude.
January 14 feeling like the real first day of the year.
OH HEY, 2025. Don’t think I laid down. I was taking care of what matters most.
I. AM. HERE.
News has been relentless, Weather downright rude.
January 14 feeling like the real first day of the year.
OH HEY, 2025. Don’t think I laid down. I was taking care of what matters most.
I. AM. HERE.
Sometimes, it’s the chain keeping you stuck.
Your voice is your power.
Use it wisely.
Sometimes, it’s the chain keeping you stuck.
Your voice is your power.
Use it wisely.