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Camila

@itscamilatoyou.bsky.social

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Camila @itscamilatoyou.bsky.social · 5d

6 months later I am happy to be single, free from a toxic relationship, from a toxic ex, that belittled me, emotionally and mentally abused me, manipulated me. I finally feel free and happy again. I love being alone, no more walking on eggshells.

Camila @itscamilatoyou.bsky.social · 10d

No hate no revenge, because while your family enables your disgusting actions. My brother has heard me cry to him almost every night about what happened.

Camila @itscamilatoyou.bsky.social · 12d

Father's DNA can remain in a woman's body long after a miscarriage due to a phenomenon called MICROCHIMERISM

Camila @itscamilatoyou.bsky.social · 12d

Just learned what microchimerism means. #miscarriage #lifeafterbreakup

Camila @itscamilatoyou.bsky.social · 18d

Camila @itscamilatoyou.bsky.social · 21d

We're just strangers with some memories

Camila @itscamilatoyou.bsky.social · 26d

I feel free today, free from the pain he caused. I hope to stay in this feeling forever. I choose peace and love or hatred and resentment. #narcissisticeexbf #lifeafterbreakup

Camila @itscamilatoyou.bsky.social · 27d

It's funny how, a narcissist ex can reach out to you, but the second you ask stop, they respond with stop reaching out.

Camila @itscamilatoyou.bsky.social · 28d

Xania Monet's song I asked for so little. Hits so hard. #xaniamonet

Camila @itscamilatoyou.bsky.social · Sep 29

His words hurt, but they broke me months prior to the break up. He continues to intentionally verbally hurt me.

Camila @itscamilatoyou.bsky.social · Sep 29

So, the manipulative ex can break no contact, but I mail some personal memories that didnt belong to me, and he attacks me via email, and tell me I broke no contact, im harassing him. But he gets to email me, text me, send Instagram message but that's okay, I should've thrown the pics out instead.

Camila @itscamilatoyou.bsky.social · Sep 18

Camila @itscamilatoyou.bsky.social · Sep 15

You lied to make people hate me, I lied to make people like you. We're not the same.

Camila @itscamilatoyou.bsky.social · Sep 11

I understand the choice to choose yourself. I forgive you for ending things, to choose yourself, to do what is best for you, even if it hurts. What I don't understand and forgive nor forget is the intentional harm you caused after, months later after no contact the choice to hurt me intentionally.

Camila @itscamilatoyou.bsky.social · Sep 11

Yeah cheating hurts, but try having someone look you in the eyes and tell you they love you so much but they arent willing to fight for you and they cant stop hurting you to fix things. They don't care if they lose you, yet you saw forever in them.

Camila @itscamilatoyou.bsky.social · Sep 3

And its finally September, autumn 🍂 here we come.

Camila @itscamilatoyou.bsky.social · Aug 24

That heartbreak, I couldn't see it in the beginning, but it needed to happen, needed to remember who I am and love myself.

Camila @itscamilatoyou.bsky.social · Aug 22

This is a big step for me, stepped out this evening, sat alone, enjoyed a beer and some fries with my own company.

Camila @itscamilatoyou.bsky.social · Aug 22

Lost my mind. Found my soul.

Camila @itscamilatoyou.bsky.social · Aug 21

And I finally understand, man I am enjoying eating alone, and being alone in peace, comfortable with myself.

Camila @itscamilatoyou.bsky.social · Aug 18

The realization you were in a relationship with a narcissist, replaying all the memories that you once thought were good, and realizing the emotional abuse. May the healing begin. #emotionalabuse

Camila @itscamilatoyou.bsky.social · Aug 15

I have come to accept I will never receive the apology for ruining and breaking my entire heart, body and soul.

Camila @itscamilatoyou.bsky.social · Aug 15

I'm proud of myself. Celebrate all my accomplishments, even if its as small as showering. #depression #heartbreak #lifeafterbreakup

Camila @itscamilatoyou.bsky.social · Aug 15

When you said I was hurting you by trying to make us work. I forced myself to leave, because the last thing I ever wanted was for you to hurt. Yet you made it your mission to hurt me after I left. I'm sorry I wasn't enough.

Camila @itscamilatoyou.bsky.social · Aug 15

You can keep me blocked, drag my name through the mud, blame me for everything. But you won't be able to forget that I know the real you. How I stood by your side, even through the darkest of your times. Worked on your healing even when I was struggling myself. #mentalhealth #emotionallyabuse