Joe Armstrong
joethehuman.bsky.social
Joe Armstrong
@joethehuman.bsky.social
Fruit. Coffee. A back that finally works again.
And a Trumpian world that feels dangerously unmoored.
#PayingAttention #PersonalEssay #SubstackWriter #Humanist #WritingLife
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Paying Attention in Unsettled Times
Fruit, a healing back — and the world on edge
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January 23, 2026 at 7:20 PM
Not fearful — more shocked. More concerned that we’re repeating mistakes we already paid dearly to learn.

I wrote about memory, power, and why history keeps knocking when we refuse to answer.
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#Trump #Putin #Ukraine #greenland #Israel #Gaza #peacesong #history
War, Peace, and Preparation
On peace, power, preparation, and responsibility in personal and global conflict, and asking what it means to remain human in an age of dehumanizing power.
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January 16, 2026 at 7:08 PM
Other people's opinions of us are none of our business. New free substack out on freeing ourselves from what other people think.
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#Authenticity #PersonalGrowth #Boundaries #Conscience #SelfTrust #EmotionalFreedom #LifeLessons #OwnYourPower #Adulting
Other People’s Opinions Are None of My Business
A hard-won lesson in adulthood, authenticity, and quiet liberation
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January 9, 2026 at 6:42 PM
Chosen family can change everything.
A personal essay on gratitude, loss, and finding love.
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#ChosenFamily #AdoptedFamily #AdoptedMother #AdoptedFather #Love #Marriage #Ireland #Humanist
The Woman Who Became My Mother
My chosen family, gratitude, and love
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December 19, 2025 at 7:40 PM
New Substack up today: storms outside, storms inside — but also some hope.
We’ve released an acoustic version of our It’s a Wonderful Life-inspired song.
IMRO featured it in their New Music Playlist.
Have a read or listen:
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#ItsAWonderfulLife #Hope #ChristmasSong
Blue Skies, Leaden Skies — and a Song That Saved Me
On back pain, despair, unexpected hope — and It’s a Wonderful Life.
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December 9, 2025 at 7:31 PM
Listen to an amazing conversation with singer-songwriter The Rayne. Going blind in childhood. Losing his mum. Both he and his dad feeling lost. And finding his way through music to meaning, friendship and love.

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#TheRayne #BlindArtist #Resilience #Songwriting #Leeds
World Exclusive: The Riveting, Personal Story of The Rayne
Interweaved with his songs
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December 1, 2025 at 9:33 PM
New Substack: solitude, storms, songwriting, backache, Trim Castle, and the joy of finally meeting Andrea Patron in person.
Acoustic Christmas track out 1 Dec! 🎄
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#Songwriting #friendship #backache #Ireland #TrimCastle #AcousticMusic
When the Missus Is Away
Solitude, Friendship, and Me Bloody Back!
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November 21, 2025 at 10:46 AM
Ever thank yourself? We often forget the most powerful act of gratitude — being grateful for who we’ve become.
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#gratitude #self-acceptance #PersonalGrowth #authenticity #memoir #Ireland #JoeArmstrong #inspiration
Thank Yourself: The Gratitude We Forget
Why the hardest — and most freeing — act of gratitude may be towards yourself
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November 6, 2025 at 7:08 PM
Ever frozen mid-speech—even when you knew every word?
My new Substack: When the Mind Goes Blank — how I went from childhood stage fright to speaking with calm and courage.
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#PublicSpeaking #Anxiety #Resilience
When the Mind Goes Blank: From Stage Fright to Standing Tall
What stage fright taught me about fear, memory, and finding my voice again.
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October 31, 2025 at 7:26 PM
Meet the digger and the dog! A humorous tale of trust, toil, and unexpected inspiration. Read or listen to my latest Substack: open.substack.com/pub/joearmst...
#writing #trust #gardening #homeprojects #humour #reflection #toastmasters #lifeinireland #storytelling
October 25, 2025 at 11:32 AM
Another round with my old frenemy: my back!

From Paris to Wicklow to the gym, it’s a story of pain, humour, and gratitude.

Me and Me Back! — new free Substack post: open.substack.com/pub/joearmst...
#IrishHumour #HealingJourney #Gratitude #BackPain
October 17, 2025 at 2:30 PM
Disillusionment is losing our illusions. Disappointment is losing our false appointments with ourselves.

But maybe “good enough” is the quiet grace left behind.

Read my new Substack here:
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#Reflections #Parenting #Disappointment #Imperfection
From Illusion to Disappointment: Learning to Live Without Perfection
On losing our illusions, sacking ourselves as perfect parents, and hoping for “good enough”
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October 10, 2025 at 5:53 PM
Some dates never leave us. Some lessons fade too quickly.
This Substack is about memory, faith and doubt, and the choices that shape our future — inspired by fathers, history, and the fleeting nature of life.
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Fathers, faith, and fleeting lives
Chance, choice, and the futures we create
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September 21, 2025 at 7:18 PM
Why do anything? From air and water to love, belonging, and self-actualisation, our lives are a constant balancing act of needs. In my latest Substack, I explore Maslow’s hierarchy and how it plays out in daily life, relationships, and choices.
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#Motivation #Purpose
Why Do Anything?
From Maslow’s pyramid to Johnny Cash’s ‘empire of dirt’
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September 12, 2025 at 6:00 PM
Bob Rees was many things: sailor, engineer, critic of religion, jazz lover — and above all, a humanist who lived his values. I’ve written a reflection on his life and humanism. Free to read. #Humanism #BobRees #SecularHumanism #HAI
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Closer to God in a Storm at Sea
Reflections on the life and humanism of Bob Rees (12 June 1936 — 5 August 2025)
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September 3, 2025 at 6:05 PM
A Substack in Search of a Smile
Finding Laughter on the Page
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August 29, 2025 at 4:38 PM
Two days after my cousin’s funeral, another relative was in ICU. By week’s end, we’d faced grief, relief, and even a £1,500 car hire bill. Life is fragile. Here’s what it taught me…
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Hope and Despair in One Week: What a Family Emergency Taught Me
How grief, an unexpected hospital dash, and even a car rental dispute reminded me that hope and darkness walk side by side.
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August 23, 2025 at 12:06 AM
Death will come. Sometimes it gives warning; sometimes it doesn’t.

7 lessons I’ve learned about living before dying:
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Seven Things Life Has Taught Me (So Far)
How to Live a Happy Life
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August 14, 2025 at 6:41 PM
Woke at 4am, brain in catastrophe mode.
Skulls, death dates, fear, injustice…and hope!
New Substack: Now Is a Good Now
Thoughts on mortality, messiness, and the daily rituals that help us hold it all.
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#writing #mortality #journalpractice #reflection #hope #substack
At 4am, the Mind Roars
Catastrophic Thinking Tamed
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August 6, 2025 at 4:23 PM
Midnight mattress visitors, Mourne views, and a farewell to a dear friend — all in a day. Our maiden campervan voyage took a few unexpected turns…
Have a read, and let me know if you’ve had your own midnight visitors!
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Maiden Voyage, Midnight Visitors, and Mourning a Friend
A weekend of firsts, nerves, and a special farewell
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July 16, 2025 at 10:32 PM
Chainsaws, Campers, and Comrades — my latest Substack is live.
Up at 4am sawing trees, saying goodbye to our beloved caravan, and raising a glass to a dear friend and songwriting partner, Robin Lawley. A week of shredded branches and shredded emotions.
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Chainsaws, Campers, and Comrades
A dawn chorus of sweat, sawdust, and songs for lost friends
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July 4, 2025 at 6:50 PM
🚴‍♂️✂️🌀 From cycling and gardening to pottery and exams—progress matters more than perfection.
Small steps, not flawless leaps, move us forward. Process — Not Perfection. Imperfection rocks!
#ProgressNotPerfection #Substack #PersonalGrowth #ImperfectlyForward
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Process — Not Perfection
Why stepping forward—imperfectly—is better than standing still
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June 12, 2025 at 3:13 PM
God spelled backwards is... 🐶
This week on the blog: hare chases, songwriting breakthroughs, dead rooks (yes, really), and the joyful mischief of my dog, Paddy.
#DogLife #BorderCollie #SongwritingInspiration #NatureMoments #SubstackWriters #MindfulnessWithADog
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God Spelled Backwards
How a Border Collie, a Hare, and a Dead Rook Remind Me to Play, Create, and Listen
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June 6, 2025 at 3:51 PM
Just back from Tuscany—with COVID in my lungs and rooks in my trees.
Now isolated, feverish, and going slightly mad from the noise.
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Caws and COVID
How I returned from Tuscany to viral fog, sticky eyes—and a rook invasion
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May 30, 2025 at 3:29 PM
This week I hit the red zone—literally and emotionally.
A spiking heart rate, a missing music score, and a crash course in MuseScore4... not quite the life I imagined!
#BeginAgain #HeartHealth #NeverTooLate #Cycling #SongwritingLife
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Feeling Blue, Learning Anew
Begin Again
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May 16, 2025 at 6:52 PM