Minimum Effort Good Boy
@jonjamin.bsky.social
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bunnibytz.bsky.social
It's almost like they're trying to tell us something...

ht: @magacultslayer.bsky.social
jonjamin.bsky.social
JK Shitbag seems like the type of woman who would use the n word if enough of her supporters suggested she could.
jonjamin.bsky.social
Oh you know I’m always down. I’m just too far away 😭
jonjamin.bsky.social
And yet, the swifties made the leap lol
jonjamin.bsky.social
Come ooooooon. I’ve seen posts from people saying that she’s this generation’s Michael Jackson and the brutality on both sides in the comments were so gross.
jonjamin.bsky.social
Dear Swifties,

Would you consider yourself a normal fan or an intense fan of Taylor Swift?

By normal I mean, capable of having healthy discourse about Taylor.
By intense I mean, hyper reactive to any negative comment or criticism about Taylor.

I’m trying to see if you’re worse than Star Wars fans
jonjamin.bsky.social
For you I shall take an edible this evening 😘
jonjamin.bsky.social
One day I’ll get high enough to really discuss my thoughts about sex and our community 🫣😬
jonjamin.bsky.social
Oh and happy ATL Pride! I have terrible social anxiety so you’ll more than likely never see me out there but if that’s my only way to find a husband in this city then eventually I work up my courage to put myself out there with all of my weirdness and baggage 🤪🏳️‍🌈
jonjamin.bsky.social
So huge tl;dr

Sometimes it can take a few decades and missed life stages before you can start loving yourself and being who you truly are… but it’s worth the wait.

Happy National Coming Out Day and keep making the straights mad for existing in a world where they can’t live without us! ❤️❤️❤️
jonjamin.bsky.social
Add being r***d, terrible bouts of mental health issues, intensive therapy, medication, a pandemic, and time and I can finally live as an out queer man who left the church and is fighting every day to be my authentic self. (6/?)
jonjamin.bsky.social
My entire identity was set in that church so I was terrified of actually coming out to people I loved because I didn’t know how to exist without them or the community that I was raised around.

It literally took me moving to the UK when I was 26 to finally start exploring my sexuality. (5/?)
jonjamin.bsky.social
It was exciting and kind of inspiring to see people come into their truth but I determined for myself that I wouldn’t have the courage to declare myself as queer like that that because I don’t trust others the way that they do. (4/?)
jonjamin.bsky.social
So as a teenager/young adult I would silently and anxiously watch each year to see if someone else would have the courage to come out publicly from our “cult” on social media. And of course I would also very anxiously wait to see how people would respond to them. (3/?)
jonjamin.bsky.social
I grew up in an intense non-denominational church which can absolutely be described as a cult. So like most queer kids growing up the the southern US, I have YEARS of religious trauma and repression that I’m still sifting through. (2/?)
jonjamin.bsky.social
National Coming Out Day is such a mixed bag for me. I came out to my parents as a teenager when they were struggling to understand my mental health issues but I’ve slowly been coming out to other family and friends for the last 15 years. (1/?)
jonjamin.bsky.social
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I feel seen
jonjamin.bsky.social
I need to do homework today but I’m so sleepy. Come cuddle me daddies 🥺
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squallleonhart.gay
Idc what other identities you’re at the intersection of but if you as first and foremostly a white person are policing what is and isn’t a microaggression to a person of color then you 🎼are🎶part🎵of🎶the🎵problem🎶