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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 2d

I realized people never loved me for me.. It was just the way I showed up for them, the way I came thru when everyone else didn't, the way my mindset stimulated theirs, the way I looked pass their flaws and wanted the best for them, the way I was loyal no matter what...

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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 2d

Going through things on my own is why i've become such an independent person. i'm trying to recover from things i keep to myself. trying to silence the thoughts i dont talk about and mend wounds that i dont show. i'm trying to heal. because i know that nobody got me like i got me

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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 2d

We PROBABLY could have came back from the issue we had, But it was the way you moved afterwards that let me know why I couldn’t have you back around me. If your so called "loyalty" or
"realness" changed cause you were mad, you was never real and can stay from around me !

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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 2d

If you cheating on a woman who giving you her body, putting food in your stomach, money in ya pockets, or just even a chest to lay on and vent to. YOU CANT BE TRUSTED.. How the fuck am I gon trust a nigga who turn his back on someone who does everything for him for NOTHING in return..

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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 3d

He's not taking u on dates, buying u flowers or anything romantic because he's just not into u. The brokest man will take u to a movie and buy u flowers. It’s not that he isn’t romantic. He just doesn't see that for u. If u express how u like to be loved and he doesn't adjust… well now u know.

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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 3d

If we're together and I have to ask for anything, I don't want it. Relationships in this generation are so corny. Ya'll dont plan dates, sentimental gestures, surprises nothing. Just mediocre sexual relations, bare communication and fake happiness. Can’t even do bare minimum expectations 🤦🏽‍♀️

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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 4d

I don't know who needs to hear this but take a break and go be alone from everybody and go get your thoughts together. You can find yourself around negative and draining energy and that can have an effect on you without you even realizing it… self love and peace is everything. Go take care of that.

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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 4d

There’s loving men out here, men who will sit and listen to you while you talk about something that bothered you. There are men out there that will take accountability and apologize. Men that will make you feel appreciated. You don't have to go through years of trauma, it is out there I promise you.

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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 5d

Maturing is realizing that overplaying your part in people's life to prove your loyalty and love is only proving how much you don’t value yourself. Deal with people how they deal with you. Rarely, barely, and accordingly.

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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 5d

I’d be lying if I said I didn't get in my feelings about the way people treat me, but I’ve learned it's life and everybody isn’t going to move like me, everybody not going to show the same love that I show... but for that reason alone I know I’ll be okay.

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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 6d

I'm enjoying me, rn. I'm hurting, I'm healing. I'm evolving, i'm releasing. I'm setting boundaries & staying firm. Im being consistent w the things I need & want. I'm getting to know me all over again.

It's RAW & TRANSPARENT, I'm loving every minute of it. I love this for me!

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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 6d

I sat and watched everybody pick who they wanted to over me, and I still remained the same simply because I knew when I started picking ME over EVERYTHING it was a wrap and there’s no coming back from that! you gotta leave people to the one's they think so highly of.

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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 7d

Baby I done started over so many times idc about losing nothing or nobody! I promise you I'll be ok! When you’re at a place where you didn't have nobody but God it shows you how resilient you are. I'll start over from scratch any day and end up with more than what I lost. Losing you won’t scare me.

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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 7d

I think I won't date again for a while, l just hate being so in love and getting so comfortable with someone then have to move on. They know my body, my secrets & all about me and I don't like that. Love is actually scary fr. You really don't know what's real & what's fake anymore, I'm cool off it.

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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 8d

I just don't want to be around a lot of people no more. I talk to who I wanna talk to and that's it. This year has taught me NOT to be cool with everybody. I DONT like everybody in my space now. People really do be weird, negative, messy, and fake. I stay to myself and go about my business and life.

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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 8d

A lot of men end up old and lonely asl cause they never did right by the woman God put in their lives for a reason. Keep doing people dirty thinking everyone is replaceable you'll see later in life and regret it fr

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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 9d

If I choose to cut you out of my life over something "simple" understand that it wasn't the situation, it is just your last strike. Sometimes it's not what you do, it's how tired I am of going through the same things and seeing it doesn’t bother you that it’s hurting me.

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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 9d

Love isn't enough for me anymore. I need you to respect me. I need you to support me. I need you to reassure me.
I need to know you won't give up on me. I need you to value me. I need you to be gentle with me. I need to feel safe with you so I’ll be the softest version of me.

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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 10d

I realized I had to let him go, he was unbothered watching me lose my mind over his choices and lies. I lost myself trying to fight for something that was dead to begin with, all I ended up doing was draining myself. The more chances you give someone the more they will take advantage of you.

Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 10d

Once I mentally separate myself from you, you'll never get the same me again! I'm somebody you gotta do right the first time because my mental detachment doesn't allow reconnection! Bc we both grown and it's hard to make sense out of another grown person trying to play in my face…

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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 11d

Sometimes you're just not that girl a 🥷🏽 wanna change for and THAT'S OKAY! Life goes on and you meet new people. Stop tryna force it and focus on YOU.
You'll drive yourself crazy tryna figure out why he refuses to speak your love language. What's for you will flow so naturally and effortlessly.

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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 11d

When someone does you dirty and you still love them that sht eats you up! Especially when they play the victim. It doesn't matter how much you try to move on. It still fcks w you. When you have a good heart, loyalty means everything to you. Getting fcked over will put you in a different head space!

Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 12d

don't play both sides with me, on my soul you don't have to spare me, no matter what our bond is. Go with yo move and make sure it's your best cause ain't no coming back no matter what the situation is!! friendships, relationships,
family, it’s dead 😴 that door will be closed

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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 12d

some people will never see any wrong in their actions, you could be crying and heartbroken trying to explain to them the pain they've caused you and they'll either turn it on you or sit there confused bc they don't think they did anything wrong, nothing you say will matter just leave those ppl alone

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Malayshia 💋 @justsimplymj.bsky.social · 13d

Never understood how a man can lay up w different women. Touch em, hug em, grab em the same… no woman is the same… I don't get it? Bc I could never. Once I like you that's what I want… the way you smell, feel, touch me, etc… I can’t do two, three, multiple men. That’s just not me and never will be.

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