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Spacey Kacey
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Ahhhhhh | working in the games industry | I sometimes make the art | I sometimes take the hormones | kinda dumb | now available in Seattle | 18+ minors keep out

Pronouns: take a hint
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Beware the effects of working in videogames
Admitting with shame that I used one of the puppy pads I got for dilation to safely eat soup in bed
November 26, 2025 at 4:52 AM
Yesterday a little old lady surprised me from behind in a book store, then told me "your hair is lovely. you know [author's name i forgot] says redheads are descended from the aliens"
November 26, 2025 at 2:29 AM
Probably not great that the closest analogy for my trans womanhood i can think of atm is sisyphus. There's this ideal at the top of the hill I'll never achieve and pushing up the hill is often extremely painful and difficult, but the only option i can imagine is letting the boulder crush me
November 25, 2025 at 9:01 PM
Someday trans people will be able to discuss differing opinions/feelings about an aspect of transness without it becoming discourse. Definitely, it'll happen
November 25, 2025 at 7:01 PM
For better or worse, Glen Powell is a version of Tom Cruise that is self aware about seeming insane
November 25, 2025 at 6:27 PM
One of the stupidest effects of childhood trauma for me is that I can't enjoy mac and cheese. I will not go into why, just that the thought of it near my mouth makes me want to dry heave
November 25, 2025 at 5:36 PM
I like the work of Shuzo Oshimi because I too am depressed, very obviously trans, and like drawing faces
November 25, 2025 at 6:18 AM
Based on my limited exposure to Chainsaw Man and DanDanDan, part of the average anime fans wish fulfillment involves being bullied by multiple women
November 25, 2025 at 6:05 AM
Its probably not an indicator of a mentally well brain that twice while explaining my thoughts or things that have happened to me ive made my current therapist cry.

Probably an even worse indicator that both times it happened it kinda made me feel like a god.
November 25, 2025 at 3:41 AM
My therapist made me watch a trans mental health video and I could see the fur tail in the background of the doll talking
November 25, 2025 at 3:16 AM
I'll only judge someone for having a cartoon/anime profile pic if that pic is AI. If you can't even be bothered to find an actual picture of an anime girl or furry why should I bother with your input?
November 24, 2025 at 9:12 PM
Reposted by Spacey Kacey
[pointing to a jawline I’ve seen on a thousand cis women] im doomed forever
November 24, 2025 at 6:59 PM
I can tell i still have catholic brain rot because its honestly been very helpful for dilating regularly for me to think of it as a form of self flaggelation
November 24, 2025 at 6:12 PM
Been feeling extremely asexual since getting bottom surgery almost a month and half ago, and tbh getting worried about it. Less for my own sake/enjoyment, and more a growing fear that without that part of myself to offer I am worth a lot less as person people wanna be around.
November 24, 2025 at 5:56 PM
youtu.be/Keg3O7JJ8uw?...

On brand that id pick the TMBG song about disassociating and being depressed
November 24, 2025 at 5:47 PM
ED Rules Everything Around Me
November 24, 2025 at 5:20 PM
Can say something about 70s Paul Schrader without anyone getting mad?
November 24, 2025 at 10:40 AM
I know im a girl cuz i dont like beer(that's how gender works right?)
November 24, 2025 at 6:57 AM
Yeah yeah yeah ur-fascism is is a good essay, but I think Umberto Eco could hang with the hyperonline transexuals cuz he wrote a blog post about how Macs are Catholic and MS-Dos is Protestant

www.agonia.net/index.php/pr...
Prose - : - The Holy War: Mac vs. DOS by Umberto Eco
Prose - <em></em>: - The Holy War: Mac vs. DOS by Umberto Eco
www.agonia.net
November 24, 2025 at 5:20 AM
Flashing back to the one time a dude on grindr opened with "I love trans woman. My mom is actually trans. I live with her tho, so can you host?"
November 24, 2025 at 3:32 AM
As someone whose brained was warped early by pro-ana stuff and still struggles a lot with ED/BDD, its been less helpful to despise these parts of me and the internet than to see it as addiction that I need the tools to deal with, and one downstream from larger issue of transphobia and misogyny
I have a longstanding bee in my bonnet about how differently pro-anorexia sites are talked abt compared to close analogues that are more masc coded, like 4chan or incel subreddits.
November 24, 2025 at 2:15 AM
Ashamingly having to admit to a group of trans lesbians that I actually like boys
November 24, 2025 at 1:51 AM
Am I a centrist?
November 23, 2025 at 11:27 PM
Dave Chappelle Roan
November 23, 2025 at 11:08 PM
Genuine question for more historically knowledgeable folks: when Gerry Stubbs(first openly gay man in congress) was in office, did he give like a thousand interviews about how the gay community needs to be less uppity about the whole "having rights" thing?
November 23, 2025 at 10:47 PM