Luna Vikka
@lunavikka.bsky.social
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DJ - Specializing in Psychedelic Trance / 36 / She/Her / Free minded / Taken by: @farinvikka.bsky.social / MtF / Community & DJ judge/management Staff @placeholderclub.bsky.social
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lunavikka.bsky.social
You're not alone in that.

If you're willing to have civil conversation about that, really feel free to msg me. I might be able to help you understand and feel ease in all of this.

Emotions, hmm. Complicated stuff.
lunavikka.bsky.social
When I saw it at first I though it was his, then that it's more. But in fact I don't know what was your intention beyond that you've done this all on purpose, knowing what you're doing.

My ears are open as I am curious to get to know your reasons.

Tho we could just talk privately if you want.
lunavikka.bsky.social
Seeing this gives me very mixed feelings.
lunavikka.bsky.social
Otherwise I wouldn't feel strong enough emotions to bother engaging in all of that and I am already paying the price of defending Farin.

I didn't had to, AT ALL.

But I know him, he is worthy all of that and I can understand his behavior due to circumstances he had. One just need to listen.
lunavikka.bsky.social
Would you want to let the world know about fuck up of this magnitude if that was you doing it?

It's not easy nor anything anybody would like the world to know. But they do now.

Do Farin have a chance? I doubt, but maybe. Time will tell and I know he is a good person if given a chance.
lunavikka.bsky.social
No, I don't means reasons behind why as people clearly don't care about those anyway

I mean Farin would still receive all the hatred he is receiving now over "having a relationship with still a minor" as that's all people see and care about

Tho if anybody wants to know details is best to ask Farin
lunavikka.bsky.social
I think I am gonna disagree, he would receive same label, same hatred. But even if you're correct, we will never know.
lunavikka.bsky.social
When after so many years of hearing how this community is about love and care and look... Farin needs some support now and what he is receiving? Hatred and bans left and right as well as betrayals

He is broken and I know how is REALLY is and I don't care how much I will lose. I believe in something
lunavikka.bsky.social
You're right, they don't. And I know what I am doing is lost case from the start. And probably don't helping, at least trying to show different perspective.

It's sad and infuriating that all people see are that "he done it" and ignoring the reasons behind why.
lunavikka.bsky.social
So he did public statement. Is this is good enough for showing that he DO understand and that he DO WANT to be better?

And as we could all expect that statement is seen as proof of guilt and used against him instead seeing this as desire to show that he want to be better.
lunavikka.bsky.social
People like this? So people who fucked up in their lives so badly that all they can do is just commit suicide as society won't allow for redemption. That's just cruel and I will be giving people like Farin chance to just live and prove that they learned from mistake and became better people.
lunavikka.bsky.social
And after everything what Farin has done for you this is how you say thanks? Straightforward backstabbing him, betraying and suddenly calling he is not welcome? And I too gifted you a dinner when Farin was visiting you.

Betrayal like this is far worse than what Farin ever done.
lunavikka.bsky.social
You knew Farin's story as we all, you seemed okay with it. Now He've done public statement as a sign that he indeed want to do better and be better and yet people using this as weapon against him proving what he said about doing so was correct.
lunavikka.bsky.social
What's going on out of the sudden? You're like second person I see posting pretty much exact same thing, minus the club.
lunavikka.bsky.social
Again: People don't talk with Farin, don't offers him support, nor going to more therapies or something, straight up hatred and banning. No empathy, no understanding, just jumping.

Sorry for being like that, somebody has to have different take and mine is

I just wish people to give him fair chance
lunavikka.bsky.social
The younger person were 17 and 9 months old.

Just 3 months done a difference between "nobody giving a fuck as they are of age" and "pedophile who takes advantage of children and should be locked up"

All the hatred toward Farin just because of mere 3 months, THIS is wild to me to think about.
lunavikka.bsky.social
One side trying to just move on and live their life in peace while other keep chasing them no matter the time passage.

One side done just one thing wrong and now will have no life but to be fair I dunno how second side looks like.
lunavikka.bsky.social
Mere 3 months done all the difference. Otherwise nothing of that would be happening and suddenly Farin wouldn't be taking advantage of young people because in eyes of law he would be adult. These 3 months and the differences they make really are fascinating to study.
lunavikka.bsky.social
You're suggesting that there is potentially more incidents but neither of us knows about it, making it this one the only one.

I'd say he is facing that now, you can say "finally". Loosing friends, being banned left and right, having depression.

And to think if he was 18, nobody would bat an eye.
lunavikka.bsky.social
I think I am tired at this point, can't read... yea, after reading this again... yea... that's pretty much is blackmailing
lunavikka.bsky.social
Then let's just move our ways and let each other just live.

Both sides or all of them suffered enough.

This battle won't serve any good to you, me, him or Farin.

Resolve will, so we all can just move on.
lunavikka.bsky.social
I get it that you hate Farin for what he've done, no matter the reasons. For me tho, context and circumstances DO matter as without these there would be no action.

I dunno if public statement from him will do more good or bad but it feels like best he can do at this point of escalation.
lunavikka.bsky.social
Are there to your or anybody else knowledge?

Honestly... at this point it feels like you trying to force to paint him evil.

I will say again that he shown genuine pain during our IRL meeting at NFC so I know, I almost broke up with him because of that but I've stayed.
lunavikka.bsky.social
To me looks like simple requesting for something. Blackmailing is threatening someone, Farin doesn't threaten anybody here. There is no "Do this... OR ELSE..."
lunavikka.bsky.social
That's true.

I don't think he will ever be even thinking about getting close to younger people. Tho even after roaming free there was no new incident involving minors.

I get it you feel grudge toward Farin but he is human being too with his own trauma.