Martin Baker
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Fran & Marty live 3k miles apart. Our book HIGH TIDE LOW TIDE inspires others supporting a friend with mental illness. Posts are Marty's. He/him/his.
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So What If You Don't Have a Workplace? #WMHD Is for You Too

#WorldMentalHealthDay is focused on mental health in the workplace but what does workplace mental health mean in a world where not everyone has or wants a traditional workplace?

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So What If You Don't Have a Workplace? WMHD Is for You Too
No one is too far away to be cared for or to care. Inspiring those who support a friend living with mental illness.
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[new] So What If You Don't Have a Workplace? #WMHD Is for You Too

Your day may not begin and end with a commute to the office. Your week or month may not begin or end with a paycheck. Nevertheless, your mental health and your needs are important.

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So What If You Don't Have a Workplace? WMHD Is for You Too
No one is too far away to be cared for or to care. Inspiring those who support a friend living with mental illness.
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On our blog tomorrow (Wed) we have a new post ahead of #WorldMentalHealthDay. In the meantime, here's another look at "I Wish Our Friendship Could Keep You Safe But I Know it Can't. And That's Okay."

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I Wish Our Friendship Could Keep You Safe But I Know it Can't. And That's Okay.
No one is too far away to be cared for or to care. Inspiring those who support a friend living with mental illness.
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#MondayBlogs Seven Hours on Sun-beds (I'm Not a Beach Person)

Sometimes, being a supportive friend means sitting with them through their darkest moments. And sometimes, it means sitting with them on a beach helping them relax.

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#Poros #Greece #SelfCare
Seven Hours on Sun-beds (I'm Not a Beach Person)
No one is too far away to be cared for or to care. Inspiring those who support a friend living with mental illness.
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[newish] Seven Hours on Sun-beds (I'm Not a Beach Person)

Sometimes, being a supportive friend means sitting with them through their darkest moments. And sometimes, it means sitting with them on a beach helping them relax.

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#Poros #Greece #SelfCare
Seven Hours on Sun-beds (I'm Not a Beach Person)
No one is too far away to be cared for or to care. Inspiring those who support a friend living with mental illness.
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On our blog tomorrow (Wednesday) we'll look at why it's not always easy to relax, even when you're sitting on a beautiful beach. In the meantime, here's a related post: "Togetherness Apart: Walking on the Beach With Friends."

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Togetherness Apart: Walking on the Beach With Friends
No one is too far away to be cared for or to care. Inspiring those who support a friend living with mental illness.
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#MondayBlogs Every Grey Hair Is a Badge: Fifteen Life Prompts by Holly Hatam

"Every grey hair is a badge. Every wrinkle, a receipt for the life I’ve lived." (Holly Hatam)

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Every Grey Hair Is a Badge: Fifteen Life Prompts by Holly Hatam
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“Don’t say, ‘Let me know if there is anything I can do.’ People rarely feel comfortable saying, ‘Yes, my laundry.’ Instead pick something you are willing to do & then ask her permission.””: buff.ly/DmJSaF7

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31 Tips for Helping Your Chronically Ill Loved One
12. "Allow them to use humor to cope with their illness, but be careful about joining along."
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Tomorrow (Wed) on our blog I'm sharing my responses to 15 life prompts by illustrator and author Holly Hatam @hollyhatam.bsky.social.

In the meantime, here's a short story of mine from years ago.

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#fiction #shortStories
Of Diaries and Dreams: The Hundred Stories
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TW: Mention of suicide and self-harm

[new] Ouchies! When Little Things Hurt a Lot

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Tomorrow (Wednesday) on our blog we'll have a new post about how little things often hurt a lot. In the meantime, here's another look at making a difference In the world, one starfish at a time.

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Call Me Another Thrower: Making a Difference In the World One Starfish at a Time
No one is too far away to be cared for or to care. Inspiring those who support a friend living with mental illness.
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Today is #InternationalChocolateDay so here's our new post on the role of #chocolate in #friendship 😊🍫😊

"There is nothing better than a friend, unless it is a friend with chocolate."
— Linda Grayson

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First Munchie / Last Rolo: Little (Chocolate) Things Mean a Lot
No one is too far away to be cared for or to care. Inspiring those who support a friend living with mental illness.
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[new] First Munchie / Last Rolo: Little (Chocolate) Things Mean a Lot

"There is nothing better than a friend, unless it is a friend withchocolate."
— Linda Grayson

Many thanks to my friend Sophie for inspiring this post for #InternationalChocolateDay 🍫

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First Munchie / Last Rolo: Little (Chocolate) Things Mean a Lot
No one is too far away to be cared for or to care. Inspiring those who support a friend living with mental illness.
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Tomorrow (Saturday) is #InternationalChocolateDay and I'll be sharing a new blog post celebrating the role of #chocolate in #friendship. In the meantime, here's another look at Little, Big: Making Us Happy, Making Us Wise.

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Little, Big: Making Us Happy, Making Us Wise
No one is too far away to be cared for or to care. Inspiring those who support a friend living with mental illness.
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TW: Mention of suicide

For #WorldSuicidePreventionDay we’ve compiled a selection of relevant articles we’ve shared over the past few years.

Selected Articles for World Suicide Prevention Day

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Selected Articles for World Suicide Prevention Day
No one is too far away to be cared for or to care. Inspiring those who support a friend living with mental illness.
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Tomorrow (Wednesday) on our blog we take a look at the most popular posts in the past month (August). In the meantime, here's another look at managing hope and expectation with chronic illness.

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Everything Is (Not Always) Possible: Managing Hope and Expectation With Chronic Illness
No one is too far away to be cared for or to care. Inspiring those who support a friend living with mental illness.
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