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When slave discomfort emerges as irritation, I'm not provoked and I don't respond with power. Replying "I see that you're in pain" shifts us to the real issue and models the metacognition and compassion she's developing. Your mastery isn't all authority, structure: it can also be master-level skills
a man in a suit and tie says mastery
ALT: a man in a suit and tie says mastery
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January 1, 2026 at 2:32 PM
When slave discomfort emerges as irritation, I'm not provoked and I don't respond with power. Replying "I see that you're in pain" shifts us to the real issue and models the metacognition and compassion she's developing. Your mastery isn't all authority, structure: it can also be master-level skills
When you add M/s to a pre-existing relationship, consider how to translate your physical rapport, like how you show affection, or how you sit together, into something evocative of your M/s style, and keep both. Call them "low protocol" and "high protocol", if you want to use the hot M/s terminology
a blue background with a green button that says power
ALT: a blue background with a green button that says power
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December 23, 2025 at 12:48 PM
When you add M/s to a pre-existing relationship, consider how to translate your physical rapport, like how you show affection, or how you sit together, into something evocative of your M/s style, and keep both. Call them "low protocol" and "high protocol", if you want to use the hot M/s terminology
Master phrasing Monday:
"There's no way to get this wrong"
"There's no way to get this wrong"
a woman in a leopard print dress says there 's nothing to be careful for .
ALT: a woman in a leopard print dress says there 's nothing to be careful for .
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December 15, 2025 at 5:28 PM
Master phrasing Monday:
"There's no way to get this wrong"
"There's no way to get this wrong"
In M/s, those notes you leave for yourself in strange places and won't understand later, escalate #girlpellets
November 26, 2025 at 3:28 PM
In M/s, those notes you leave for yourself in strange places and won't understand later, escalate #girlpellets
Congratulating my slave on 69 rectal inseminations! #milestones
November 17, 2025 at 2:02 PM
Congratulating my slave on 69 rectal inseminations! #milestones
I know she's around here somewhere
November 13, 2025 at 2:31 PM
I know she's around here somewhere
We're meeting tomorrow for Open Topics, contact me if you need the address. Some examples that often come up, but go differently with every group:
- collars & collaring practices
- marriage after M/s
- how to get started with M/s
- M/s & recovery (ED, trauma)
- poly + M/s intersections
- collars & collaring practices
- marriage after M/s
- how to get started with M/s
- M/s & recovery (ED, trauma)
- poly + M/s intersections
a barbie doll with blonde hair and blue eyes says oh my
ALT: a barbie doll with blonde hair and blue eyes says oh my
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October 25, 2025 at 1:16 PM
We're meeting tomorrow for Open Topics, contact me if you need the address. Some examples that often come up, but go differently with every group:
- collars & collaring practices
- marriage after M/s
- how to get started with M/s
- M/s & recovery (ED, trauma)
- poly + M/s intersections
- collars & collaring practices
- marriage after M/s
- how to get started with M/s
- M/s & recovery (ED, trauma)
- poly + M/s intersections
I caned my girl at the master/slave tea party, as she poured my tea. She didn't spill any
tea is being poured into a cup on a saucer
ALT: tea is being poured into a cup on a saucer
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October 11, 2025 at 1:08 PM
I caned my girl at the master/slave tea party, as she poured my tea. She didn't spill any
MAsT ATX loves a shiny service tray, but as a D-type, I remember the time I was silently handed a drink from offscreen during a professional conference call, and the time I had a drink put down on the bar before me without a word while talking to a contest judge. Thank you for the service flex ♥️♥️♥️
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October 10, 2025 at 2:26 PM
MAsT ATX loves a shiny service tray, but as a D-type, I remember the time I was silently handed a drink from offscreen during a professional conference call, and the time I had a drink put down on the bar before me without a word while talking to a contest judge. Thank you for the service flex ♥️♥️♥️
It's out! My second essay for Raven Kaldera, "Reparenting M/s", is now published in his compilation on Master/skave relationships with ADHD: "Distracted Dominance and Service with Squirrels!"
alfredpress.com/adhd-and-pow...
alfredpress.com/adhd-and-pow...
Distracted Dominance and Service with Squirrels: ADHD and Power Exchange | Alfred Press
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September 30, 2025 at 3:50 PM
It's out! My second essay for Raven Kaldera, "Reparenting M/s", is now published in his compilation on Master/skave relationships with ADHD: "Distracted Dominance and Service with Squirrels!"
alfredpress.com/adhd-and-pow...
alfredpress.com/adhd-and-pow...
Non-TPE, non-24/7 M/s is valid M/s. We stay in our lanes with phrases like "I support your choices" and we change lanes with phrasing like, "would you like to put that under management?"
a man with a beard and sunglasses is driving a convertible car .
ALT: a man with a beard and sunglasses is driving a convertible car .
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September 20, 2025 at 10:25 AM
Non-TPE, non-24/7 M/s is valid M/s. We stay in our lanes with phrases like "I support your choices" and we change lanes with phrasing like, "would you like to put that under management?"
When asked, "what needs are too much?" about a hypothetical slave seeking a dynamic, remember to reject the premise
D-types are the reverse of the same coin: similar backstories, yet somehow often dodging questions of fitness when we could have asked, "what traits disqualify a D-type for me?"
D-types are the reverse of the same coin: similar backstories, yet somehow often dodging questions of fitness when we could have asked, "what traits disqualify a D-type for me?"
a close up of a stuffed animal with the word hello written on it
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September 6, 2025 at 2:11 PM
When asked, "what needs are too much?" about a hypothetical slave seeking a dynamic, remember to reject the premise
D-types are the reverse of the same coin: similar backstories, yet somehow often dodging questions of fitness when we could have asked, "what traits disqualify a D-type for me?"
D-types are the reverse of the same coin: similar backstories, yet somehow often dodging questions of fitness when we could have asked, "what traits disqualify a D-type for me?"
ONLINE 7/31, 5:30-7:00 PM CDT! "The Invisible Collar: Psychological Bonding and Attachment in Power Exchange"
Join us on Zoom for this online meeting:
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Fetlife Event: fetlife.com/events/1839070
Join us on Zoom for this online meeting:
us02web.zoom.us/j/8239112941...
Fetlife Event: fetlife.com/events/1839070
a cartoon mouse is standing next to a bottle of medicine
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July 31, 2025 at 4:47 PM
ONLINE 7/31, 5:30-7:00 PM CDT! "The Invisible Collar: Psychological Bonding and Attachment in Power Exchange"
Join us on Zoom for this online meeting:
us02web.zoom.us/j/8239112941...
Fetlife Event: fetlife.com/events/1839070
Join us on Zoom for this online meeting:
us02web.zoom.us/j/8239112941...
Fetlife Event: fetlife.com/events/1839070
This weekend's MAsT ATX meeting is OPEN TOPICS: bring your spicy questions! Contact organizer for event info
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ALT: a woman is sitting at a table with plates of food and a nick logo behind her
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July 25, 2025 at 2:17 PM
This weekend's MAsT ATX meeting is OPEN TOPICS: bring your spicy questions! Contact organizer for event info
A less experienced ballroom dance leader can dance with such a skilled follower that his lead feels unnecessary: she's got it for them without the guiding pressure of his intent, to appearances. But in M/s, that guiding pressure IS the "it" to get, likely the point for you both, and not optional
a woman in a red dress is dancing with a man in a suit
ALT: a woman in a red dress is dancing with a man in a suit
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July 9, 2025 at 12:34 PM
A less experienced ballroom dance leader can dance with such a skilled follower that his lead feels unnecessary: she's got it for them without the guiding pressure of his intent, to appearances. But in M/s, that guiding pressure IS the "it" to get, likely the point for you both, and not optional
Girl Feeder™ dropped! +Bluey snack boxes, this ADHD & disordered eating accommodation works. It's also an example of decomposing a task until slaves can succeed. At shops, I can say, "pick something for the wall", a task decoupled from actual consumption that nevertheless correlates with consumption
June 23, 2025 at 11:52 PM
Girl Feeder™ dropped! +Bluey snack boxes, this ADHD & disordered eating accommodation works. It's also an example of decomposing a task until slaves can succeed. At shops, I can say, "pick something for the wall", a task decoupled from actual consumption that nevertheless correlates with consumption
When you say things like "in M/s, our secret ingredient is TIME," your M/s audience makes noises of approval. Shit, people may clap
But calculate how many rectal ejaculations make one GALLON, to measure your dynamic in VOLUME, and now you're the weird one
#masterslave #m/s #bdsm #almostfourhundred
But calculate how many rectal ejaculations make one GALLON, to measure your dynamic in VOLUME, and now you're the weird one
#masterslave #m/s #bdsm #almostfourhundred
June 8, 2025 at 5:14 PM
When you say things like "in M/s, our secret ingredient is TIME," your M/s audience makes noises of approval. Shit, people may clap
But calculate how many rectal ejaculations make one GALLON, to measure your dynamic in VOLUME, and now you're the weird one
#masterslave #m/s #bdsm #almostfourhundred
But calculate how many rectal ejaculations make one GALLON, to measure your dynamic in VOLUME, and now you're the weird one
#masterslave #m/s #bdsm #almostfourhundred
It's important to celebrate non-escalator relationship milestones, such as anal fisting 🎉
March 16, 2025 at 12:35 AM
It's important to celebrate non-escalator relationship milestones, such as anal fisting 🎉
SIGNALING protocols help to establish and maintain a dynamic
When my girl arrives, pants off
That she strips without being told is a signal to me of her continued investment, and a signal to herself that she is my slave -- thus further enslaving herself each time
Also #pantyfetish, M/s is fun
When my girl arrives, pants off
That she strips without being told is a signal to me of her continued investment, and a signal to herself that she is my slave -- thus further enslaving herself each time
Also #pantyfetish, M/s is fun
a man in a space suit is flying through the air with the words oops there go my pants below him
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March 8, 2025 at 9:17 PM
SIGNALING protocols help to establish and maintain a dynamic
When my girl arrives, pants off
That she strips without being told is a signal to me of her continued investment, and a signal to herself that she is my slave -- thus further enslaving herself each time
Also #pantyfetish, M/s is fun
When my girl arrives, pants off
That she strips without being told is a signal to me of her continued investment, and a signal to herself that she is my slave -- thus further enslaving herself each time
Also #pantyfetish, M/s is fun
We frequently suggest starting M/s in an area that is SMALL and FUN, in an existing relationship. With sex, we don't mean "control" so much as establishing low-stakes SIGNALS
Dynamics can begin with one simple idea like, "let's find a position you'll get into, to communicate you're ready to begin."
Dynamics can begin with one simple idea like, "let's find a position you'll get into, to communicate you're ready to begin."
March 6, 2025 at 12:17 PM
We frequently suggest starting M/s in an area that is SMALL and FUN, in an existing relationship. With sex, we don't mean "control" so much as establishing low-stakes SIGNALS
Dynamics can begin with one simple idea like, "let's find a position you'll get into, to communicate you're ready to begin."
Dynamics can begin with one simple idea like, "let's find a position you'll get into, to communicate you're ready to begin."
We've renewed MAsT Austin's annual charter from MAsT International. Your new windshield stickers will be in the mail Friday, for now just kneel gently
a seal is laying on the beach with its mouth open and the words seal of approval .
ALT: a seal is laying on the beach with its mouth open and the words seal of approval .
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February 25, 2025 at 1:57 PM
We've renewed MAsT Austin's annual charter from MAsT International. Your new windshield stickers will be in the mail Friday, for now just kneel gently
MAsT ATX Meets tomorrow! Topic: "Love in Authority Imbalanced Dynamics". Hit mastatx.com to get to the event links on FB, Fet, and Google Calendar
a happy valentine 's day greeting card with two birds sitting on a branch
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February 8, 2025 at 3:02 PM
MAsT ATX Meets tomorrow! Topic: "Love in Authority Imbalanced Dynamics". Hit mastatx.com to get to the event links on FB, Fet, and Google Calendar
In your M/s dynamic(s), do you do anything special for Valentine's Day? #loveslave #m/s #masterslave
February 1, 2025 at 3:02 PM
In your M/s dynamic(s), do you do anything special for Valentine's Day? #loveslave #m/s #masterslave