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Melissa
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50 y.o. married mom to one. Owned by a horde of cats. Pagan, cross stitcher, snail mailer, fountain pen addict. Trying to survive the next four years in the USA by focusing on hobbies and my family. Formerly Measi on that old bird site. 💙💙
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Embracing the slower, analog path...
A personal reflection on the author's journey with journaling, describing the joy of starting a new journal. The text outlines the significance of journaling in reconnecting with oneself, listing criteria for the ideal journal, and detailing the author's writing process which combines free writing and guided prompts. The piece emphasizes the emotional connection to each journal filled with dreams, experiences, and self-exploration. The author plans to read through past entries on New Year's Eve, symbolizing growth and closure. The essay captures the excitement and vulnerability of chronicling thoughts in a fresh, unwritten journal.
November 7, 2025 at 1:38 PM
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I'd love to get recommendations for my to-read list in 2026. Please share your recent reading lists!
A screenshot essay titled 'My Three Favorite Books I've Read in 2025' detailing the author's reading journey after a chaotic 2020, where they struggled to maintain a reading habit. The author set a goal to read 20 books and shares their top three favorites. The first is 'This Inevitable Ruin (DCC #7)' by Matt Dinniman, praised for its engaging series and audiobooks. The second, 'The Ravenswood Witch' by Jenni Keer, noted for its atmospheric qualities and cozy feel despite some flaws. The third, 'The Last Million' by David Nasaw, recommended for its personal connection to the author’s family history and insights into post-war politics.
October 31, 2025 at 3:48 AM
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We only will get through the dark days if we support each other.
A screenshot essay titled '6 Simple Quotes That Will Remind You To Always Hold On To Compassion.' The text discusses the importance of compassion in challenging times and includes reflections on six quotes from various authors. Each quote emphasizes different aspects of compassion, such as its necessity for humanity, the importance of equal relationships, the need for action, self-compassion, commitment to practicing compassion, and the balance of giving and receiving. The essay conveys a hopeful message, aiming to inspire readers by promoting the power of compassion in both personal and communal contexts.
October 30, 2025 at 2:52 AM
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Autumn feels like an ending, but it's just the beginning.
A screenshot essay titled 'Why Autumn Feels Sad: The Season of Transformation'. The essay discusses the slow transition of autumn in New England, describing the gradual change of summer greens to vibrant hues of red and yellow before eventually dimming into browns. The author reflects on the beauty of nature's display and the somber feelings that follow as the leaves fall. Themes of death, mourning, and cultural practices related to honoring the deceased are explored. The essay contrasts the sadness of autumn's decline with the hope of renewal as days begin to lengthen after winter. It emphasizes the cyclical nature of life and transformation, likening the inevitability of death to the potential for new beginnings.
October 29, 2025 at 2:56 AM
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How are you living intentionally?
Screenshot of an essay titled "Weekend Thoughts about Making It Count" discussing the busy activities in the author's household in late October, including school, Halloween and martial arts preparations. The author reflects on their son's black belt testing and his involvement in the school Demo team for an autumn tournament. They share their experiences as a parent watching classes and engaging in personal writing. The essay highlights a memorable moment at a school event where the assistant teacher, Mr. D., is honored and expresses gratitude, followed by the lead instructor, Mr. R., encouraging the children to live with purpose. The writer feels inspired to make their life count, closing with a question for readers about their own lives.
October 26, 2025 at 2:21 AM
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Don't want to sabotage your attempt to start a journaling habit? Here are a few tips:
Screenshot essay titled 'What NOT to do when you start journaling...' offers insights on effective journaling. The author discusses the importance of not stressing over the choice of journal, expressing that both cheap and expensive journals serve the same purpose. They emphasize that there's no singular way to journal and suggest trying various styles. The author encourages utilizing free online communities for inspiration before spending on courses and reassures that it's okay if a journal remains unused for a period. Conclusively, the author highlights the joy in journaling, advocating for a personal, cozy space to write.
October 25, 2025 at 12:35 AM
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What we create collects the memories of our life journeys. Here's one of my creations:
Screenshot essay titled 'How I Learned My Stitching Was a Way of Journaling My Life'. It reflects on the journey of completing a complex cross stitch project over 12 years, from high school to adulthood, despite naysayers. The author recounts various personal milestones and emotions experienced during the stitching process, emphasizing perseverance and self-belief. The essay includes a photograph of the completed cross stitch piece taken in 2006, symbolizing the hard work and memories stitched into it.
October 23, 2025 at 1:19 AM
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October 22, 2025 at 7:22 AM
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Defining wealth isn't entirely about accumulating money.

It's about finding the joy and richness in life that sustains your soul.

Here are some ways that you can find wealth in your life even without that six figure paycheck: [THREAD]
October 22, 2025 at 1:27 AM
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Decluttering isn't just cleaning your house - it's also cleaning out your mind.
Screenshot essay titled '3 Quotes to Inspire Decluttering for Mental Clarity' discusses the author's struggle with clutter and attachment to objects stemming from a fear of abandonment. They reference three inspirational quotes: "Out of clutter, find simplicity" by Albert Einstein, emphasizing the desire for a minimalistic lifestyle; "The first step in crafting the life you want is to get rid of everything you don't" by Joshua Becker, highlighting the challenge of guilt in letting go of unneeded items; and "Clutter is not just physical stuff. It’s old ideas, toxic relationships and bad habits" by Eleanor Brownn, exploring the emotional baggage tied to physical clutter. The author reflects on the importance of recognizing and addressing both physical and mental clutter to achieve clarity and enhance their quality of life.
October 20, 2025 at 7:00 PM
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How do I want to feel?
A screenshot essay titled 'What is a personal goal worth?' featuring a reflective narrative about personal goals and self-discovery. The author discusses a morning coffee chat with a group of friends, centered around Samhain and shadow work, emphasizing the importance of releasing what no longer serves them. The text explores the relationship between goals and personal feelings, questioning the purpose of goals that do not contribute to desired emotions and life direction. The author expresses excitement about this journey into a new life chapter, particularly in relation to motherhood, and highlights the necessity of identifying applicable goals versus those that need to be released.
October 19, 2025 at 11:04 PM
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Looking to start cross stitching? Here are three great places to get started.
A screenshot essay titled 'If You’re Interested In Learning Cross Stitch, Subscribe To These 3 YouTube Channels'. The essay discusses the author's experience with cross stitching since the 1980s and highlights the value of YouTube, specifically within the ‘FlossTube’ community, for learning cross stitch. It recommends three YouTube channels for beginners: 1. '123Stitch Cross Stitch Embroidery', which offers helpful how-to videos on basic stitches and project finishing. 2. 'Caterpillar Cross Stitch', which focuses on techniques and converting photos into patterns. 3. 'Jan Hicks Creates', where the creator shares her project methods and experiences. The author encourages readers to follow their personal channel 'Geekywitch' for more insights.
October 19, 2025 at 2:08 AM
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How you can find calm and inspiration by just taking a walk.
A screenshot essay titled 'Feeling stuck? Find the momentum for change by getting outside surrounded by familiar sights.' The essay describes a reflective evening walk in downtown Boston, emphasizing the comfort and inspiration found in familiar surroundings. The author shares thoughts on past experiences and the significance of retracing old paths when feeling stagnant. It discusses how change can be subtle and gradual, using examples from nature and the evolving yet stable urban landscape. The author encourages readers to seek new experiences in familiar places to foster personal growth.
October 17, 2025 at 12:36 PM
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Sending hope to everyone. We all need a little.
A screenshot essay titled 'Enjoying a quiet evening of reflection, I find some hope.' The body text reflects on the author's experience during a weekly online event called Journal Party Live. The author describes their anticipation for this hour spent with a supportive community of friends, sharing thoughts and emotions freely. They highlight the importance of hope amidst a world that seems to be losing it, celebrating the beauty of diverse beliefs and viewpoints without conflict. The essay concludes with an expression of hope for a better future.
October 16, 2025 at 1:58 AM
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Whatever craft you enjoy, you can use it as a meditation practice. Here's how you start.
Screenshot essay titled 'How to Use Crafting as a Moving Meditation Practice'. The essay discusses how crafting can serve as a form of meditation, detailing three main routines: 1) Establishing a regular crafting schedule for consistency, suggesting at least three times a week; 2) Creating a calm and inspiring environment by minimizing distractions (like turning off phones), setting up a relaxing atmosphere with soft music or familiar shows, and ensuring comfort; 3) Setting achievable crafting goals during each session to promote mindfulness and reduce stress. The conclusion encourages embracing hobbies as a means to find peace and joy.
October 15, 2025 at 1:37 AM
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Everyone can meditate - you just need to find what works for you.
Screenshot essay titled 'Stillness is Not the Only Path: Adapting Meditation to the Everyday Lives of Modern Full-Time Employees' discusses meditation beyond traditional practices. The text outlines that meditation doesn't require silence and can be adapted to busy lifestyles. It emphasizes finding simple ways to practice meditation amidst daily routines, such as during coffee brewing, hobbies, or while commuting. The author shares personal experiences, like meditating in the shower, and encourages integrating meditation into enjoyable activities to create quiet moments for oneself. The essay concludes that the effectiveness of meditation hinges on its adaptability to an individual's life.
October 14, 2025 at 12:35 AM
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Ship 30 for 30, Day 9
Screenshot essay titled 'Three reasons I'm struggling with my Ship 30 for 30 writing, and how I'm working my way to writing confidence.' The essay reflects on feelings of inadequacy among peers in a writing cohort. The author identifies as a hobby-writer who struggles with self-doubt, feeling disconnected from the business-focused writing of others, and grappling with outdated qualifications in journalism. The essay outlines three strategies for overcoming these challenges: letting go of the desire for perfection, accepting a unique writing style, and exploring new writing techniques. The author expresses determination to overcome impostor syndrome and build confidence through sustained writing.
October 13, 2025 at 12:22 AM
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I can't control the world, but I can control how I improve myself.
Screenshot essay titled '3 Programs I'm Using to Improve Aspects of My Life'. The text discusses personal growth through three programs: Journal Party, The Sisters Enchanted, and Artist Morning. It highlights the importance of focusing on Pagan faith, self-connection, and the love of writing. Key takeaways from Journal Party include the power of writing, the freedom of expression, and supportive community dynamics. The Sisters Enchanted emphasizes self-discovery by asking 'How Do I Want to Feel?' and encourages a community format for sharing insights. Artist Morning offers a free meditation session combined with journaling, fostering a soulful collective experience. The author invites readers to join these communities and share further recommendations.
October 11, 2025 at 4:45 PM
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Want to learn to cross stitch? Here's my advice. And I'm happy to answer any questions you have!
A screenshot essay titled 'An Easy Framework for Learning Cross Stitch' featuring the author's insights on learning cross stitch over 40 years. The essay includes advice on: subscribing to magazines like 'Just Cross Stitch' for techniques, listening to experienced stitchers for appropriate beginner projects, attending classes at JoAnn, and other resources. The framework for beginners is detailed in three steps: 1) Watch various YouTube creators ('FlossTube') for different stitching styles and ask questions; 2) Get the book 'Witchy Stitching: 25 Patterns to Haunt Your Home' by the Witchy Stitcher for fundamental knowledge; 3) Embrace imperfection in early projects, acknowledging that creativity embraces flaws.
October 11, 2025 at 12:00 AM
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My simple things to feel fulfilled every day
A screenshot essay titled 'Five Daily Things that Set My Day Right'. It outlines five daily practices: 1) Journaling two to three pages each morning after other responsibilities, 2) Engaging in a daily spiritual meditation during lunch, 3) Writing handwritten letters to pen pals, 4) Chatting with family upon their return from school to maintain connection, and 5) Reading at least one book chapter daily to relieve stress. The essay emphasizes the importance of these activities for the author's daily fulfillment and ends with a question inviting readers to share their own daily joys.
October 10, 2025 at 3:14 AM
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Cross Stitch has become my way of regrounding. Here's my journey.
A screenshot essay titled 'Stitching for Stillness'. The text shares a personal narrative about the author's experiences with cross stitching, starting from childhood memories of bonding with their mother, to connecting with college friends through shared stitching sessions. The essay reflects on adventures to a craft store, the exploration of neighborhoods, and the community discovered through online and in-person interactions in the mid-2000s. The author emphasizes the joy of stitching and how it has evolved into a meditative practice, providing a sense of stillness and a break from daily life pressures.
October 9, 2025 at 2:26 AM
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Interested in journaling? Here are some things I've learned along the way.
A screenshot of an essay titled 'Three Things I Wish I'd Known When I Started Journaling'. The author shares reflections from their 30 years of journaling experience, emphasizing three key realizations. 1. Perfection is not necessary in journaling; the beauty lies in its messiness. 2. There is no single correct method to journal; flexibility in format allows for varied entries and a fulfilling writing practice. 3. Journaling is more than just recording daily events; it can facilitate emotional exploration, humor, and creativity. The closing message encourages readers to start journaling without the pressure of expectations, advocating for free expression and flow of thoughts.
October 7, 2025 at 1:00 PM
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A screenshot essay titled 'Tracking Progress: A Lesson From My Stitching Body' discusses the author's experience with cross stitching as a mindfulness practice. The essay explains how cross stitch, made up of individual X's, serves as a meditation tool amidst the chaos of modern life. The author shares their frustration with the slow progress of stitching, often leading to impatience. They introduce the concept of taking before and after photos of their projects to visually track progress, organizing these images by project and date on the computer for motivation. The essay emphasizes the calming effects of stitching, despite occasional frustrations it invokes.
October 6, 2025 at 1:00 PM
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When you can share your hobby with others, it leads to personal growth.
A screenshot essay titled 'I Just Returned from a Weekend of Cross Stitching: 3 Lessons About Communal Digital Detoxing'. The text discusses the author's experiences at cross stitch retreats, highlighting three main lessons: 1) The importance of being around like-minded individuals to recharge mental strength, 2) The benefits of regaining human connection for emotional and hormonal balance, and 3) Personal growth through in-person interactions and learning new techniques in cross stitching. The author reflects on the joy and fulfillment these retreats bring, despite the exhaustion of social interaction, emphasizing the value of real-life connections over digital ones.
October 5, 2025 at 10:40 PM
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Screenshot essay titled 'The Scotty Factor - My Best Learned Work Tip' featuring a dialogue excerpt from Star Trek III: The Search for Spock between characters Kirk and Scotty about repair time estimates. Following the dialogue, the author reflects on their 30 years of experience in administrative roles, explaining the importance of time management. They describe consistently having a busy to-do list, the need to pad time estimates for task completion, and emphasize that interruptions are inevitable, requiring additional time to refocus for high-quality, efficient work.
October 5, 2025 at 3:02 AM