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π•Ίπ–“π–žπ–π–Žπ–ˆπ–ˆπ–† β™±
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π•Ίπ–“π–žπ–π–Žπ–ˆπ–ˆπ–† β™± @onyxicca.bsky.social Β· Oct 18
Hello gamers! Increasing my reach here from Twitter, excited to connect with people who share some of my interests, including:

- World of Warcraft
- Baldur’s Gate 3
- ARPGs
- Castlevania
- Dark fantasy books, film, games
- Gamer wellness
- Vampires! πŸ¦‡
- Romantic goth culture πŸ₯€
- Empowering gamers
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π•Ίπ–“π–žπ–π–Žπ–ˆπ–ˆπ–† β™± @onyxicca.bsky.social Β· Aug 3
Isn’t it wild that 1993 felt more open minded than half the discourse we see in 2025?
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π•Ίπ–“π–žπ–π–Žπ–ˆπ–ˆπ–† β™± @onyxicca.bsky.social Β· Aug 1
Which games always survive the uninstall purge when you run out of storage? Here's mine:
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π•Ίπ–“π–žπ–π–Žπ–ˆπ–ˆπ–† β™± @onyxicca.bsky.social Β· Jul 28
Wild to cheat in a time when technology is more loyal than you are
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π•Ίπ–“π–žπ–π–Žπ–ˆπ–ˆπ–† β™± @onyxicca.bsky.social Β· Jul 28
Skip the movies for the first date. Playing a video game together is the fastest vibe check. You’ll know if they're endgame material soon enough.
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π•Ίπ–“π–žπ–π–Žπ–ˆπ–ˆπ–† β™± @onyxicca.bsky.social Β· Jul 17
Shoutout to everyone who has to wear their hair down 24/7 because putting it up gives them migraines
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π•Ίπ–“π–žπ–π–Žπ–ˆπ–ˆπ–† β™± @onyxicca.bsky.social Β· Jul 3
Genuinely, what is it about disabled and chronically ill people that makes you call their inclusion β€œwokeness”? Why do you believe they deserve less dignity and humanity? Just say it plainly if you are so sure of yourself about this.
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π•Ίπ–“π–žπ–π–Žπ–ˆπ–ˆπ–† β™± @onyxicca.bsky.social Β· Jul 1
I’m so over fireworks. With the 4th of July coming up, I can’t stop thinking about how I get alerts about fires near me daily & it’s exhausting living on edge, keeping a bag ready to evacuate, while people set off sparks for fun. Can we please update how we celebrate things?
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π•Ίπ–“π–žπ–π–Žπ–ˆπ–ˆπ–† β™± @onyxicca.bsky.social Β· Jun 28
Thinking about the Ashley Madison leak (a site for married people looking to cheat, but user data was leaked.) Researchers found those on the list were more likely to cheat in business too. If you’ll betray the person who trusts you most, it’s easier to betray others.
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π•Ίπ–“π–žπ–π–Žπ–ˆπ–ˆπ–† β™± @onyxicca.bsky.social Β· May 18
Search discipline. Let the algorithm work for you, not against you.
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π•Ίπ–“π–žπ–π–Žπ–ˆπ–ˆπ–† β™± @onyxicca.bsky.social Β· May 18
If your phone has a grip on you, use it to your advantage. That same device pulling you under can be the tool that rewires your brain. Addiction is a loop & your brain doesn’t care whether dopamine comes from something harmful or not. It just follows the signal. So change the signal.
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π•Ίπ–“π–žπ–π–Žπ–ˆπ–ˆπ–† β™± @onyxicca.bsky.social Β· May 18
Your phone isn't the villain.

It’s that we let it replace silence, rest, and presence. We stopped setting limits. Now we wake, scroll, perform, compare, spiral, repeat. The problem isn’t tech. It’s the absence of boundaries and the overstimulation we normalized.
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π•Ίπ–“π–žπ–π–Žπ–ˆπ–ˆπ–† β™± @onyxicca.bsky.social Β· May 17
Here's the link:
people.com/hero-gamer-t...
How a 'Hero' Tennessee Gamer Stopped a Mass Shooting Allegedly Being Plotted in a California Town
A young boy from Tennessee contacted authorities when he stumbled upon disturbing plans to terrorize a California school in an online chatroom -- he may have saved countless lives
people.com
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π•Ίπ–“π–žπ–π–Žπ–ˆπ–ˆπ–† β™± @onyxicca.bsky.social Β· May 17
Here's more details:
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π•Ίπ–“π–žπ–π–Žπ–ˆπ–ˆπ–† β™± @onyxicca.bsky.social Β· May 17
β€œGaming is just a waste of time.”

Tell that to the kid who stopped a mass shooting 2,000 miles away because he paid attention to chat in a game and chose to act.
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π•Ίπ–“π–žπ–π–Žπ–ˆπ–ˆπ–† β™± @onyxicca.bsky.social Β· May 13
You’re allowed to disengage. To protect your peace. To let their ignorance echo in the silence they created.

Because connection begins with respect. And if they can’t offer that, they never deserved your presence to begin with.

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π•Ίπ–“π–žπ–π–Žπ–ˆπ–ˆπ–† β™± @onyxicca.bsky.social Β· May 13
Remember this:

Your time is a currency.
Your energy is finite.

And not everyone deserves access to any of it. You don’t have to explain yourself to people who never planned to listen. You don’t owe your insight to someone committed to misunderstanding it.

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π•Ίπ–“π–žπ–π–Žπ–ˆπ–ˆπ–† β™± @onyxicca.bsky.social Β· May 13
They show up to perform, not connect. To extract attention, not exchange ideas. To argue with intent they invented, just to feed their ego.

Then they wonder why no one wants to talk to them. Why people block them. Why timelines feel tense, shallow and exhausting.

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π•Ίπ–“π–žπ–π–Žπ–ˆπ–ˆπ–† β™± @onyxicca.bsky.social Β· May 13
They don’t ask for clarity. They don’t offer good faith. And when you do clarify, they ignore it, because they were never interested in what you meant, only in feeling above it.

It’s not about truth.
It’s about control.

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π•Ίπ–“π–žπ–π–Žπ–ˆπ–ˆπ–† β™± @onyxicca.bsky.social Β· May 13
Some people don’t respond to understand you. They read your words just enough to twist them. Not because they misunderstood. But because attacking you makes them feel smarter.

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π•Ίπ–“π–žπ–π–Žπ–ˆπ–ˆπ–† β™± @onyxicca.bsky.social Β· May 11
This Mother's Day, daughters are watching. And they're deciding what they will and won't accept when their time comes.
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π•Ίπ–“π–žπ–π–Žπ–ˆπ–ˆπ–† β™± @onyxicca.bsky.social Β· May 11
These daughters aren't selfish. They're observant.

They watched their moms disappear into everyone else's needs and get thanked once a year with rushed gestures.

They're choosing differently.
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π•Ίπ–“π–žπ–π–Žπ–ˆπ–ˆπ–† β™± @onyxicca.bsky.social Β· May 11
They want Mother's Days that aren't another task for mom to coordinate. Lives where care isn't a solo sport. Relationships where "she's better at that stuff" isn't an excuse.
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π•Ίπ–“π–žπ–π–Žπ–ˆπ–ˆπ–† β™± @onyxicca.bsky.social Β· May 11
So they're holding out. Not because they hate kids or families. Because they want actual partners.

Someone who remembers appointments. Who notices when supplies run low. Who doesn't treat their own children like a favor to their wife.
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π•Ίπ–“π–žπ–π–Žπ–ˆπ–ˆπ–† β™± @onyxicca.bsky.social Β· May 11
These daughters realize: The problem isn't motherhood. It's being the only one paying attention.

They've scrolled past countless "mommy needs wine" jokes. They've also seen relationships where both people just handle what needs handling. No hero medals for basic parenting. No martyrdom required.
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π•Ίπ–“π–žπ–π–Žπ–ˆπ–ˆπ–† β™± @onyxicca.bsky.social Β· May 11
Some daughters see different dynamics though.

Friends whose dads just... know things. When school starts. What size shoes their kids wear. Their mothers don't manage everything because they don't have to.
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