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And honestly usually most other people are also dreading intiating a conversation and will end up thanking you for making the first move.
February 12, 2026 at 10:56 AM
And honestly usually most other people are also dreading intiating a conversation and will end up thanking you for making the first move.
4) if they ask a question, continue, explain quirky hobby things
5) "how about you what do you do?"
Has worked pretty well. The biggest barrier is usually the confidence to approach someone, and I deal with that by reminding myself people can just leave and excuse themselves if they want
5) "how about you what do you do?"
Has worked pretty well. The biggest barrier is usually the confidence to approach someone, and I deal with that by reminding myself people can just leave and excuse themselves if they want
February 12, 2026 at 10:56 AM
4) if they ask a question, continue, explain quirky hobby things
5) "how about you what do you do?"
Has worked pretty well. The biggest barrier is usually the confidence to approach someone, and I deal with that by reminding myself people can just leave and excuse themselves if they want
5) "how about you what do you do?"
Has worked pretty well. The biggest barrier is usually the confidence to approach someone, and I deal with that by reminding myself people can just leave and excuse themselves if they want
I'm in the same place and have kinda developed a method:
1) approach with mild compliment about their personal style
2) small talk topic
2.5) the cold it's been the cold here it's been so cold everyone is so ready to complain about the cold
3) bring up most relevant quirky hobby fact to entice
1) approach with mild compliment about their personal style
2) small talk topic
2.5) the cold it's been the cold here it's been so cold everyone is so ready to complain about the cold
3) bring up most relevant quirky hobby fact to entice
February 12, 2026 at 10:56 AM
I'm in the same place and have kinda developed a method:
1) approach with mild compliment about their personal style
2) small talk topic
2.5) the cold it's been the cold here it's been so cold everyone is so ready to complain about the cold
3) bring up most relevant quirky hobby fact to entice
1) approach with mild compliment about their personal style
2) small talk topic
2.5) the cold it's been the cold here it's been so cold everyone is so ready to complain about the cold
3) bring up most relevant quirky hobby fact to entice
Yeah. Its also hilarious I kinda stumbled on it purely by accident, I was going to go to visit a museum I regularly go to and then I look over to the side and just. Dudes in full armor fighting.
February 12, 2026 at 5:31 AM
Yeah. Its also hilarious I kinda stumbled on it purely by accident, I was going to go to visit a museum I regularly go to and then I look over to the side and just. Dudes in full armor fighting.
They do this every month so it's not like I'll never see it again but 😮💨
February 12, 2026 at 5:15 AM
They do this every month so it's not like I'll never see it again but 😮💨
Dismayed my plans to watch dudes in armor wail on each other on Valentine's Day are uprooted by a family thing 😮💨
February 12, 2026 at 4:04 AM
Dismayed my plans to watch dudes in armor wail on each other on Valentine's Day are uprooted by a family thing 😮💨
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Another oldie but goodie
February 11, 2026 at 8:56 PM
Another oldie but goodie
Genuinely sad to hear by all accounts their stuff was pretty high quality. I'm hoping I might at least have a chance at nabbing something if they have a blowout sale
It seems also they were really trying to bounce back for a while it sucks to hear
It seems also they were really trying to bounce back for a while it sucks to hear
February 11, 2026 at 10:57 PM
Genuinely sad to hear by all accounts their stuff was pretty high quality. I'm hoping I might at least have a chance at nabbing something if they have a blowout sale
It seems also they were really trying to bounce back for a while it sucks to hear
It seems also they were really trying to bounce back for a while it sucks to hear
Anyone have a spare 400 dollars
February 11, 2026 at 10:38 PM
Anyone have a spare 400 dollars
Dismayed Volante design is closing down I would kill for one of those mass effect jackets man
February 11, 2026 at 10:38 PM
Dismayed Volante design is closing down I would kill for one of those mass effect jackets man
Another oldie but goodie
February 11, 2026 at 8:56 PM
Another oldie but goodie
SHUSH YOUR KNEES STILL WORK
February 11, 2026 at 3:00 PM
SHUSH YOUR KNEES STILL WORK
Haha, perpetual insomniac so it's not like it's TOO hard for me to stay up but. I'm not pulling any more all nighters for fun anymore, lemme tell ya
February 11, 2026 at 5:24 AM
Haha, perpetual insomniac so it's not like it's TOO hard for me to stay up but. I'm not pulling any more all nighters for fun anymore, lemme tell ya
Yeah! Wish I wasn't constantly battling the urge to go to sleep at a reasonable time, but the trade off is no longer being the kind of idiot who ruins the next day with a terrible hangover!
February 11, 2026 at 5:15 AM
Yeah! Wish I wasn't constantly battling the urge to go to sleep at a reasonable time, but the trade off is no longer being the kind of idiot who ruins the next day with a terrible hangover!
How in the world did my thirties end up being my clubbing years lol
February 11, 2026 at 4:50 AM
How in the world did my thirties end up being my clubbing years lol
The worst part of trying to draw height difference smut, every time 😮💨
February 11, 2026 at 3:11 AM
The worst part of trying to draw height difference smut, every time 😮💨
Aw thank you so much 💖
And uh. Sorry about that hope your country stops being insane soon
And uh. Sorry about that hope your country stops being insane soon
February 9, 2026 at 3:50 AM
Aw thank you so much 💖
And uh. Sorry about that hope your country stops being insane soon
And uh. Sorry about that hope your country stops being insane soon
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A way old Kuvira request from Tellonym
February 8, 2026 at 3:52 AM
A way old Kuvira request from Tellonym
It's because like anyone with good taste your audience needs to know the two slabs of meat smacking against each other really truly love each other 💖
February 8, 2026 at 4:46 AM
It's because like anyone with good taste your audience needs to know the two slabs of meat smacking against each other really truly love each other 💖
Oh God mood.
Me writing the sixth completely sexless heist: ...you know I don't think this is pornography anymore
Me writing the sixth completely sexless heist: ...you know I don't think this is pornography anymore
February 8, 2026 at 4:35 AM
Oh God mood.
Me writing the sixth completely sexless heist: ...you know I don't think this is pornography anymore
Me writing the sixth completely sexless heist: ...you know I don't think this is pornography anymore
Aw thank you 💖
February 8, 2026 at 3:59 AM
Aw thank you 💖
A way old Kuvira request from Tellonym
February 8, 2026 at 3:52 AM
A way old Kuvira request from Tellonym
I looked it up it's likely just because it took longer than 30 minutes and you interrupted a sleep cycle
How the hell one is supposed to be able to just wake up perfectly between sleep cycles is a complete mystery to me though...
How the hell one is supposed to be able to just wake up perfectly between sleep cycles is a complete mystery to me though...
February 7, 2026 at 4:44 AM
I looked it up it's likely just because it took longer than 30 minutes and you interrupted a sleep cycle
How the hell one is supposed to be able to just wake up perfectly between sleep cycles is a complete mystery to me though...
How the hell one is supposed to be able to just wake up perfectly between sleep cycles is a complete mystery to me though...
It hounds you! I have basically completely disconnected from the church but it still left me with OCD and the eternal looming feeling I should feel bad all the time, it is the worst possible habit to kick. It sneaks up on you -_-
February 7, 2026 at 4:35 AM
It hounds you! I have basically completely disconnected from the church but it still left me with OCD and the eternal looming feeling I should feel bad all the time, it is the worst possible habit to kick. It sneaks up on you -_-
Man has anyone EVER felt good after a nap I swear to God everyone always feels worse
February 7, 2026 at 4:32 AM
Man has anyone EVER felt good after a nap I swear to God everyone always feels worse