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Steve Alley - Quantum Coaching
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Quantum Coach & Mental Health Advocate | Author & Artist | NLP & Hypnosis Expert
Interpretation vs Intent. Why People Destroy Connection Without Realizing It

You say one thing.They hear another.The gap between the two destroys trust, connection, and basic sociability. People look for hidden messages where there are none. They search for threats in simple words. They scan…
Interpretation vs Intent. Why People Destroy Connection Without Realizing It
You say one thing.They hear another.The gap between the two destroys trust, connection, and basic sociability. People look for hidden messages where there are none. They search for threats in simple words. They scan interactions with fear instead of presence. This creates a world where every sentence becomes a trigger and every misunderstanding becomes a war. The problem is not the words.The problem is the filter. People read with their wounds, not their ears Your brain does not hear language first.Your brain checks for danger.This is survival instinct.
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November 14, 2025 at 2:22 PM
The Formula That Bashar Taught… and Why It’s the Only One Worth Following

Forget complicated spiritual theories. Forget rituals that feel like unpaid labor. Bashar, the entity channeled by Daryl Anka, gave humanity a formula so simple most people will scroll past it thinking, “Nah, can’t be that…
The Formula That Bashar Taught… and Why It’s the Only One Worth Following
Forget complicated spiritual theories. Forget rituals that feel like unpaid labor. Bashar, the entity channeled by Daryl Anka, gave humanity a formula so simple most people will scroll past it thinking, “Nah, can’t be that easy.” That’s exactly why their life stays the same. Your higher self already knows what you came here to do. It’s screaming it through the one emotion most people ignore... excitement. Step 1: Follow Your Highest Excitement Excitement is not entertainment. It’s guidance. It’s that electric pulse when something feels right, before logic kicks in and tells you why you shouldn’t.
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November 7, 2025 at 5:37 PM
When Words lost their weight

How we inflated trauma, monetized victim-hood, and left actual damage in the clearance aisle You know what I'm talking about. Words used to mean something. Abuse. Trauma. Violence. Racism. These weren't lifestyle accessories. Now they're engagement bait, and the people…
When Words lost their weight
How we inflated trauma, monetized victim-hood, and left actual damage in the clearance aisle You know what I'm talking about. Words used to mean something. Abuse. Trauma. Violence. Racism. These weren't lifestyle accessories. Now they're engagement bait, and the people who've actually lived through hell can't get a word in edgewise. The Slow Fade Academics call it "concept creep." Whatever. Here's what happened: serious terms got stretched like a sweater three sizes too big. Started with good intentions, recognizing more kinds of harm. Ended with everything being everything until nothing meant anything.
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October 27, 2025 at 2:13 PM
You’ve Been Programmed Since Childhood — Here’s How to Rewire Your Mind and Finally Be Free

You think you’re making your own choices. You’re not.You’re reacting to your childhood programming on autopilot. That’s the truth no one wants to tell you, because if you understood it, you’d stop wasting…
You’ve Been Programmed Since Childhood — Here’s How to Rewire Your Mind and Finally Be Free
You think you’re making your own choices. You’re not.You’re reacting to your childhood programming on autopilot. That’s the truth no one wants to tell you, because if you understood it, you’d stop wasting money on endless therapy sessions and start seeing how your mind actually works. You’d finally crack the code of your own life—for free. Let’s break it down. Your Childhood Wrote the Script You’re Still Following Every time you don’t understand why life hits you the way it does, your brain goes back to your first teachers…
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October 20, 2025 at 10:12 AM
The 17-Second Manifestation Technique: A Simple Way To Build Momentum

The method outlined emphasizes focusing on a single uplifting thought for 17 seconds, extending to 68 seconds to build emotional momentum. It promotes clarity, emotional shifts, and consistent action to manifest desires. Guided…
The 17-Second Manifestation Technique: A Simple Way To Build Momentum
The method outlined emphasizes focusing on a single uplifting thought for 17 seconds, extending to 68 seconds to build emotional momentum. It promotes clarity, emotional shifts, and consistent action to manifest desires. Guided scripts and daily routines help incorporate this technique, ultimately aiming for progressive state changes and attractive outcomes.
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October 20, 2025 at 9:51 AM
Train Your Attention to Hunt, Not to Flinch

Attention theft looks harmless. Infinite scroll. Autoplay. Pop-ups that ambush you before thought arrives. Easy dopamine trains your focus to behave like prey. Fast, jumpy, anxious. Waiting for the next lure. You deserve better. Train attention to hunt.…
Train Your Attention to Hunt, Not to Flinch
Attention theft looks harmless. Infinite scroll. Autoplay. Pop-ups that ambush you before thought arrives. Easy dopamine trains your focus to behave like prey. Fast, jumpy, anxious. Waiting for the next lure. You deserve better. Train attention to hunt. I learned this the hard way. Three burnouts. A brain on fire. Healing forced a choice. Either let every shiny thing lead me by the nose, or rebuild focus like a skill. I chose the rebuild. You can choose it today. What Steals Attention Anything that arrives without effort Anything that keeps you in a loop with no clear end…
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September 27, 2025 at 2:41 PM
7 Brutal Truths About Men That Most Women Don’t Want to Hear

Attraction isn’t magic. It’s not luck. And it’s definitely not just about who has the best face card or ass in the room. Men are simple and complicated at the same time. Simple in what triggers them, complicated in what actually keeps…
7 Brutal Truths About Men That Most Women Don’t Want to Hear
Attraction isn’t magic. It’s not luck. And it’s definitely not just about who has the best face card or ass in the room. Men are simple and complicated at the same time. Simple in what triggers them, complicated in what actually keeps them. Here’s the cold, uncomfortable truth: if you don’t understand the psychology behind male attraction, you’ll keep playing the wrong game and wondering why the men you want slip away. Let’s fix that. 1. Looks get his attention. Your energy makes him stay. Yes, he notices your face, body, smile.
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September 25, 2025 at 10:48 AM
Misandry: The Hate That’s Still Socially Acceptable

Not a pity party for men. A reality check for everyone. We’ve spent years, and rightly so, unpacking misogyny. But misandry? It gets a laugh track.“Men are trash” trends on socials.“Kill all men” is now printed on coffee mugs and crop tops.“All…
Misandry: The Hate That’s Still Socially Acceptable
Not a pity party for men. A reality check for everyone. We’ve spent years, and rightly so, unpacking misogyny. But misandry? It gets a laugh track.“Men are trash” trends on socials.“Kill all men” is now printed on coffee mugs and crop tops.“All men are emotionally stunted” is modern-day brunch talk. That’s not empowerment. That’s just recycled hate in a new outfit. The Double Standard Nobody Talks About Men are constantly told to open up, be vulnerable, share their feelings.But when they do? They’re mocked. Laughed at.
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June 4, 2025 at 9:21 AM
Existential Burnout: When Your Soul Files a Restraining Order Against Your Life

Let’s cut the crap—this isn’t your average “I need a vacation” kind of tired. This is soul-deep exhaustion that no amount of self-care Sundays or peppermint tea is going to fix. You’re not tired. You’re done. Done…
Existential Burnout: When Your Soul Files a Restraining Order Against Your Life
Let’s cut the crap—this isn’t your average “I need a vacation” kind of tired. This is soul-deep exhaustion that no amount of self-care Sundays or peppermint tea is going to fix. You’re not tired. You’re done. Done performing. Done pretending. Done putting one more damn sticker on a gratitude journal that feels faker than your last Zoom smile. What It Is (And Why It Feels Like You’re Dying Inside) Existential burnout is when your internal GPS goes full static. You’ve been running on autopilot for so long, the system crashes. You don’t know who you are anymore, what you want, or why the hell you’re even here.
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May 18, 2025 at 4:02 PM
Why Modern Dating Is Failing Men (& Women)

— A Wake-Up Call From a Good Guy Tired of being ghosted, judged, or ignored?If you’re a man trying to date in today’s superficial, swipe-left culture, you’ve probably asked yourself: “What the hell is wrong with me?” Let me tell you what’s wrong —The…
Why Modern Dating Is Failing Men (& Women)
— A Wake-Up Call From a Good Guy Tired of being ghosted, judged, or ignored?If you’re a man trying to date in today’s superficial, swipe-left culture, you’ve probably asked yourself: “What the hell is wrong with me?” Let me tell you what’s wrong —The system. Not you. I’m a 44-year-old man. Overweight? Yeah.Lazy or sloppy? Hell no.Financially stable? Yup.Stylish? Always.Emotionally intelligent? Damn right. But I’ve been on dating apps for 10 years. You know how many dates I’ve had? Zero. Let that sink in.
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May 17, 2025 at 3:21 PM
Manifestation Isn’t Magic — It’s Physics: Why You’re Getting It Wrong

Manifestation Isn’t Magic — It’s Physics: Why You’re Getting It Wrong. The Law of Attraction and the Law of Intention are not about what you want, they’re about what you are.
Manifestation Isn’t Magic — It’s Physics: Why You’re Getting It Wrong
Manifestation Isn’t Magic — It’s Physics: Why You’re Getting It Wrong. The Law of Attraction and the Law of Intention are not about what you want, they’re about what you are.
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April 26, 2025 at 8:22 PM
Cognitive Glitches: The Shadow Programs Controlling Your Mind (Until Now)

You’ve been gaslit, but by your own mind. Not because it hates you. But because it's lazy, outdated, and still running Stone Age software on a quantum-level human. These aren’t just “biases.”They’re mental viruses, distorted…
Cognitive Glitches: The Shadow Programs Controlling Your Mind (Until Now)
You’ve been gaslit, but by your own mind. Not because it hates you. But because it's lazy, outdated, and still running Stone Age software on a quantum-level human. These aren’t just “biases.”They’re mental viruses, distorted filters, and emotional malware.They corrupt your decisions. Hijack your reality. And unless you know how to spot them?They’ll keep you broke, stuck, and sleeping on your own potential. But now? You’re about to see the whole damn matrix. 1. The Echo Loop (Confirmation Bias) Glitch: You search for what agrees with you and ignore what challenges you.
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April 23, 2025 at 12:49 PM
12 Brutal Life Lessons That No One Warned You About (But You Damn Well Should Know)

Life’s not a fairy tale, and there’s no magic unicorn waiting to hand you success just because you’re a good person. If you’re tired of sugarcoated affirmations and feel-good fluff that doesn’t actually help,…
12 Brutal Life Lessons That No One Warned You About (But You Damn Well Should Know)
Life’s not a fairy tale, and there’s no magic unicorn waiting to hand you success just because you’re a good person. If you’re tired of sugarcoated affirmations and feel-good fluff that doesn’t actually help, here’s the raw, unfiltered truth. These are the life lessons they should’ve taught in school, but didn’t. 1. Life Is Unfair Yeah, shocking, right? The sooner you accept that life doesn’t play fair, the faster you’ll stop wasting energy on whining and start playing your cards like a champ. Life owes you nothing. It’s your job to outwit the game.
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April 21, 2025 at 11:24 AM
You look fine. You’re still showing up. But inside? You’re drowning. That’s high-functioning burnout—exhaustion in disguise. It’s time we stop applauding survival mode and start choosing ourselves.💥

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High-Functioning Burnout: The Silent Breakdown Behind the Smile
“You look fine.” That’s the problem. High-functioning burnout doesn’t scream. It doesn’t cry in public or collapse on the floor. It smiles in meetings, answers emails at midnight, remembers birthdays, and asks how you are—while secretly hoping the world would just pause so it can finally exhale. It's the silent exhaustion that hides behind productivity. And the longer it's ignored, the louder the crash.
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April 19, 2025 at 7:16 PM
Unlocking Your Power: The Four Archetypes and How They Can Transform Your Life

Introduction Have you ever felt like different parts of yourself are in conflict—like one moment you're decisive and confident, and the next, you're lost in self-doubt? Or maybe you feel like you’re missing something…
Unlocking Your Power: The Four Archetypes and How They Can Transform Your Life
Introduction Have you ever felt like different parts of yourself are in conflict—like one moment you're decisive and confident, and the next, you're lost in self-doubt? Or maybe you feel like you’re missing something vital in your life, but can’t quite put your finger on it. That’s where the Four Archetypes—Sovereign, Magician, Warrior, and Lover—come into play. These represent the different forces within us that, when properly balanced, allow us to embody our full power, clarity, and purpose. Understanding and integrating them can be life-changing, leading to deeper self-awareness, better decision-making, and a sense of alignment with your true self.
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March 11, 2025 at 8:51 PM
Unlock the Secret to Energy, Longevity, and Vitality: The NAD+ Breakthrough You Can’t Ignore

Let’s talk about something your body is secretly obsessed with but probably isn’t getting enough of: NAD+ (Nicotinamide Adenine Dinucleotide). This powerhouse molecule is the behind-the-scenes VIP of…
Unlock the Secret to Energy, Longevity, and Vitality: The NAD+ Breakthrough You Can’t Ignore
Let’s talk about something your body is secretly obsessed with but probably isn’t getting enough of: NAD+ (Nicotinamide Adenine Dinucleotide). This powerhouse molecule is the behind-the-scenes VIP of cellular energy, brain power, muscle function, and even longevity. If you’re feeling sluggish, foggy, or just not quite your best, declining NAD+ levels might be the culprit. Why Should You Care About NAD+? Because it’s literally involved in everything. Without NAD+, your cells struggle to produce the energy needed to keep you functioning at your peak. As you age, NAD+ levels decline, and that’s where the trouble begins: slower metabolism, cognitive fog, weaker muscles, and a weakened immune system.
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March 7, 2025 at 3:19 PM
My Woman, My Heart: The Truth About Unity in Love

We live in a world that often misinterprets words, twisting them to fit narratives that breed division rather than understanding. One of the most misunderstood phrases in relationships is: "my woman." Some hear it and immediately think of…
My Woman, My Heart: The Truth About Unity in Love
We live in a world that often misinterprets words, twisting them to fit narratives that breed division rather than understanding. One of the most misunderstood phrases in relationships is: "my woman." Some hear it and immediately think of ownership, of control, of outdated patriarchal structures. But what if we’ve been looking at it all wrong? A couple is not just two separate individuals coexisting under the same roof.
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February 22, 2025 at 2:13 PM
🚀 Ready to hack your reality? Quantum Coaching isn’t just mindset work—it’s rewiring your subconscious, shifting energy, and unlocking limitless potential. Stop self-sabotage, break free, and manifest the life you actually want. 🔥 #QuantumCoaching #MindsetHack
Quantum Coaching: Hack Your Reality, Break the Rules & Take Control
What is Quantum Coaching? (And Why It’s a Game-Changer) Quantum coaching isn’t just some woo-woo term slapped on traditional coaching to make it sound cooler (though, let’s be honest, it does sound badass). It’s a transformative, deep-level approach that blends neuroscience, quantum physics, and human potential to create real, lasting change. Unlike conventional coaching that just scratches the surface, quantum coaching digs into the subconscious, rewires limiting beliefs, and taps into the unseen forces that shape our lives.
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February 4, 2025 at 3:47 PM
🌱 The Imitation Game: Unlocking the Power of Parenting 🌱
Children absorb who we are, not just what we say. Are we modeling love or passing down trauma? Learn how to break cycles & raise emotionally healthy kids. The change starts with you! 💡
The Impact of Early Childhood on Behavior
Children are natural imitators. From the moment they are born, they absorb the world around them like a sponge. The first seven years of a child’s life are particularly critical, as their subconscious mind is being programmed by everything they see, hear, and experience. By the age of five, 90% of their brain development is complete. During this time, their brain operates in a state similar to hypnosis, making them highly impressionable.
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January 29, 2025 at 11:20 AM
💡 Et si le TDAH n’était pas un trouble, mais une force ?
Et si ce qu’on appelle des « symptômes » était en réalité une façon unique et brillante de s’adapter à un monde rigide ? 🧠✨
Et si le TDAH n’était pas un trouble, mais une façon de s’adapter ?
💡 Et si le TDAH n’était pas un trouble, mais une force ? Et si ce qu’on appelle des « symptômes » était en réalité une façon unique et brillante de s’adapter à un monde rigide ? 🧠✨ 👉 L’hyperactivité ? Une lutte pour reprendre le contrôle. 👉 Les rêveries ? Une évasion mentale face aux contraintes. 👉 La procrastination ? Un mécanisme de survie face au stress. Le problème, ce n’est peut-être pas le TDAH, mais une société qui ne laisse pas assez de place à la diversité. 💬 Qu’en pensez-vous ? #Neurodiversité #TDAH #Adaptation #ChangerDePerspective
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January 28, 2025 at 11:21 AM
The Subtle Difference Between Possession and Belonging in Modern Relationships

(Or: Why Your Man's Heart Is Bigger Than His Biceps) Let's have a heart-to-heart chat about something we've all wrestled with in relationships – and no, I'm not talking about who gets the last slice of pizza (though…
The Subtle Difference Between Possession and Belonging in Modern Relationships
(Or: Why Your Man's Heart Is Bigger Than His Biceps) Let's have a heart-to-heart chat about something we've all wrestled with in relationships – and no, I'm not talking about who gets the last slice of pizza (though that's definitely relationship test material). We're diving into the tender space between possession and belonging, where many hearts have stumbled and many conversations have gone sideways.
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December 8, 2024 at 3:02 PM