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You cannot understand a system until you try to change it.
KURT LEWIN
DK: THE PSYCHOLOGY BOOK
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Our brains cannot possibly handle it. I think we have anxiety because we have unlimited amount of distraction. And though anesthetic. We don't have boredom anymore. Boredom is one of the ways we mentally process a lot of stuff.
🔻Chase Hughes
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December 21, 2025 at 5:56 PM
If you don't do that behavior – you get punishment. You're growing up in a conditional love situation. Which is really common when your parent is a narcissist. And that will make you narcissistic.
🔻HealthyGamerGG
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December 21, 2025 at 5:47 PM
And if it makes them feel proud, it means they are good parent. So this behavior that you do – determines whether they feel proud. And if they feel good- then they love you. You learn that love depends on this behavior. If you do this- you get love.
🔻HealthyGamerGG
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December 21, 2025 at 5:45 PM
And that leads to narcissism. If you grow up with narcissistic parent, the way they feel about themselves depends on how you behave. They do something, makes you do something behave in certain way which makes them feel proud.
🔻HealthyGamerGG
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December 21, 2025 at 5:43 PM
When you are not unconditionally loved, and when you the conditions are huge, your whole life is about conditional responses. Then what happens is someone becomes very attuned to things outside of them. They become focused on outside.
🔻HealthyGamerGG
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What creates a narcissist
YouTube video by HealthyGamerGG
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December 21, 2025 at 5:40 PM
A narcissist forms from conditional love. When we unconditionally love someone we teach that person that there is something within you that is good. That is independent of how you act, how you look, how you behave.
🔻HealthyGamerGG
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December 21, 2025 at 5:40 PM
When we talk about confidence – it's self confidence. It's not environment confidence, not jacked confidence, but when we become no longer dependent on the environment or who we were around or what happened. We just become comfortable with that injury.
🔻Confidence
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December 21, 2025 at 5:28 PM
Fear of judgment is also hierarchical thinking. They are going to judge me, which will put me down. So if your confidence is coming from how your environment is, then you're going to always need something – which is not confidence at all.
🔻Confidence
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December 21, 2025 at 5:26 PM
The fastest way to develop confidence is to develop a comfort with the possibility of social injury. That's: am I willing to be embarrassed, am I willing to say something that's on my mind that might cause some judgment?
🔻Confidence
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December 21, 2025 at 5:24 PM
If you pump up the fear up, you manufacture suggestibility automatically. Scroll and see new shoes, watch. It's not human who designed this. It gets revenue, let's optimize for that and then keep measuring – this gets revenue.
🔻Suggestibility
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December 21, 2025 at 5:18 PM
🎄Magische Weihnachten - St. Pölten
Magical Christmas - St. Pölten
December 21, 2025 at 4:21 PM
🎄Weihnachten in den steirischen Alpen
Christmas in the Styrian Alps
December 21, 2025 at 4:08 PM
🎄Weihnachten in den steirischen Alpen
Christmas in the Styrian Alps
December 21, 2025 at 4:02 PM
📺Wunderwelt Schweiz - Winterliches Graubünden
Wonderland Switzerland - Wintery Graubünden
December 21, 2025 at 3:57 PM
We found this house in Bray called Oakley Court that has been used for years for Hammer horror films.
It's like 1970's version of Wizard of Oz.
🎞️Strange Journey: The Story of Rocky Horror (2025)
December 21, 2025 at 2:13 PM
When you cross-dress you become powerful. Good or bad- you become the most important person in the room. For a man to forfeit his privilege, because we all commodify masculinity, you step down in power- but by doing so you step up the ladder.Paradox
🎞️Strange Journey: The Story of Rocky Horror (2025)
December 21, 2025 at 1:36 PM
🎞️Strange Journey: The Story of Rocky Horror (2025)
December 21, 2025 at 1:30 PM
📺Schönbrunner Weihnachtsgeschichten
Schönbrunn Christmas Stories
December 21, 2025 at 1:09 PM
📺Schönbrunner Weihnachtsgeschichten
Schönbrunn Christmas Stories
December 21, 2025 at 1:06 PM
December 21, 2025 at 12:39 PM
🎵Sonya Yoncheva, un Noël à Versailles
December 21, 2025 at 12:36 PM
🎤Sonya Yoncheva, un Noël à Versailles
December 21, 2025 at 11:59 AM
⚽Téléfoot
December 21, 2025 at 11:54 AM
December 21, 2025 at 9:53 AM
At times they will be disrespectful, hurt your feelings. No1 – they don't control your destiny. What they say doesn't determine who you are. Don't take that bait and get engaged in a battle that you're not suppose to fight. Get upset, waste time & energy.
✝️JOEL OSTEEN
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December 21, 2025 at 9:36 AM