Slipp3ry When Wet
@slipp3rywhenwet.bsky.social
Queer, Black, Southern organizer | Centering reproductive justice, sexual health, and pleasure for collective liberation.
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I teach sex education for the culture. This account focuses exclusively on Black sexual justice, politics, history, pleasure, and cultural commentary. I also connect my kink folks with reproductive resources whenever possible.
-Tia Savonne
I teach sex education for the culture. This account focuses exclusively on Black sexual justice, politics, history, pleasure, and cultural commentary. I also connect my kink folks with reproductive resources whenever possible.
-Tia Savonne
WEEK 5: Integration, Reflection & Rebirth
bringing it all together, embodiment, and moving forward
Day 31: Write a reflection or affirmation to close Sextober:
“I honor my body, my desires, and my right to experience joy, softness, and ecstasy — on my own terms.”
bringing it all together, embodiment, and moving forward
Day 31: Write a reflection or affirmation to close Sextober:
“I honor my body, my desires, and my right to experience joy, softness, and ecstasy — on my own terms.”
January 31, 2026 at 5:01 PM
WEEK 5: Integration, Reflection & Rebirth
bringing it all together, embodiment, and moving forward
Day 31: Write a reflection or affirmation to close Sextober:
“I honor my body, my desires, and my right to experience joy, softness, and ecstasy — on my own terms.”
bringing it all together, embodiment, and moving forward
Day 31: Write a reflection or affirmation to close Sextober:
“I honor my body, my desires, and my right to experience joy, softness, and ecstasy — on my own terms.”
WEEK 5: Integration, Reflection & Rebirth
bringing it all together, embodiment, and moving forward
Day 30: How do I define pleasure activism in my own life and community?
bringing it all together, embodiment, and moving forward
Day 30: How do I define pleasure activism in my own life and community?
January 30, 2026 at 5:01 PM
WEEK 5: Integration, Reflection & Rebirth
bringing it all together, embodiment, and moving forward
Day 30: How do I define pleasure activism in my own life and community?
bringing it all together, embodiment, and moving forward
Day 30: How do I define pleasure activism in my own life and community?
WEEK 5: Integration, Reflection & Rebirth
bringing it all together, embodiment, and moving forward
Day 29: What am I learning about the kind of lover, partner, or sexual being I want to be?
bringing it all together, embodiment, and moving forward
Day 29: What am I learning about the kind of lover, partner, or sexual being I want to be?
January 29, 2026 at 5:01 PM
WEEK 5: Integration, Reflection & Rebirth
bringing it all together, embodiment, and moving forward
Day 29: What am I learning about the kind of lover, partner, or sexual being I want to be?
bringing it all together, embodiment, and moving forward
Day 29: What am I learning about the kind of lover, partner, or sexual being I want to be?
WEEK 4: Creative, Spiritual, & Erotic Expression
writing, artistry, ritual, and erotic imagination
Day 28: What parts of me come alive when I’m in flow, turned on, or inspired?
writing, artistry, ritual, and erotic imagination
Day 28: What parts of me come alive when I’m in flow, turned on, or inspired?
January 28, 2026 at 5:01 PM
WEEK 4: Creative, Spiritual, & Erotic Expression
writing, artistry, ritual, and erotic imagination
Day 28: What parts of me come alive when I’m in flow, turned on, or inspired?
writing, artistry, ritual, and erotic imagination
Day 28: What parts of me come alive when I’m in flow, turned on, or inspired?
WEEK 4: Creative, Spiritual, & Erotic Expression
writing, artistry, ritual, and erotic imagination
Day 27: What rituals make me feel most connected to my erotic power (baths, oiling skin, dancing, masturbation)?
writing, artistry, ritual, and erotic imagination
Day 27: What rituals make me feel most connected to my erotic power (baths, oiling skin, dancing, masturbation)?
January 27, 2026 at 5:01 PM
WEEK 4: Creative, Spiritual, & Erotic Expression
writing, artistry, ritual, and erotic imagination
Day 27: What rituals make me feel most connected to my erotic power (baths, oiling skin, dancing, masturbation)?
writing, artistry, ritual, and erotic imagination
Day 27: What rituals make me feel most connected to my erotic power (baths, oiling skin, dancing, masturbation)?
WEEK 4: Creative, Spiritual, & Erotic Expression
writing, artistry, ritual, and erotic imagination
Day 26: How do creativity and sexuality feed each other in my life?
writing, artistry, ritual, and erotic imagination
Day 26: How do creativity and sexuality feed each other in my life?
January 26, 2026 at 5:01 PM
WEEK 4: Creative, Spiritual, & Erotic Expression
writing, artistry, ritual, and erotic imagination
Day 26: How do creativity and sexuality feed each other in my life?
writing, artistry, ritual, and erotic imagination
Day 26: How do creativity and sexuality feed each other in my life?
WEEK 4: Creative, Spiritual, & Erotic Expression
writing, artistry, ritual, and erotic imagination
Day 25: Write a short story, memory, or fantasy that centers Black pleasure without apology.
writing, artistry, ritual, and erotic imagination
Day 25: Write a short story, memory, or fantasy that centers Black pleasure without apology.
January 25, 2026 at 5:01 PM
WEEK 4: Creative, Spiritual, & Erotic Expression
writing, artistry, ritual, and erotic imagination
Day 25: Write a short story, memory, or fantasy that centers Black pleasure without apology.
writing, artistry, ritual, and erotic imagination
Day 25: Write a short story, memory, or fantasy that centers Black pleasure without apology.
WEEK 4: Creative, Spiritual, & Erotic Expression
writing, artistry, ritual, and erotic imagination
Day 24: What does divine or ancestral sexuality mean to me?
writing, artistry, ritual, and erotic imagination
Day 24: What does divine or ancestral sexuality mean to me?
January 24, 2026 at 5:01 PM
WEEK 4: Creative, Spiritual, & Erotic Expression
writing, artistry, ritual, and erotic imagination
Day 24: What does divine or ancestral sexuality mean to me?
writing, artistry, ritual, and erotic imagination
Day 24: What does divine or ancestral sexuality mean to me?
Vintage, Black ads were always so sultry. They were provocative, yet not crude, in a way that filled the page with an intoxicating level of eroticism.
But y'all know me it's always that deep haha. We can see through revisiting old ads how sexy was often hetero and male-centered.
But y'all know me it's always that deep haha. We can see through revisiting old ads how sexy was often hetero and male-centered.
January 23, 2026 at 6:30 PM
Vintage, Black ads were always so sultry. They were provocative, yet not crude, in a way that filled the page with an intoxicating level of eroticism.
But y'all know me it's always that deep haha. We can see through revisiting old ads how sexy was often hetero and male-centered.
But y'all know me it's always that deep haha. We can see through revisiting old ads how sexy was often hetero and male-centered.
WEEK 4: Creative, Spiritual, & Erotic Expression
writing, artistry, ritual, and erotic imagination
Day 23: Create a sensual playlist or altar. What songs, scents, or items awaken your erotic energy?
writing, artistry, ritual, and erotic imagination
Day 23: Create a sensual playlist or altar. What songs, scents, or items awaken your erotic energy?
January 23, 2026 at 5:01 PM
WEEK 4: Creative, Spiritual, & Erotic Expression
writing, artistry, ritual, and erotic imagination
Day 23: Create a sensual playlist or altar. What songs, scents, or items awaken your erotic energy?
writing, artistry, ritual, and erotic imagination
Day 23: Create a sensual playlist or altar. What songs, scents, or items awaken your erotic energy?
Went to the National Museum of African American History and Culture and stumbled upon a book that had been in my 'to buy' category for far too long. So what did I do? I spent the $30 of course!
January 22, 2026 at 11:45 PM
Went to the National Museum of African American History and Culture and stumbled upon a book that had been in my 'to buy' category for far too long. So what did I do? I spent the $30 of course!
WEEK 4: Creative, Spiritual, & Erotic Expression
writing, artistry, ritual, and erotic imagination
Day 22: Write an erotic poem or love note to your future self; the version who feels fully sexually free.
writing, artistry, ritual, and erotic imagination
Day 22: Write an erotic poem or love note to your future self; the version who feels fully sexually free.
January 22, 2026 at 5:01 PM
WEEK 4: Creative, Spiritual, & Erotic Expression
writing, artistry, ritual, and erotic imagination
Day 22: Write an erotic poem or love note to your future self; the version who feels fully sexually free.
writing, artistry, ritual, and erotic imagination
Day 22: Write an erotic poem or love note to your future self; the version who feels fully sexually free.
WEEK 3: Desire, Kink & Liberation
sexual politics, kink, queerness, and freedom
Day 21: What role does community or chosen family play in my sexual liberation journey?
sexual politics, kink, queerness, and freedom
Day 21: What role does community or chosen family play in my sexual liberation journey?
January 21, 2026 at 5:01 PM
WEEK 3: Desire, Kink & Liberation
sexual politics, kink, queerness, and freedom
Day 21: What role does community or chosen family play in my sexual liberation journey?
sexual politics, kink, queerness, and freedom
Day 21: What role does community or chosen family play in my sexual liberation journey?
WEEK 3: Desire, Kink & Liberation
sexual politics, kink, queerness, and freedom
Day 20: What is my relationship to dominance, submission, control, or surrender?
sexual politics, kink, queerness, and freedom
Day 20: What is my relationship to dominance, submission, control, or surrender?
January 20, 2026 at 5:01 PM
WEEK 3: Desire, Kink & Liberation
sexual politics, kink, queerness, and freedom
Day 20: What is my relationship to dominance, submission, control, or surrender?
sexual politics, kink, queerness, and freedom
Day 20: What is my relationship to dominance, submission, control, or surrender?
WEEK 3: Desire, Kink & Liberation
sexual politics, kink, queerness, and freedom
Day 19: Write about a time you felt powerful in your erotic energy — what made it sacred?
sexual politics, kink, queerness, and freedom
Day 19: Write about a time you felt powerful in your erotic energy — what made it sacred?
January 19, 2026 at 5:01 PM
WEEK 3: Desire, Kink & Liberation
sexual politics, kink, queerness, and freedom
Day 19: Write about a time you felt powerful in your erotic energy — what made it sacred?
sexual politics, kink, queerness, and freedom
Day 19: Write about a time you felt powerful in your erotic energy — what made it sacred?
WEEK 3: Desire, Kink & Liberation
sexual politics, kink, queerness, and freedom
Day 18: How has religion, capitalism, or gender expectations influenced my sexual expression?
sexual politics, kink, queerness, and freedom
Day 18: How has religion, capitalism, or gender expectations influenced my sexual expression?
January 18, 2026 at 5:01 PM
WEEK 3: Desire, Kink & Liberation
sexual politics, kink, queerness, and freedom
Day 18: How has religion, capitalism, or gender expectations influenced my sexual expression?
sexual politics, kink, queerness, and freedom
Day 18: How has religion, capitalism, or gender expectations influenced my sexual expression?
WEEK 3: Desire, Kink & Liberation
sexual politics, kink, queerness, and freedom
Day 17: Explore a kink, fantasy, or curiosity you’ve never shared. What about it intrigues or scares you?
sexual politics, kink, queerness, and freedom
Day 17: Explore a kink, fantasy, or curiosity you’ve never shared. What about it intrigues or scares you?
January 17, 2026 at 5:01 PM
WEEK 3: Desire, Kink & Liberation
sexual politics, kink, queerness, and freedom
Day 17: Explore a kink, fantasy, or curiosity you’ve never shared. What about it intrigues or scares you?
sexual politics, kink, queerness, and freedom
Day 17: Explore a kink, fantasy, or curiosity you’ve never shared. What about it intrigues or scares you?
WEEK 3: Desire, Kink & Liberation
sexual politics, kink, queerness, and freedom
Day 16: How do I navigate shame around desire, especially as a Black person?
sexual politics, kink, queerness, and freedom
Day 16: How do I navigate shame around desire, especially as a Black person?
January 16, 2026 at 5:01 PM
WEEK 3: Desire, Kink & Liberation
sexual politics, kink, queerness, and freedom
Day 16: How do I navigate shame around desire, especially as a Black person?
sexual politics, kink, queerness, and freedom
Day 16: How do I navigate shame around desire, especially as a Black person?
WEEK 3: Desire, Kink & Liberation
sexual politics, kink, queerness, and freedom
Day 15: What does sexual freedom look like for me — personally, politically, spiritually?
sexual politics, kink, queerness, and freedom
Day 15: What does sexual freedom look like for me — personally, politically, spiritually?
January 15, 2026 at 5:01 PM
WEEK 3: Desire, Kink & Liberation
sexual politics, kink, queerness, and freedom
Day 15: What does sexual freedom look like for me — personally, politically, spiritually?
sexual politics, kink, queerness, and freedom
Day 15: What does sexual freedom look like for me — personally, politically, spiritually?
WEEK 2: Touch, Trust & Trauma
healing, sexual self-awareness, boundaries, and trust work
Day 14: What are the ways I can reconnect to erotic joy that feel gentle and safe for me right now?
healing, sexual self-awareness, boundaries, and trust work
Day 14: What are the ways I can reconnect to erotic joy that feel gentle and safe for me right now?
January 14, 2026 at 5:01 PM
WEEK 2: Touch, Trust & Trauma
healing, sexual self-awareness, boundaries, and trust work
Day 14: What are the ways I can reconnect to erotic joy that feel gentle and safe for me right now?
healing, sexual self-awareness, boundaries, and trust work
Day 14: What are the ways I can reconnect to erotic joy that feel gentle and safe for me right now?
WEEK 2: Touch, Trust & Trauma
healing, sexual self-awareness, boundaries, and trust work
Day 13: How does pleasure help me heal?
healing, sexual self-awareness, boundaries, and trust work
Day 13: How does pleasure help me heal?
January 13, 2026 at 5:01 PM
WEEK 2: Touch, Trust & Trauma
healing, sexual self-awareness, boundaries, and trust work
Day 13: How does pleasure help me heal?
healing, sexual self-awareness, boundaries, and trust work
Day 13: How does pleasure help me heal?
WEEK 2: Touch, Trust & Trauma
healing, sexual self-awareness, boundaries, and trust work
Day 12: What does consent mean to me outside of sex — in my friendships, work, and daily life?
healing, sexual self-awareness, boundaries, and trust work
Day 12: What does consent mean to me outside of sex — in my friendships, work, and daily life?
January 12, 2026 at 5:01 PM
WEEK 2: Touch, Trust & Trauma
healing, sexual self-awareness, boundaries, and trust work
Day 12: What does consent mean to me outside of sex — in my friendships, work, and daily life?
healing, sexual self-awareness, boundaries, and trust work
Day 12: What does consent mean to me outside of sex — in my friendships, work, and daily life?
WEEK 2: Touch, Trust & Trauma
healing, sexual self-awareness, boundaries, and trust work
Day 11: Who modeled (or didn’t model) sexual communication for me growing up?
healing, sexual self-awareness, boundaries, and trust work
Day 11: Who modeled (or didn’t model) sexual communication for me growing up?
January 11, 2026 at 5:01 PM
WEEK 2: Touch, Trust & Trauma
healing, sexual self-awareness, boundaries, and trust work
Day 11: Who modeled (or didn’t model) sexual communication for me growing up?
healing, sexual self-awareness, boundaries, and trust work
Day 11: Who modeled (or didn’t model) sexual communication for me growing up?
WEEK 2: Touch, Trust & Trauma
healing, sexual self-awareness, boundaries, and trust work
Day 10: How do I self-soothe after intimacy that doesn’t feel good or aligned?
healing, sexual self-awareness, boundaries, and trust work
Day 10: How do I self-soothe after intimacy that doesn’t feel good or aligned?
January 10, 2026 at 5:01 PM
WEEK 2: Touch, Trust & Trauma
healing, sexual self-awareness, boundaries, and trust work
Day 10: How do I self-soothe after intimacy that doesn’t feel good or aligned?
healing, sexual self-awareness, boundaries, and trust work
Day 10: How do I self-soothe after intimacy that doesn’t feel good or aligned?
WEEK 2: Touch, Trust & Trauma
healing, sexual self-awareness, boundaries, and trust work
Day 9: In what ways has trauma shaped how I show up sexually? What parts of me are ready to soften or release?
healing, sexual self-awareness, boundaries, and trust work
Day 9: In what ways has trauma shaped how I show up sexually? What parts of me are ready to soften or release?
January 9, 2026 at 5:01 PM
WEEK 2: Touch, Trust & Trauma
healing, sexual self-awareness, boundaries, and trust work
Day 9: In what ways has trauma shaped how I show up sexually? What parts of me are ready to soften or release?
healing, sexual self-awareness, boundaries, and trust work
Day 9: In what ways has trauma shaped how I show up sexually? What parts of me are ready to soften or release?