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Taking care of yourself isn’t selfish.It’s the slow, powerful work of undoing the old belief that your needs don’t matter. Every time you set a boundary, say no, rest when you're tired, or ask for what you need,you’re not being "too much."It's not selfish. It’s self-respect.
#selfrespect
Make sure you listen to the wisdom she shares around sitting with feelings.

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When we're not direct, when we don't own our truth, when we don't speak with emotional honesty, we make it unsafe for them to be vulnerable as well.
Confidence isn’t about never feeling doubt—it’s about acting despite it.

The more you practice choosing action, the more natural it becomes.

What’s one small step you can take today to break the cycle of avoidance and build self-trust?

#empowermentcoach #ownyourlife #betruetoyourself
When love or acceptance is conditional, you learn early on:
Being yourself is risky.
So you adapt.
You get quiet. Careful.
You read the room before you speak.
You start editing what you say, what you need—just to stay safe.

#emotionalhealing #boundaries #peoplepleasing #authenticity
Taking care of yourself isn’t selfish.It’s the slow, powerful work of undoing the old belief that your needs don’t matter. Every time you set a boundary, say no, rest when you're tired, or ask for what you need,you’re not being "too much."It's not selfish. It’s self-respect.
#selfrespect
We talk about grounding, grief, boundaries, and the slow, gentle process of returning to ourselves—even when we’re afraid, even when it’s messy.
This week’s episode is one I recorded with a full heart. It’s about what it really takes to find our footing when everything around us feels chaotic or out of our control. (I know it does for me right now.)
When the world feels too loud, come back to you. If you’ve been feeling a little unsteady lately—like the noise of the world, the weight of the unknown, or even your own thoughts are just… a lot—you’re not alone.
Detachment doesn’t mean we don’t care.
It means we’ve learned to care without losing ourselves in the process. It’s not cold, distant, or unloving—it’s clarity.

It’s the wisdom to say:
✨ “I can be present without trying to control.”
✨ “I can love without rescuing.”
#HealthyRelationships
Shame doesn’t motivate—it paralyzes. It convinces you that you have to be perfect before you're worthy.
It whispers that you’re failing just for being human...it keeps you stuck in the same patterns you desperately want to break.