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Brendan Abbott | Stratus Vir

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You’re not broken. You’re in transition. Helping men reconnect with confidence, presence, and pleasure — without shame or scripts. [stratusvir.com]

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Brendan Abbott | Stratus Vir @stratusvir.bsky.social · Apr 17

When the sex stops, it's not just about sex.

It’s about the silence. The resentment. The ache of being in a relationship and still feeling alone.

This piece is for anyone quietly Googling at 2am, wondering what the hell is happening—and what to do next.

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stratusvir.com/when-the-sex...

An infograpgic - when the sex stops - touch fades-but the tension builds, one partner avoids while the other overthinks, conversations stop and stories fill the gap, you feel guilty for needing something real, you're googling at 2 am and here you are. You are not broken you are paying attention.

Brendan Abbott | Stratus Vir @stratusvir.bsky.social · Apr 10

Erections aren’t just about blood flow.
In your 20s and dealing with ED? You’re not broken—and you’re not alone.
Causes can include stress, shame, overthinking, porn, and emotional safety.

Read more → stratusvir.com/ed-in-your-2...

Erectile Dysfunction in Your 20s? Here’s Why You’re Not Alone or Broken - Stratus Vir

Struggling with ED in your 20s? Learn the real causes—from anxiety to porn use to meds—and what helps beyond pills. Shame-free advice for men who want clarity.

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Brendan Abbott | Stratus Vir @stratusvir.bsky.social · Apr 10

For many men, initiating sex isn't just about desire.
It's about risking rejection, navigating silence, and trying to stay human in the process.
I wrote this for the men who are tired of guessing.
👉 stratusvir.com/initiating-s...
#MensHealth #Intimacy #StratusVir #SexualConfidence

A man attempts to initiate sex with his partner - he feels uncertain and vulnerable if he will be rejected. He is navigating intimacy challenges.