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· Oct 18
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This month’s topic: Your Favorite BDSM Toys 💡
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🕒 Friday, Dec 5th
📍 Discord: https://subgui.de/chat
This month’s topic: Your Favorite BDSM Toys 💡
New to munches? Come as you are! 🖤
December 5, 2025 at 11:00 PM
🎉 Join us this Friday for our Discord Community Munch! 🎉
🕒 Friday, Dec 5th
📍 Discord: https://subgui.de/chat
This month’s topic: Your Favorite BDSM Toys 💡
New to munches? Come as you are! 🖤
🕒 Friday, Dec 5th
📍 Discord: https://subgui.de/chat
This month’s topic: Your Favorite BDSM Toys 💡
New to munches? Come as you are! 🖤
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December 5, 2025 at 11:20 AM
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December 2, 2025 at 12:00 AM
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If your submission needs guidance, structure, or support — this bundle is a solid place to begin.
Ends tonight.
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What is something you regret doing in your BDSM exploration? How would you have changed it if you could?
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December 1, 2025 at 6:33 PM
What is something you regret doing in your BDSM exploration? How would you have changed it if you could?
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$49 until midnight PT.
Lifetime access, 20+ educators, and my full session.
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December 1, 2025 at 3:00 PM
If you wanted to grab the Summit replays, this is the last call.
$49 until midnight PT.
Lifetime access, 20+ educators, and my full session.
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$49 until midnight PT.
Lifetime access, 20+ educators, and my full session.
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You’re not behind.
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You’re not too late.
Your submission deserves support and clarity.
If you need a gentle place to begin, the Summit Replay Pass is 50% off through Monday.
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December 1, 2025 at 12:00 AM
You’re not behind.
You’re not too late.
Your submission deserves support and clarity.
If you need a gentle place to begin, the Summit Replay Pass is 50% off through Monday.
🔗 https://subguide--domsubliving.thrivecart.com/reg-pass/
You’re not too late.
Your submission deserves support and clarity.
If you need a gentle place to begin, the Summit Replay Pass is 50% off through Monday.
🔗 https://subguide--domsubliving.thrivecart.com/reg-pass/
A quiet Sunday note:
The Summit Replay Pass is still 50% off.
If you've been wanting deeper guidance in your submission, the full library is self-paced and beginner-friendly.
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The Summit Replay Pass is still 50% off.
If you've been wanting deeper guidance in your submission, the full library is self-paced and beginner-friendly.
🔗 https://subguide--domsubliving.thrivecart.com/reg-pass/
November 30, 2025 at 7:00 PM
A quiet Sunday note:
The Summit Replay Pass is still 50% off.
If you've been wanting deeper guidance in your submission, the full library is self-paced and beginner-friendly.
🔗 https://subguide--domsubliving.thrivecart.com/reg-pass/
The Summit Replay Pass is still 50% off.
If you've been wanting deeper guidance in your submission, the full library is self-paced and beginner-friendly.
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If you want to strengthen your submissive fundamentals, my class The Submissive’s Toolbox is included in the Summit Replay Pass.
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November 30, 2025 at 5:00 AM
If you want to strengthen your submissive fundamentals, my class The Submissive’s Toolbox is included in the Summit Replay Pass.
50% off all weekend.
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50% off all weekend.
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If you’re rebuilding your submission, starting fresh, or wanting more confidence in your role… this replay bundle is such a supportive resource.
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November 30, 2025 at 2:00 AM
If you’re rebuilding your submission, starting fresh, or wanting more confidence in your role… this replay bundle is such a supportive resource.
20+ classes. Lifetime access.
50% off now.
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20+ classes. Lifetime access.
50% off now.
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If you’re looking for structured D/s guidance going into 2026, the Summit Instant Access Pass is discounted to $49 this weekend.
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20+ classes, lifetime access, and a private podcast feed.
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November 28, 2025 at 10:00 PM
If you’re looking for structured D/s guidance going into 2026, the Summit Instant Access Pass is discounted to $49 this weekend.
20+ classes, lifetime access, and a private podcast feed.
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20+ classes, lifetime access, and a private podcast feed.
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The Dom/sub Dynamics Summit Replay Pass is 50% off through Monday.
My full class, The Submissive’s Toolbox, is included along with 20+ expert trainings.
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My full class, The Submissive’s Toolbox, is included along with 20+ expert trainings.
Replay library + podcast feed + workbook.
🔗 https://subguide--domsubliving.thrivecart.com/reg-pass/
November 28, 2025 at 3:00 PM
The Dom/sub Dynamics Summit Replay Pass is 50% off through Monday.
My full class, The Submissive’s Toolbox, is included along with 20+ expert trainings.
Replay library + podcast feed + workbook.
🔗 https://subguide--domsubliving.thrivecart.com/reg-pass/
My full class, The Submissive’s Toolbox, is included along with 20+ expert trainings.
Replay library + podcast feed + workbook.
🔗 https://subguide--domsubliving.thrivecart.com/reg-pass/
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November 22, 2025 at 8:10 PM
Ready to take your submissive journey to the next level?
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Join Submissive Guide on Patreon for $10/month and get:
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#subguide #submissionjourney #bdsmeducation
New post! I’m an introvert with social anxiety. Any tips for going to munches or scene events? https://submissiveguide.com/articles/fundamentals/im-an-introvert-with-social-anxiety-any-tips-for-going-to-munches-or-scene-events/
November 22, 2025 at 2:48 AM
New post! I’m an introvert with social anxiety. Any tips for going to munches or scene events? https://submissiveguide.com/articles/fundamentals/im-an-introvert-with-social-anxiety-any-tips-for-going-to-munches-or-scene-events/
New post! What to Wear to a BDSM Play Party https://submissiveguide.com/articles/skills/what-to-wear-to-a-play-party/
November 21, 2025 at 2:48 AM
New post! What to Wear to a BDSM Play Party https://submissiveguide.com/articles/skills/what-to-wear-to-a-play-party/
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November 19, 2025 at 5:00 PM
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Do you struggle with sub drop? How are you cared for during this time?
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November 17, 2025 at 6:33 PM
Do you struggle with sub drop? How are you cared for during this time?
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November 17, 2025 at 2:29 PM
It begins today. 🌙
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November 15, 2025 at 8:10 PM
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New post! My long distance partner cuts communication with me and it hurts, what can I do? https://submissiveguide.com/articles/relationships/my-long-distance-partner-cuts-communication-with-me-and-it-hurts-what-can-i-do/
November 15, 2025 at 2:48 AM
New post! My long distance partner cuts communication with me and it hurts, what can I do? https://submissiveguide.com/articles/relationships/my-long-distance-partner-cuts-communication-with-me-and-it-hurts-what-can-i-do/
This holiday season, give yourself the gift of peace.
✨ 30 Days of Submissive Self-Care ✨
A gentle, self-paced class with daily reflections & soft rituals to reconnect with your submission.
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✨ 30 Days of Submissive Self-Care ✨
A gentle, self-paced class with daily reflections & soft rituals to reconnect with your submission.
Starts Nov 17 for $10+ Patrons.
👉 https://subgui.de/patreon #subguide
November 13, 2025 at 5:00 PM
This holiday season, give yourself the gift of peace.
✨ 30 Days of Submissive Self-Care ✨
A gentle, self-paced class with daily reflections & soft rituals to reconnect with your submission.
Starts Nov 17 for $10+ Patrons.
👉 https://subgui.de/patreon #subguide
✨ 30 Days of Submissive Self-Care ✨
A gentle, self-paced class with daily reflections & soft rituals to reconnect with your submission.
Starts Nov 17 for $10+ Patrons.
👉 https://subgui.de/patreon #subguide
New post! Finding Sanctuary in Submission When the World Feels Heavy https://submissiveguide.com/articles/personal-growth/finding-sanctuary-in-submission-when-the-world-feels-heavy/
November 13, 2025 at 2:48 AM
New post! Finding Sanctuary in Submission When the World Feels Heavy https://submissiveguide.com/articles/personal-growth/finding-sanctuary-in-submission-when-the-world-feels-heavy/
Submission thrives in stillness. 🌿
Join me for 30 Days of Submissive Self-Care — a gentle month of rest & reflection for the heart that serves.
Starts November 17 | $10+ Patrons
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Join me for 30 Days of Submissive Self-Care — a gentle month of rest & reflection for the heart that serves.
Starts November 17 | $10+ Patrons
👉 https://subgui.de/patreon #subguide
November 10, 2025 at 10:00 PM
Submission thrives in stillness. 🌿
Join me for 30 Days of Submissive Self-Care — a gentle month of rest & reflection for the heart that serves.
Starts November 17 | $10+ Patrons
👉 https://subgui.de/patreon #subguide
Join me for 30 Days of Submissive Self-Care — a gentle month of rest & reflection for the heart that serves.
Starts November 17 | $10+ Patrons
👉 https://subgui.de/patreon #subguide
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November 10, 2025 at 8:22 PM
“This was a book written with obvious first-hand knowledge, and it provided an intimate view of the different ways a sub could process pain. [...]”
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Am I holding myself to a standard of 'perfection' in my submission? How can I remind myself that submission is a journey, not a destination?
You asked for submissive journal prompts, and we delivered! Get the book, or sign up to receive daily prompts directly to your inbox. http://subgui.de/365days
You asked for submissive journal prompts, and we delivered! Get the book, or sign up to receive daily prompts directly to your inbox. http://subgui.de/365days
November 10, 2025 at 6:33 PM
Am I holding myself to a standard of 'perfection' in my submission? How can I remind myself that submission is a journey, not a destination?
You asked for submissive journal prompts, and we delivered! Get the book, or sign up to receive daily prompts directly to your inbox. http://subgui.de/365days
You asked for submissive journal prompts, and we delivered! Get the book, or sign up to receive daily prompts directly to your inbox. http://subgui.de/365days
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November 10, 2025 at 5:24 AM
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