Tasha Bovain
@tashabovain.bsky.social
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I write to uncover the lies of womanhood. Poems & essays on relationships, body love & becoming. Bird lover. Reformed New Yorker in Charlotte. Subscribe & let’s burn expectations together: https://womanhoodisalie.substack.com
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tashabovain.bsky.social
“Look into the camera,” he says.
His hands frame my face.
But I turn away.
I don’t want to be his muse.
I want to be mine,
to make my own frame,
stare into my face,
and smile.

#poetry #micropoem
tashabovain.bsky.social
He didn’t want to be like his father.
But the man inside
kept poking his chest.
Guilt climbs on top of me—
a saddle for his indiscretions.
A man knows when he’s robbing his woman,
robbing himself.
He protects his inheritance.
I keep screaming,
but no one listens to noisy women.
#poetry #micropoem
tashabovain.bsky.social
He flashed a grin, keep dancing in those red shoes. I shimmy for dollars, the world’s paycheck. Each trinket a chain around my neck. Ideas were propane, my wanting the match. Every brick of capitalism burned—a mausoleum built on the backs of women and men providing for their children.

#poetry
tashabovain.bsky.social
Sometimes I go untouched because last time a man touched me I shattered against the cement. I grew up to the touch of a man’s fingers pressed into my thighs—a heaven for his hands. Now my hands don’t need permission. I wind around my body as if I were the sun. My heart hums in the silence.

#poetry
tashabovain.bsky.social
My mother’s kitchen is spotless,
no mess peeking from drawers.

Mine spills over
with coffee mugs.
Lovers sit at my table,
leave crumbs.

I splatter them across the counter,
turn every memory
into a séance.

A woman lives here.
And shame has
no place at this table.

#micropoem #poetry #WIP
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victorkisob.bsky.social
Bubbling Defiance

Be happy like champagne,
Refusing to go flat,
It bubbles with disdain.

Mimic the unruly,
It shows no dignity,
It bounces unduly.

#poem #poemoftheday #poetry #poems #Photography #bluesky #blueskypoetry #blueskyphoto #defiance
tashabovain.bsky.social
I didn’t know how to be held
without gathering my things
while he slept.

My bones learned distance
before they learned trust.

At ten, composure was survival—
stacked ribs, toes pointed forward.

Softening was dangerous
for women with wild hearts.

#micropoem #poetry
tashabovain.bsky.social
For the woman whose faith has grown weary, yet she persists:

Don’t rush your becoming.
Savor it like a scoop of ice cream.
Treasure it like a kiss.

Live each day as a prayer,
a communion between your old self,
and the woman you’re becoming.

Treat your journey as holy ground.

#micropoem #poetry
tashabovain.bsky.social
Everything felt like an accident—
jobs, relationships, even my own body.

My mind committed.
My body resisted.

I felt every mistake stirring
alongside the tumor in my body.

Maybe “accidents” aren’t accidents,
but warnings we silence.

#poetry #micropoem #writersky
tashabovain.bsky.social
The fire made her flesh
and bone.
She felt the singe of fear,
battled the mythical dragon
of self sacrifice.
The flames
became her salvation.

Use your pain to fuel your art.
Let it spark to your becoming.

#poetry #micropoem #creativity #becoming #writingcommunity
tashabovain.bsky.social
I felt a stomping in me,
the drumbeat of ancestors,
trauma shed,
truth released.

I felt a stomping in me,
beliefs unraveling,
body shame breaking skin,
dance floor birthing
freedom within.

What beliefs are you shedding this season so you can rise in 2026?

#poetry #micropoem #writersky
tashabovain.bsky.social
I play catch with regret,
tossing blame back and forth.

It’s a standoff—
self-doubt intervenes,
forcing me to apologize
for my singleness,
my childlessness,
my emotional nakedness.

But regret doesn’t own me.
I owe it nothing.

What does regret try to make you apologize for?

#poetry
tashabovain.bsky.social
Expectations became
weapons.

Opinions hurled at me
ricocheted,
piercing their own chests.

The bully in the mirror
locked inside
Pandora’s box.

#poetry #100daysofwriting #micropoem #writingcommunity
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alibutterfly.bsky.social
#vss365 #conundrum #poem
tashabovain.bsky.social
Women in cages
in cul-de-sacs
swallow silence.

Sorrow stains their cheeks.
Masks hide their faces.

I stand behind glass houses,
digging graves,
praying I won’t break.

#100daysofwriting #poetry #micropoem #writingcommunity
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twigblossom.bsky.social
I enter my room
Then stand with a spoon in hand
Blank look on my face

#adhd #haiku
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8rid6et.bsky.social
🍁

I’ll go out dancing
like a falling autumn leaf
spinning in the breeze

🍂

I’ll go out singing
like wind through the trees, taking
my secrets with me

#haiku #senryu
tashabovain.bsky.social
After so much grief,
the only thing I can survive
is distance.

I’m so used to leaving myself,
deporting my body,
I’m not sure I know
how to stay.

#100daysofwriting #poetry #micropoem #writingcommunity
tashabovain.bsky.social
I miss the version of me who survived months without validation, who didn't crave scraps of admiration like candy.

I hunger for the woman obsessed with her own company, floating in the current of her becoming.

She returns in fragments, legs dangling like an old doll.

Still, she comes.

#poetry
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edwardstjames.bsky.social
CW: SA

The sight of the hotel
Where you pinned me down
#Panic as memory returns
Every morning heart torn

Same fear when we’re in
A room together, waiting
Neatly knowing that a shoe will drop
Even though they say you’re doing better

It’s the same damn panic attack

#emoetry #freeform #poetry
tashabovain.bsky.social
The first time I met beauty
was under a man’s gaze—
his hunger crawling up my neck,
his pulse racing,
hands plastered across my face.

Screams pushed through my lungs
to deaf ears,
to a fierce tongue.

Beauty felt like a mystery.
And a curse.

#100daysofwriting #micropoetry #writingcommunity
tashabovain.bsky.social
Your heart split into two: 
before love, after heartbreak. 
Devastation’s parting gift. 
Eyes unmuted. 

No more fairy tales, 
only brave steps 
through love’s fire. 

No one can break your shell 
without becoming a ghost. 

#100daysofwriting #micropoetry #poem
tashabovain.bsky.social
I trace freedom with my fingers. Sticky and warm, I jut out my tongue to taste it. Then men in suits, with perfectly manicured nails, slap it from my hands and tell me I’m not qualified to want beyond what they’ve chosen for me.

#poetry #100daysofwriting #WIP
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yeehawpoems.bsky.social
For within my fears
I only find my own
internal rejections

and within my
internal fears I only find
my externalized rejections

#poetry
tashabovain.bsky.social
Disapproval followed us,
from kitchen
to church
to work.
Our hands reached for understanding,
but were met with bulldozers of tradition.

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