Daniel Aros
@thedanielaros.bsky.social
Architect → Writer | Learn healthy habits faster to achieve a well-balanced, intentional life | Achieved a happy, fulfilled life, helping others do the same.
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Daniel Aros
@thedanielaros.bsky.social
· Jan 17
Who says 43 is late ?
• I went to uni at 28
• I met my true love at 32
• I became an architect at 39
• I managed over $500M projects at 41
• I embarked on my academic career at 43
And before 50, I'll be a NYT bestselling author.
There’s no perfect age to improve yourself.
You’re never too late.
• I went to uni at 28
• I met my true love at 32
• I became an architect at 39
• I managed over $500M projects at 41
• I embarked on my academic career at 43
And before 50, I'll be a NYT bestselling author.
There’s no perfect age to improve yourself.
You’re never too late.
Happiness starts with your thoughts and what you tell yourself every day.
Make sure your inner conversation is healthy and productive.
Make sure your inner conversation is healthy and productive.
November 12, 2025 at 5:01 PM
Happiness starts with your thoughts and what you tell yourself every day.
Make sure your inner conversation is healthy and productive.
Make sure your inner conversation is healthy and productive.
Being tired isn't always burnout. Sometimes it's misalignment.
November 12, 2025 at 9:17 AM
Being tired isn't always burnout. Sometimes it's misalignment.
I can't get this quote out of my head...
“If you want to see a rainbow you have to learn to see the rain.”
– Paulo Coelho
“If you want to see a rainbow you have to learn to see the rain.”
– Paulo Coelho
November 12, 2025 at 6:30 AM
I can't get this quote out of my head...
“If you want to see a rainbow you have to learn to see the rain.”
– Paulo Coelho
“If you want to see a rainbow you have to learn to see the rain.”
– Paulo Coelho
We don’t need more time.
We need better use of the time we already have.
We need better use of the time we already have.
November 11, 2025 at 5:03 PM
We don’t need more time.
We need better use of the time we already have.
We need better use of the time we already have.
The only thing I need to do is count my blessings while everything is aligning for me.
November 11, 2025 at 12:59 PM
The only thing I need to do is count my blessings while everything is aligning for me.
Be kind to yourself.
Be proud of yourself.
Be patient with yourself.
Take care of the most important person in your life.
Yourself.
Be proud of yourself.
Be patient with yourself.
Take care of the most important person in your life.
Yourself.
November 11, 2025 at 9:14 AM
Be kind to yourself.
Be proud of yourself.
Be patient with yourself.
Take care of the most important person in your life.
Yourself.
Be proud of yourself.
Be patient with yourself.
Take care of the most important person in your life.
Yourself.
There’s a Japanese legend that says:
“If you feel like you’re losing everything, remember, trees lose their leaves every year, yet they still stand tall and wait for better days to come.”
“If you feel like you’re losing everything, remember, trees lose their leaves every year, yet they still stand tall and wait for better days to come.”
November 11, 2025 at 6:34 AM
There’s a Japanese legend that says:
“If you feel like you’re losing everything, remember, trees lose their leaves every year, yet they still stand tall and wait for better days to come.”
“If you feel like you’re losing everything, remember, trees lose their leaves every year, yet they still stand tall and wait for better days to come.”
We don’t need more bosses.
We need more LEADERS.
L → Listen before speaking
E → Empower others
A → Act with integrity
D → Decide with courage
E → Embrace hard conversations
R → Recognize contributions
S → Set the standard
Bosses focus on tasks.
Leaders build trust.
We need more LEADERS.
L → Listen before speaking
E → Empower others
A → Act with integrity
D → Decide with courage
E → Embrace hard conversations
R → Recognize contributions
S → Set the standard
Bosses focus on tasks.
Leaders build trust.
November 10, 2025 at 5:01 PM
We don’t need more bosses.
We need more LEADERS.
L → Listen before speaking
E → Empower others
A → Act with integrity
D → Decide with courage
E → Embrace hard conversations
R → Recognize contributions
S → Set the standard
Bosses focus on tasks.
Leaders build trust.
We need more LEADERS.
L → Listen before speaking
E → Empower others
A → Act with integrity
D → Decide with courage
E → Embrace hard conversations
R → Recognize contributions
S → Set the standard
Bosses focus on tasks.
Leaders build trust.
Things I’m grateful for:
• Uncomfortable conversations that bring clarity
• Not getting what I want (so I can have space for what I need)
• People who tell me the truth
• The right song at the right time
• Tacos
• Uncomfortable conversations that bring clarity
• Not getting what I want (so I can have space for what I need)
• People who tell me the truth
• The right song at the right time
• Tacos
November 10, 2025 at 1:01 PM
Things I’m grateful for:
• Uncomfortable conversations that bring clarity
• Not getting what I want (so I can have space for what I need)
• People who tell me the truth
• The right song at the right time
• Tacos
• Uncomfortable conversations that bring clarity
• Not getting what I want (so I can have space for what I need)
• People who tell me the truth
• The right song at the right time
• Tacos
Friendly reminder:
Someone out there feels better cause you exist.
Someone out there feels better cause you exist.
November 10, 2025 at 9:12 AM
Friendly reminder:
Someone out there feels better cause you exist.
Someone out there feels better cause you exist.
You're not doing it wrong... being human is just hard sometimes.
November 10, 2025 at 6:30 AM
You're not doing it wrong... being human is just hard sometimes.
My mindset is the most important thing I need to keep in check.
How I think affects my reality.
I have to make sure my thoughts are healthy.
How I think affects my reality.
I have to make sure my thoughts are healthy.
November 8, 2025 at 5:56 PM
My mindset is the most important thing I need to keep in check.
How I think affects my reality.
I have to make sure my thoughts are healthy.
How I think affects my reality.
I have to make sure my thoughts are healthy.
For me, success is more about what we become than what we accomplish.
November 8, 2025 at 3:57 PM
For me, success is more about what we become than what we accomplish.
6 Ways to Protect Your Energy Today:
• Be around people who make you feel seen and safe
• Drop the guilt when you rest
• Make space for quiet moments to breathe
• Know your worth isn’t based on how you look
• You don’t owe anyone emotional caretaking
• Meet your feelings with kindness
• Be around people who make you feel seen and safe
• Drop the guilt when you rest
• Make space for quiet moments to breathe
• Know your worth isn’t based on how you look
• You don’t owe anyone emotional caretaking
• Meet your feelings with kindness
November 8, 2025 at 2:11 PM
6 Ways to Protect Your Energy Today:
• Be around people who make you feel seen and safe
• Drop the guilt when you rest
• Make space for quiet moments to breathe
• Know your worth isn’t based on how you look
• You don’t owe anyone emotional caretaking
• Meet your feelings with kindness
• Be around people who make you feel seen and safe
• Drop the guilt when you rest
• Make space for quiet moments to breathe
• Know your worth isn’t based on how you look
• You don’t owe anyone emotional caretaking
• Meet your feelings with kindness
Sometimes success isn't loud.
It's quiet mornings. Unhurried kisses.
And conversations that make you feel seen.
It's quiet mornings. Unhurried kisses.
And conversations that make you feel seen.
November 8, 2025 at 12:41 PM
Sometimes success isn't loud.
It's quiet mornings. Unhurried kisses.
And conversations that make you feel seen.
It's quiet mornings. Unhurried kisses.
And conversations that make you feel seen.
Hard truth: It's not love if you feel like you have to earn it.
November 7, 2025 at 5:01 PM
Hard truth: It's not love if you feel like you have to earn it.
Myth: Emotions prevent us from making good decisions.
Reality: Emotions are data and it’s up to us to choose what to do with it. They tell us what matters, what hurts, what needs attention.
Reality: Emotions are data and it’s up to us to choose what to do with it. They tell us what matters, what hurts, what needs attention.
November 7, 2025 at 1:01 PM
Myth: Emotions prevent us from making good decisions.
Reality: Emotions are data and it’s up to us to choose what to do with it. They tell us what matters, what hurts, what needs attention.
Reality: Emotions are data and it’s up to us to choose what to do with it. They tell us what matters, what hurts, what needs attention.
90 percent of intelligent people say no to crappy opportunities.
November 7, 2025 at 9:14 AM
90 percent of intelligent people say no to crappy opportunities.
It's simple to be proactive when you understand reacting is just pain and not acting causes anxiety.
November 7, 2025 at 6:31 AM
It's simple to be proactive when you understand reacting is just pain and not acting causes anxiety.
Finding interesting people isn't hard, they just like being by themselves.
November 6, 2025 at 4:56 PM
Finding interesting people isn't hard, they just like being by themselves.
If you feel lost – write
If you feel uninspired – read
If you feel restless – create
If you feel exhausted – sleep
If you feel sad – reach out
If you feel stuck – go for a walk
If you feel anxious – breathe deeply
If you feel disconnected – dance
If you feel overwhelmed – name it
If you feel uninspired – read
If you feel restless – create
If you feel exhausted – sleep
If you feel sad – reach out
If you feel stuck – go for a walk
If you feel anxious – breathe deeply
If you feel disconnected – dance
If you feel overwhelmed – name it
November 6, 2025 at 12:57 PM
If you feel lost – write
If you feel uninspired – read
If you feel restless – create
If you feel exhausted – sleep
If you feel sad – reach out
If you feel stuck – go for a walk
If you feel anxious – breathe deeply
If you feel disconnected – dance
If you feel overwhelmed – name it
If you feel uninspired – read
If you feel restless – create
If you feel exhausted – sleep
If you feel sad – reach out
If you feel stuck – go for a walk
If you feel anxious – breathe deeply
If you feel disconnected – dance
If you feel overwhelmed – name it
Let's stop writing love stories about people who give us one word replies.
November 6, 2025 at 11:27 AM
Let's stop writing love stories about people who give us one word replies.
Thinking before speaking is an underrated skill.
November 5, 2025 at 5:04 PM
Thinking before speaking is an underrated skill.
You know what’s attractive?
Effort.
Effort to text back.
Effort to get to know you.
Effort to remember the little details.
Effort to ask questions.
Effort to make plans.
Effort.
Effort to text back.
Effort to get to know you.
Effort to remember the little details.
Effort to ask questions.
Effort to make plans.
November 5, 2025 at 1:02 PM
You know what’s attractive?
Effort.
Effort to text back.
Effort to get to know you.
Effort to remember the little details.
Effort to ask questions.
Effort to make plans.
Effort.
Effort to text back.
Effort to get to know you.
Effort to remember the little details.
Effort to ask questions.
Effort to make plans.
Let’s stop postponing:
1. Telling people we love them
2. Making important decisions
3. Having a good cry
4. Apologizing when we hurt someone
5. Spending time with loved ones
6. Celebrating the little things in life
1. Telling people we love them
2. Making important decisions
3. Having a good cry
4. Apologizing when we hurt someone
5. Spending time with loved ones
6. Celebrating the little things in life
November 5, 2025 at 9:15 AM
Let’s stop postponing:
1. Telling people we love them
2. Making important decisions
3. Having a good cry
4. Apologizing when we hurt someone
5. Spending time with loved ones
6. Celebrating the little things in life
1. Telling people we love them
2. Making important decisions
3. Having a good cry
4. Apologizing when we hurt someone
5. Spending time with loved ones
6. Celebrating the little things in life