Thomas Wilcox Family Man
@thomaswilcox.bsky.social
I help married men love their families well and live with intentionality.
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Every moment’s a memory in the making — and when you show up with intention, even a game becomes legacy.
#FamilyMan #DadMode
#FamilyMan #DadMode
December 20, 2025 at 1:03 AM
Every moment’s a memory in the making — and when you show up with intention, even a game becomes legacy.
#FamilyMan #DadMode
#FamilyMan #DadMode
This is work-from-home dad life: managing uploads and hide-and-seek without losing your mind (or your child).
One moment for parenting.
Another moment for work.
That’s the rhythm.
#WorkFromHomeDad #DadMode #POVDad
One moment for parenting.
Another moment for work.
That’s the rhythm.
#WorkFromHomeDad #DadMode #POVDad
December 19, 2025 at 1:01 AM
This is work-from-home dad life: managing uploads and hide-and-seek without losing your mind (or your child).
One moment for parenting.
Another moment for work.
That’s the rhythm.
#WorkFromHomeDad #DadMode #POVDad
One moment for parenting.
Another moment for work.
That’s the rhythm.
#WorkFromHomeDad #DadMode #POVDad
My daughter decided she wanted to learn how to do gymnastics a couple of weeks ago. Now just a few practices in and her brother and her have gotten pretty far!
#SupportingYourKids #DadLife
#SupportingYourKids #DadLife
December 18, 2025 at 1:03 AM
My daughter decided she wanted to learn how to do gymnastics a couple of weeks ago. Now just a few practices in and her brother and her have gotten pretty far!
#SupportingYourKids #DadLife
#SupportingYourKids #DadLife
I’ve been both husbands.
The one who dumps more on her…
And the one who sits down beside her.
You want to lead your home better?
It starts right here — in the little moments.
𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 “J𝘂𝗺𝗽𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁” 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗜’𝗹𝗹 𝗵𝗲𝗹𝗽 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗱 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗵𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝗶𝗻 𝗷𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝟭𝟬 𝗺𝗶𝗻𝘂𝘁𝗲.
The one who dumps more on her…
And the one who sits down beside her.
You want to lead your home better?
It starts right here — in the little moments.
𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 “J𝘂𝗺𝗽𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁” 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗜’𝗹𝗹 𝗵𝗲𝗹𝗽 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗱 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗵𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝗶𝗻 𝗷𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝟭𝟬 𝗺𝗶𝗻𝘂𝘁𝗲.
December 17, 2025 at 1:02 AM
I’ve been both husbands.
The one who dumps more on her…
And the one who sits down beside her.
You want to lead your home better?
It starts right here — in the little moments.
𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 “J𝘂𝗺𝗽𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁” 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗜’𝗹𝗹 𝗵𝗲𝗹𝗽 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗱 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗵𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝗶𝗻 𝗷𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝟭𝟬 𝗺𝗶𝗻𝘂𝘁𝗲.
The one who dumps more on her…
And the one who sits down beside her.
You want to lead your home better?
It starts right here — in the little moments.
𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 “J𝘂𝗺𝗽𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁” 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗜’𝗹𝗹 𝗵𝗲𝗹𝗽 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗱 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗵𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝗶𝗻 𝗷𝘂𝘀𝘁 𝟭𝟬 𝗺𝗶𝗻𝘂𝘁𝗲.
3 kids.
1 hot plate of food.
0 chance I’m actually sitting down.
This is fatherhood: standing guard behind the sofa,
protecting the climbers, saving the snacks.
Wouldn’t trade it for anything.
(Okay… maybe one warm bite.)
#FamilyMan #DadLife #POVDad
1 hot plate of food.
0 chance I’m actually sitting down.
This is fatherhood: standing guard behind the sofa,
protecting the climbers, saving the snacks.
Wouldn’t trade it for anything.
(Okay… maybe one warm bite.)
#FamilyMan #DadLife #POVDad
December 16, 2025 at 1:02 AM
3 kids.
1 hot plate of food.
0 chance I’m actually sitting down.
This is fatherhood: standing guard behind the sofa,
protecting the climbers, saving the snacks.
Wouldn’t trade it for anything.
(Okay… maybe one warm bite.)
#FamilyMan #DadLife #POVDad
1 hot plate of food.
0 chance I’m actually sitting down.
This is fatherhood: standing guard behind the sofa,
protecting the climbers, saving the snacks.
Wouldn’t trade it for anything.
(Okay… maybe one warm bite.)
#FamilyMan #DadLife #POVDad
Yeah… I’ve been “that” dad.
Too busy. Too distracted. Too locked in on nothing.
But the good news?
You can flip the script.
Be the dad who leans in.
Comment “DadMode” and I’ll send you the Jumpstart Bundle to help you lead with presence.
#DadMode #IntentionalFatherhood #FamilyMan
Too busy. Too distracted. Too locked in on nothing.
But the good news?
You can flip the script.
Be the dad who leans in.
Comment “DadMode” and I’ll send you the Jumpstart Bundle to help you lead with presence.
#DadMode #IntentionalFatherhood #FamilyMan
December 15, 2025 at 1:03 AM
Yeah… I’ve been “that” dad.
Too busy. Too distracted. Too locked in on nothing.
But the good news?
You can flip the script.
Be the dad who leans in.
Comment “DadMode” and I’ll send you the Jumpstart Bundle to help you lead with presence.
#DadMode #IntentionalFatherhood #FamilyMan
Too busy. Too distracted. Too locked in on nothing.
But the good news?
You can flip the script.
Be the dad who leans in.
Comment “DadMode” and I’ll send you the Jumpstart Bundle to help you lead with presence.
#DadMode #IntentionalFatherhood #FamilyMan
More than 60 churches.
Nearly 5,000 believers.
One city. One night. One God.
And in the middle of it all — I saw Fathers leading their families in faith.
Lifting hands. Lifting kids. Lifting legacy.
This is the first pillar.
This is what it looks like when men lead their homes toward Christ.
Nearly 5,000 believers.
One city. One night. One God.
And in the middle of it all — I saw Fathers leading their families in faith.
Lifting hands. Lifting kids. Lifting legacy.
This is the first pillar.
This is what it looks like when men lead their homes toward Christ.
December 14, 2025 at 1:02 AM
More than 60 churches.
Nearly 5,000 believers.
One city. One night. One God.
And in the middle of it all — I saw Fathers leading their families in faith.
Lifting hands. Lifting kids. Lifting legacy.
This is the first pillar.
This is what it looks like when men lead their homes toward Christ.
Nearly 5,000 believers.
One city. One night. One God.
And in the middle of it all — I saw Fathers leading their families in faith.
Lifting hands. Lifting kids. Lifting legacy.
This is the first pillar.
This is what it looks like when men lead their homes toward Christ.
She wanted to cook.
She also wanted to do a backbend.
Both matter — because she does.
Dads, your kitchen is a classroom.
Your presence is the curriculum.
𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 “M𝗶𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻” and I’ll send you our Dad on Mission Checklist — small ways to lead with purpose daily.
#FamilyMan #DadOnMission
She also wanted to do a backbend.
Both matter — because she does.
Dads, your kitchen is a classroom.
Your presence is the curriculum.
𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 “M𝗶𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻” and I’ll send you our Dad on Mission Checklist — small ways to lead with purpose daily.
#FamilyMan #DadOnMission
December 13, 2025 at 1:03 AM
She wanted to cook.
She also wanted to do a backbend.
Both matter — because she does.
Dads, your kitchen is a classroom.
Your presence is the curriculum.
𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 “M𝗶𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻” and I’ll send you our Dad on Mission Checklist — small ways to lead with purpose daily.
#FamilyMan #DadOnMission
She also wanted to do a backbend.
Both matter — because she does.
Dads, your kitchen is a classroom.
Your presence is the curriculum.
𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 “M𝗶𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻” and I’ll send you our Dad on Mission Checklist — small ways to lead with purpose daily.
#FamilyMan #DadOnMission
We’ve all snapped.
Said it too fast. Too harsh.
But leading your home doesn’t mean leading with pressure.
It means leading with presence.
Let God shape your words — your family’s listening.
That’s why faith comes first.
#FamilyMan #FaithFirst #DadMode
Said it too fast. Too harsh.
But leading your home doesn’t mean leading with pressure.
It means leading with presence.
Let God shape your words — your family’s listening.
That’s why faith comes first.
#FamilyMan #FaithFirst #DadMode
December 12, 2025 at 1:03 AM
We’ve all snapped.
Said it too fast. Too harsh.
But leading your home doesn’t mean leading with pressure.
It means leading with presence.
Let God shape your words — your family’s listening.
That’s why faith comes first.
#FamilyMan #FaithFirst #DadMode
Said it too fast. Too harsh.
But leading your home doesn’t mean leading with pressure.
It means leading with presence.
Let God shape your words — your family’s listening.
That’s why faith comes first.
#FamilyMan #FaithFirst #DadMode
She wanted to buy a book with pretend money.
I saw a teaching moment in the middle of make-believe.
Dads — when they’re curious, lean in.
Play is practice for real life.
Let’s raise kids who are ready.
#FamilyMan #DadMode #DadOnMission
I saw a teaching moment in the middle of make-believe.
Dads — when they’re curious, lean in.
Play is practice for real life.
Let’s raise kids who are ready.
#FamilyMan #DadMode #DadOnMission
December 11, 2025 at 1:02 AM
She wanted to buy a book with pretend money.
I saw a teaching moment in the middle of make-believe.
Dads — when they’re curious, lean in.
Play is practice for real life.
Let’s raise kids who are ready.
#FamilyMan #DadMode #DadOnMission
I saw a teaching moment in the middle of make-believe.
Dads — when they’re curious, lean in.
Play is practice for real life.
Let’s raise kids who are ready.
#FamilyMan #DadMode #DadOnMission
You might be ready to shut it down.
Close the shop. Walk away.
But don’t forget — 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙡𝙖𝙨𝙩 𝙨𝙚𝙘𝙤𝙣𝙙 𝙞𝙨 𝙨𝙩𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙩𝙞𝙢𝙚.
God doesn’t need the whole day.
He just needs your yes and your faithfulness.
Keep showing up.
#FamilyMan #FaithAndFatherhood
Close the shop. Walk away.
But don’t forget — 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙡𝙖𝙨𝙩 𝙨𝙚𝙘𝙤𝙣𝙙 𝙞𝙨 𝙨𝙩𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙩𝙞𝙢𝙚.
God doesn’t need the whole day.
He just needs your yes and your faithfulness.
Keep showing up.
#FamilyMan #FaithAndFatherhood
December 10, 2025 at 1:02 AM
You might be ready to shut it down.
Close the shop. Walk away.
But don’t forget — 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙡𝙖𝙨𝙩 𝙨𝙚𝙘𝙤𝙣𝙙 𝙞𝙨 𝙨𝙩𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙩𝙞𝙢𝙚.
God doesn’t need the whole day.
He just needs your yes and your faithfulness.
Keep showing up.
#FamilyMan #FaithAndFatherhood
Close the shop. Walk away.
But don’t forget — 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙡𝙖𝙨𝙩 𝙨𝙚𝙘𝙤𝙣𝙙 𝙞𝙨 𝙨𝙩𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙩𝙞𝙢𝙚.
God doesn’t need the whole day.
He just needs your yes and your faithfulness.
Keep showing up.
#FamilyMan #FaithAndFatherhood
Real dads don’t just “watch the kids” — we show up.
Even when it stinks.
Comment “DadMode” and I’ll send you our Jumpstart Bundle to help you lead strong at home.
#DadMode #FamilyMan
Even when it stinks.
Comment “DadMode” and I’ll send you our Jumpstart Bundle to help you lead strong at home.
#DadMode #FamilyMan
December 9, 2025 at 1:09 AM
Real dads don’t just “watch the kids” — we show up.
Even when it stinks.
Comment “DadMode” and I’ll send you our Jumpstart Bundle to help you lead strong at home.
#DadMode #FamilyMan
Even when it stinks.
Comment “DadMode” and I’ll send you our Jumpstart Bundle to help you lead strong at home.
#DadMode #FamilyMan
December 8, 2025 at 1:02 AM
Family shopping trip… or hide and seek game?
Either way, these are the moments I’ll miss one day.
Let them be little.
Laugh with them.
And maybe check under the clothing racks before you leave 😅
#FamilyMan #DadAndKids #DadJoy
Either way, these are the moments I’ll miss one day.
Let them be little.
Laugh with them.
And maybe check under the clothing racks before you leave 😅
#FamilyMan #DadAndKids #DadJoy
December 7, 2025 at 1:02 AM
Family shopping trip… or hide and seek game?
Either way, these are the moments I’ll miss one day.
Let them be little.
Laugh with them.
And maybe check under the clothing racks before you leave 😅
#FamilyMan #DadAndKids #DadJoy
Either way, these are the moments I’ll miss one day.
Let them be little.
Laugh with them.
And maybe check under the clothing racks before you leave 😅
#FamilyMan #DadAndKids #DadJoy
Most men lead at work.
Then disconnect at home.
Let’s change that.
Comment “DadMode” and I’ll send you the tools I use to lead with peace, clarity, and presence.
#DadMode #FamilyMan #HomeLeadership
Then disconnect at home.
Let’s change that.
Comment “DadMode” and I’ll send you the tools I use to lead with peace, clarity, and presence.
#DadMode #FamilyMan #HomeLeadership
December 6, 2025 at 1:03 AM
Most men lead at work.
Then disconnect at home.
Let’s change that.
Comment “DadMode” and I’ll send you the tools I use to lead with peace, clarity, and presence.
#DadMode #FamilyMan #HomeLeadership
Then disconnect at home.
Let’s change that.
Comment “DadMode” and I’ll send you the tools I use to lead with peace, clarity, and presence.
#DadMode #FamilyMan #HomeLeadership
Fatherhood pro tip:
Say yes to the weird little adventures.
Cheese ice cream. Mall vending machines. Random joy.
Let them see that life is full of surprises!
#FamilyMan #DadLifeDaily
Say yes to the weird little adventures.
Cheese ice cream. Mall vending machines. Random joy.
Let them see that life is full of surprises!
#FamilyMan #DadLifeDaily
December 5, 2025 at 1:03 AM
Fatherhood pro tip:
Say yes to the weird little adventures.
Cheese ice cream. Mall vending machines. Random joy.
Let them see that life is full of surprises!
#FamilyMan #DadLifeDaily
Say yes to the weird little adventures.
Cheese ice cream. Mall vending machines. Random joy.
Let them see that life is full of surprises!
#FamilyMan #DadLifeDaily
This isn’t just a bookstore.
It’s a project we built as a family!
Dads — find something you can create together.
It’ll teach your kids more than words alone ever could.
Legacy starts with shared work.
#FamilyMan #FamilyBusiness
It’s a project we built as a family!
Dads — find something you can create together.
It’ll teach your kids more than words alone ever could.
Legacy starts with shared work.
#FamilyMan #FamilyBusiness
December 3, 2025 at 1:01 AM
This isn’t just a bookstore.
It’s a project we built as a family!
Dads — find something you can create together.
It’ll teach your kids more than words alone ever could.
Legacy starts with shared work.
#FamilyMan #FamilyBusiness
It’s a project we built as a family!
Dads — find something you can create together.
It’ll teach your kids more than words alone ever could.
Legacy starts with shared work.
#FamilyMan #FamilyBusiness
Been pouring into my family…
Didn’t feel like hitting record today.
But I’m here. Because leadership isn’t about hype — it’s about heart.
If you're trying to lead your home well, I’m in your corner.
Comment below with any questions. I’ve got you.
#StillShowingUp #FamilyMan #DadLife
Didn’t feel like hitting record today.
But I’m here. Because leadership isn’t about hype — it’s about heart.
If you're trying to lead your home well, I’m in your corner.
Comment below with any questions. I’ve got you.
#StillShowingUp #FamilyMan #DadLife
December 2, 2025 at 1:02 AM
Been pouring into my family…
Didn’t feel like hitting record today.
But I’m here. Because leadership isn’t about hype — it’s about heart.
If you're trying to lead your home well, I’m in your corner.
Comment below with any questions. I’ve got you.
#StillShowingUp #FamilyMan #DadLife
Didn’t feel like hitting record today.
But I’m here. Because leadership isn’t about hype — it’s about heart.
If you're trying to lead your home well, I’m in your corner.
Comment below with any questions. I’ve got you.
#StillShowingUp #FamilyMan #DadLife
Nothing fancy.
Just a boy, a balloon, and the kind of joy that reminds you what really matters.
Let them be little.
Let yourself smile with them.
#FamilyMan #DadLife
Just a boy, a balloon, and the kind of joy that reminds you what really matters.
Let them be little.
Let yourself smile with them.
#FamilyMan #DadLife
December 1, 2025 at 1:01 AM
Nothing fancy.
Just a boy, a balloon, and the kind of joy that reminds you what really matters.
Let them be little.
Let yourself smile with them.
#FamilyMan #DadLife
Just a boy, a balloon, and the kind of joy that reminds you what really matters.
Let them be little.
Let yourself smile with them.
#FamilyMan #DadLife
You might not feel put-together today.
But if you're showing up — for your family, under God's strength —
you’re on the right path.
This is your reminder: you’re doing better than you think.
#FamilyMan #DadMode #EncouragementForDads
But if you're showing up — for your family, under God's strength —
you’re on the right path.
This is your reminder: you’re doing better than you think.
#FamilyMan #DadMode #EncouragementForDads
November 30, 2025 at 1:02 AM
You might not feel put-together today.
But if you're showing up — for your family, under God's strength —
you’re on the right path.
This is your reminder: you’re doing better than you think.
#FamilyMan #DadMode #EncouragementForDads
But if you're showing up — for your family, under God's strength —
you’re on the right path.
This is your reminder: you’re doing better than you think.
#FamilyMan #DadMode #EncouragementForDads
They didn’t ask permission.
They didn’t wait for perfect.
They just went outside and started.
That’s how it begins.
Confidence. Creativity. Courage.
Raise kids who try.
Raise kids who build.
#FamilyMan #DadLife
They didn’t wait for perfect.
They just went outside and started.
That’s how it begins.
Confidence. Creativity. Courage.
Raise kids who try.
Raise kids who build.
#FamilyMan #DadLife
November 29, 2025 at 1:01 AM
They didn’t ask permission.
They didn’t wait for perfect.
They just went outside and started.
That’s how it begins.
Confidence. Creativity. Courage.
Raise kids who try.
Raise kids who build.
#FamilyMan #DadLife
They didn’t wait for perfect.
They just went outside and started.
That’s how it begins.
Confidence. Creativity. Courage.
Raise kids who try.
Raise kids who build.
#FamilyMan #DadLife
A fish tank. 🐟
A balloon. 🎈
A bookshelf full of memories. 📚
It’s not clutter — it’s the story of our family.
Sometimes the mess is the miracle.
If your living room’s loud with life, pause and thank God for it.
#FamilyMan #DadLife
A balloon. 🎈
A bookshelf full of memories. 📚
It’s not clutter — it’s the story of our family.
Sometimes the mess is the miracle.
If your living room’s loud with life, pause and thank God for it.
#FamilyMan #DadLife
November 28, 2025 at 1:01 AM
A fish tank. 🐟
A balloon. 🎈
A bookshelf full of memories. 📚
It’s not clutter — it’s the story of our family.
Sometimes the mess is the miracle.
If your living room’s loud with life, pause and thank God for it.
#FamilyMan #DadLife
A balloon. 🎈
A bookshelf full of memories. 📚
It’s not clutter — it’s the story of our family.
Sometimes the mess is the miracle.
If your living room’s loud with life, pause and thank God for it.
#FamilyMan #DadLife
She said, “I want to try.”
I said, “Let’s go.”
That’s how you build trust. That’s how you build confidence.
Comment “DadMode” and I’ll send you what’s helped me lead my home with purpose.
#FamilyMan #DadMode #FatherhoodWins
I said, “Let’s go.”
That’s how you build trust. That’s how you build confidence.
Comment “DadMode” and I’ll send you what’s helped me lead my home with purpose.
#FamilyMan #DadMode #FatherhoodWins
November 27, 2025 at 1:02 AM
She said, “I want to try.”
I said, “Let’s go.”
That’s how you build trust. That’s how you build confidence.
Comment “DadMode” and I’ll send you what’s helped me lead my home with purpose.
#FamilyMan #DadMode #FatherhoodWins
I said, “Let’s go.”
That’s how you build trust. That’s how you build confidence.
Comment “DadMode” and I’ll send you what’s helped me lead my home with purpose.
#FamilyMan #DadMode #FatherhoodWins
She won’t always ask for your attention.
But today… she showed you her art.
Tomorrow it might be her dreams.
Take an interest. Stay present. Stay close.
#GirlDad #IntentionalFatherhood #FamilyMan
But today… she showed you her art.
Tomorrow it might be her dreams.
Take an interest. Stay present. Stay close.
#GirlDad #IntentionalFatherhood #FamilyMan
November 26, 2025 at 1:03 AM
She won’t always ask for your attention.
But today… she showed you her art.
Tomorrow it might be her dreams.
Take an interest. Stay present. Stay close.
#GirlDad #IntentionalFatherhood #FamilyMan
But today… she showed you her art.
Tomorrow it might be her dreams.
Take an interest. Stay present. Stay close.
#GirlDad #IntentionalFatherhood #FamilyMan
Busy seasons. Loud kids.
But even 20 minutes in a car with your wife can bring you closer.
Make room for stillness. For presence. For love.
You’ll never regret choosing connection.
#FamilyMan #IntentionalMarriage #DateYourWife
But even 20 minutes in a car with your wife can bring you closer.
Make room for stillness. For presence. For love.
You’ll never regret choosing connection.
#FamilyMan #IntentionalMarriage #DateYourWife
November 25, 2025 at 1:02 AM
Busy seasons. Loud kids.
But even 20 minutes in a car with your wife can bring you closer.
Make room for stillness. For presence. For love.
You’ll never regret choosing connection.
#FamilyMan #IntentionalMarriage #DateYourWife
But even 20 minutes in a car with your wife can bring you closer.
Make room for stillness. For presence. For love.
You’ll never regret choosing connection.
#FamilyMan #IntentionalMarriage #DateYourWife