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𖡼𖤣𖥧𖡼𓋼𖤣𖥧𓋼𓍊⋆⁺₊⋆ ☀︎ ⋆⁺₊⋆ ⋆꙳•‎𐦍 ̩̩͙❅*̩̩͙‧͙ 🥛 ‧‎𐦍 ͙*̩̩͙❆ ͙͛ ˚₊⋆
工作係:
付出時間 - 固定收入 - 冇咩波動感 - 慢慢變麻木

理財係:
波動大 - 風險即時 - 情緒推動 - 你唔明就慘

所以工作會令你
習慣穩定,失去風險感知

而理財係
永遠唔穩定,你要有足夠心理建設先玩得起

但啲KOL成日將兩樣嘢「混淆」嚟用:

將「努力」套落理財
將「穩定」套落投資
將「後悔」套落市場
將「焦慮」當作入場門票
December 11, 2025 at 11:35 PM
If you’re unsure what kind of work you’ll end up doing in the future, try starting from a simpler question: what do you actually need, no matter how society changes?

Then ask yourself whether your personal needs reflect something your whole generation might also share.
November 17, 2025 at 10:42 PM
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October 20, 2025 at 8:37 AM
I have come to realize that the word “𝐏𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐫” itself has long been corrupted by Patriarchy.
In its grammar, power was scripted as domination: 𝘵𝘰 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘮𝘢𝘯𝘥, 𝘵𝘰 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘵𝘳𝘰𝘭, 𝘵𝘰 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘲𝘶𝘦𝘳.

That definition was never neutral; it was a gendered construction, a linguistic monument to the masculine order.
October 19, 2025 at 9:20 AM
Patriarchal discourse has long separated wisdom from embodiment, treating them as oppositional forces mind against body, intellect against sensation.
October 19, 2025 at 7:04 AM
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September 17, 2025 at 6:27 PM
其實幫自己做斷捨離,都可以當係一種 神經突觸修剪嘅過程。因為當大腦喺 context-dependent memory 嘅狀態之下,如果啲 trigger 物冇再出現,相關嘅記憶鏈路自然就會開始模糊

但問題係,如果認知上冇調整,成日都 loop 返轉頭去 rumination,依啲唔愉快就會愈嚟愈深植落去心理層。咁樣長遠嚟講,仲可能 reshape 埋之後嘅情緒模式
August 28, 2025 at 5:35 PM
學習一門新語言最反感嘅地方在於
同一句話,意思一樣,因為係女性
就必須換成另一種非主體詞嘅結構
係一種喪失主權嘅直觀體現
從塑造「第二性」專屬詞起
從開口嗰刻就不斷重演服從

語言係文化嘅載體,亦是認知傳遞嘅根基
文化砌成思想,思想養成政治
盲從 則繼續為依套體系護航 做佢嘅傳聲筒
August 15, 2025 at 6:32 PM
〝Why do we want women to hate other women? It's very simple. because a woman who can't trust other women is left with only one source of validation: MEN.〞
August 15, 2025 at 5:36 PM
PSA: why society always be thinking a woman alone gotta be depressed.
I knock out every night ’cause ain’t nobody snoring in my ear.
Meanwhile, grown men out here need 24/7 emotional CPR just to make it through the night.
August 4, 2025 at 3:12 PM
可持續嘅行業肯定係圍繞「滿足真需求」而核心正係有真正需求先會「興盛不衰」,即使低劣亦可持續為繼,繼而難以為繼嘅行業只能「滿足偽需求」,無論依個需求幾咁熱潮,曾經成為暴發戶,都係經濟繁榮下滋生出嚟,誓如啲高端鏈消費,屬於「有錢閒住先諗」收縮期,啲人會即刻割捨
August 1, 2025 at 3:34 PM
「友情」需要兩個獨立人格嘅人才能產生,大家先會相互欣賞,不和也能好聚好散,而唔係一個殘缺嘅人揾另一個殘缺嘅人把傷口黐實一起,睇起身傷口無咗,但每次傷口一痛就會覺得係對方將自己整痛,久而久之傷口只會越來越難好,分開發現自己又增加新嘅創傷於而更抑鬱
August 1, 2025 at 2:59 PM
《we dont speak your language》

lowercase on purpose
because i’m tired of being told to
「say it properly」
when e’one don’t even listen properly
i skip syntax the way you skipped emotional literacy.

We’re not illiterate,
we’re post-literate.
Collins corrects grammar,
Cass’s correct the whole vibe.
June 30, 2025 at 9:26 AM
In my previous relationship,
I often felt misunderstood after sex.
I’d shower, feel mentally alert,
just needing space to decompress
—but they took it as distance.

It wasn’t rejection.
It was just me, coming back to myself.
June 30, 2025 at 7:53 AM
有時,我唔想再睇太多政治向內容。
而係——創作本身,就已是我嘅立場。
將視角收返自己身上,
一種更敏銳、更深層嘅感知。

嗰啲屬於他者的東西,未必與我相關。
但唔代表麻木。
相反,藝術家未必會干預當下每一種動態,
但往往係最早察覺風向轉變嘅嗰班人。

靜,只係表面;感知,先係本質。
毋需參與吶喊,依然喺混亂世界中行緊,
並帶著對新鮮事物嘅神經線,
一直捕捉、一直書寫。
June 30, 2025 at 7:49 AM
he said that back in mid-school,
he couldnt offer a sense of safety.
so now, after time apart,
still hold a place in each other’s hearts
like time owes something,
like nostalgia justifies betr

(next time, let MY NAME flow in the VERSES with the VIBE.)
May 12, 2025 at 5:21 AM
《https://sccei.fsi.stanford.edu/china-briefs/high-cost-education-china》

依篇研究報告指出中國家庭支出教育方面比其他發達國家更加重嘅佔比,收入低於4位數嘅家庭與收入高於4位數嘅家庭相比、越窮嘅家庭負擔嘅費用更加高昂,中國嘅特殊性質(9年義務教育)高收入家庭會將支出額外嘅課外活動(興趣培養,教育質量嘅意識競爭作鋪墊)貧窮家庭冇咁多經濟能力支援課外活動費用,學費,學校活動/餐食住宿就已經可以將貧窮家庭開支變得加劇緊張。
May 7, 2025 at 6:53 PM
每次打開Netflix時聽到👂🏼
「tuh-dum」嗰一聲就知要開始埋位就緒!
May 7, 2025 at 6:42 PM
wechat 𝙡𝙤𝙖𝙙𝙞𝙣 𝙨𝙥𝙞𝙣𝙣𝙞𝙣
it knows
to remember
𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙢𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩
how long
the silence
the last goodbye

𝙛𝙚𝙚𝙡𝙨 𝙡𝙞𝙠𝙚 𝙢𝙮 𝙘𝙝𝙚𝙨𝙩
wont let me rest
drawin circles
on repeat
no exit
just loop
May 7, 2025 at 1:53 AM
loadin or connectin
tbh
me in-between—
like half online half lost.
a dotted line
cant fully link up
cant really let go either

time be slicing me
1 sec per thou
碎晒scatter咗
mind laggin nonstop

not sure if im syncin
or stuck on some eternal update
same loop
no signal
just dead quiet inside
May 7, 2025 at 1:40 AM
sometimes “saving”
ain’t about keeping them breathing
it’s about ending the pain.

and yeah—
that kinda mercy
feels a little like guilt.

‘cause you made the call.
not them.

but you saw the hurt,
you knew there was no “better” ending.

so you did the softest thing:
you let go.
May 7, 2025 at 1:19 AM
i used to think we were the glitch in the matrix
a beautiful error the universe forgot to correct
but then you started measuring me with rulers built by others
asking why i don’t scroll like her,
why i leave my phone behind like it’s a crime
why i move through the world like i belong to no algorithm
May 7, 2025 at 1:09 AM
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原來人生唔系每一秒都喺度虛度的,所有「浪費時間」都係優績主義和資本主義所定義,冇賺錢冇在工冇在學嘅時間唔係喺度用係休息、恢復、思考和探索嗎,明明我嘅人生簡直是過得精彩紛呈充滿意義
April 29, 2025 at 9:26 AM
唯一可以拎我解鎖嘅人類bdsm play

竟然係食壽司放勁多wasabi
December 9, 2024 at 11:10 PM
之後我係唔會再同依啲人再講任何嘢

更何況每個人都有自己嘅負擔同壓力
已經好occupied好overload 無咩空間再記實朋友唔開心嘅detail 真係要排解情緒
寧願聽下音樂 睇下Netflix 飲杯茶
要seek advice 就同ChatGPT傾
December 9, 2024 at 11:02 PM