Victoria
@victoriafedden.bsky.social
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lover of all things that don’t give me anxiety. I post frivolities, things that make me happy, Sunday dinner menus, and good memories.
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I don’t know how to pronounce the word banal. I feel like it could go a few different ways. This is what happens when you’re always reading stuff instead of talking to people like a normal person. I don’t want banal to rhyme with, well. Please tell me it’s like buh-NAHL or something exciting.
I was driving kids around all day and waiting on them at the mall so rather than sit around, I took myself on a date at a nice restaurant and got a pumpkin parfait with a gingersnap.
So I kept reading more and more southern gothic lit because it felt so familiar and I was trying to find myself and what I knew in books. It helped me see that the craziness I lived and loved was a part of something. It’s hard to explain but I still feel like this.
I think one of the many reasons I became an English teacher is because in 8th grade we read Welty’s “Why I Live at the PO” and I was going to this private school at the time in NY and felt wildly out of place and when I heard this story a light went on in my brain and I was like THIS IS MY FAMILY
I want to write an academic paper about how the true villain in “A Good Man is Hard to Find” is not The Misfit, nor is it the grandmother. It’s the god blasted cat Pitty Sing!
Seriously, what I would not do for the Bonne Maman Advent calendar.
I love getting good news. I found out today that my dear sweet cousin is having a baby and it’s a girl! And my other cousin is about to be the daddy to a little boy. So many babies coming!
Am I a frumpy, suburban, middle aged woman who still watches cartoons? I guess I am.
My youngest brother told me that I need to watch Over the Garden Wall, which is his favorite show and we have the same kind of aesthetic, and omg how did I never know about this?
I got my hair cut into a nice little pageboy bob and I am so happy with it this length. I felt a pressure, mainly from my mom, to have long hair all my life, but the truth is that I really prefer it a lot shorter!
My daughter was on All Things Considered on NPR today!
So apparently there’s now a surgery you can get to change your eye color? And you definitely might go blind? And it costs like 30,000$ and makes you look like something out of a horror movie? Seriously what is the matter with human beings?
I decided to spring for the prettiest one since it’s next to my bed and I prefer reading in bed. I’m glad I did.
I went to the beach this morning and stood at the edge because it was a high king tide that somehow created an uncharacteristic shore break. A wave knocked me down - which was fun and had me laughing. It was a pretty day. Later I went to IKEA for meatballs. Got a new pretty new reading lamp.
Muppet Haunted Mansion is my absolute favorite.
The pumpkin pie pop tarts are truly chefs kiss. You gotta toast them, though. Easily the best pop tart flavor. 🎃
Remember the other day when I described the feeling of when a loved ones biopsy comes back as benign? It was nothing compared to how it feels when TWO of your loved ones’ biopsies come back as benign in the same week.
Dolphins in Chokoloskee Bay, Everglades National Park. The purest magic.
I can make you a sugar free version but it will still have some carbs. Both of my parents have been diabetic my whole life so I’ve got a lot of tips if you need. I can bring you a pie for Thanksgiving.
This year the Spirit Halloween is in the old Party City and I feel like this is such a flex. 👻
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It may not solve all of problems currently facing the world, but I think we can all agree that bringing back gargoyles, mixtapes, and handwritten letters with wax seals would be an important first step.
The incredible sense of gratitude and relief when a loved one’s biopsy comes back as benign. Big exhale.
No it’s super sweet but they do have a latte with sugar free vanilla syrup that’s good.
The raspberry uncrustables are more than I even dreamed they could be. New favorite flavor.