Without Fear | End-of-Life Doula
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Radical kindness & unapologetic boldness | Alleged bog witch 🧙♀️ | Animal whisperer | Death positive (and planning to haunt with style) | Here to explore life’s mysteries with a bit of magic and a lot of heart. | WithoutFearDoula.com
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I almost didn’t climb this mountain. I told myself I was too afraid, too out of shape. Then I remembered who I am. Fear is a teacher, not a master.
#WithoutFear #fear#Courage #lifecoach #PersonalGrowth #Mindful #Living #FacingFear #motivation #coach #successcoach
#faceyourfear #strategiccoach
#WithoutFear #fear#Courage #lifecoach #PersonalGrowth #Mindful #Living #FacingFear #motivation #coach #successcoach
#faceyourfear #strategiccoach
November 12, 2025 at 6:28 PM
I almost didn’t climb this mountain. I told myself I was too afraid, too out of shape. Then I remembered who I am. Fear is a teacher, not a master.
#WithoutFear #fear#Courage #lifecoach #PersonalGrowth #Mindful #Living #FacingFear #motivation #coach #successcoach
#faceyourfear #strategiccoach
#WithoutFear #fear#Courage #lifecoach #PersonalGrowth #Mindful #Living #FacingFear #motivation #coach #successcoach
#faceyourfear #strategiccoach
Honored to join the Hospice Conference 2025 on Nov 11. We’ll explore care, burnout, and real choices after death.
Virtual via Zoom. Register: https://tinyurl.com/4xkwjuak
#Hospice #Deathcare #EndOfLife #PalliativeCare #WithoutFear
Virtual via Zoom. Register: https://tinyurl.com/4xkwjuak
#Hospice #Deathcare #EndOfLife #PalliativeCare #WithoutFear
November 10, 2025 at 7:53 PM
Honored to join the Hospice Conference 2025 on Nov 11. We’ll explore care, burnout, and real choices after death.
Virtual via Zoom. Register: https://tinyurl.com/4xkwjuak
#Hospice #Deathcare #EndOfLife #PalliativeCare #WithoutFear
Virtual via Zoom. Register: https://tinyurl.com/4xkwjuak
#Hospice #Deathcare #EndOfLife #PalliativeCare #WithoutFear
You Can Die Without Making Peace with Everyone—and That’s Okay.
Peace isn’t forced smiles—it’s truth spoken and silence honored.
Full post: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/you-can-die-without-making-peace-with-everyone-and-that-s-okay
#FearlessFriday #WithoutFear
Peace isn’t forced smiles—it’s truth spoken and silence honored.
Full post: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/you-can-die-without-making-peace-with-everyone-and-that-s-okay
#FearlessFriday #WithoutFear
November 7, 2025 at 4:01 PM
You Can Die Without Making Peace with Everyone—and That’s Okay.
Peace isn’t forced smiles—it’s truth spoken and silence honored.
Full post: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/you-can-die-without-making-peace-with-everyone-and-that-s-okay
#FearlessFriday #WithoutFear
Peace isn’t forced smiles—it’s truth spoken and silence honored.
Full post: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/you-can-die-without-making-peace-with-everyone-and-that-s-okay
#FearlessFriday #WithoutFear
Being Terminal Doesn’t Mean You Have to Be Nice
Being terminal doesn’t mean you owe anyone kindness—it means you owe yourself honesty.
Read more: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/being-terminal-doesn-t-mean-you-have-to-be-nice
#FearlessFriday #EndOfLifeTruths
Being terminal doesn’t mean you owe anyone kindness—it means you owe yourself honesty.
Read more: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/being-terminal-doesn-t-mean-you-have-to-be-nice
#FearlessFriday #EndOfLifeTruths
October 24, 2025 at 3:01 PM
Being Terminal Doesn’t Mean You Have to Be Nice
Being terminal doesn’t mean you owe anyone kindness—it means you owe yourself honesty.
Read more: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/being-terminal-doesn-t-mean-you-have-to-be-nice
#FearlessFriday #EndOfLifeTruths
Being terminal doesn’t mean you owe anyone kindness—it means you owe yourself honesty.
Read more: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/being-terminal-doesn-t-mean-you-have-to-be-nice
#FearlessFriday #EndOfLifeTruths
Stop Telling the Dying to Forgive
Forgiveness isn’t a deathbed obligation. Your peace doesn’t require erasing anyone's pain.
Full article: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/stop-telling-the-dying-to-forgive
#FearlessFriday #TruthMatters
Forgiveness isn’t a deathbed obligation. Your peace doesn’t require erasing anyone's pain.
Full article: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/stop-telling-the-dying-to-forgive
#FearlessFriday #TruthMatters
October 17, 2025 at 3:01 PM
Stop Telling the Dying to Forgive
Forgiveness isn’t a deathbed obligation. Your peace doesn’t require erasing anyone's pain.
Full article: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/stop-telling-the-dying-to-forgive
#FearlessFriday #TruthMatters
Forgiveness isn’t a deathbed obligation. Your peace doesn’t require erasing anyone's pain.
Full article: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/stop-telling-the-dying-to-forgive
#FearlessFriday #TruthMatters
You’re Allowed to Be Angry When You’re Dying
Grace isn’t mandatory. If you’re dying and you’re pissed—own it.
Read more: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/you-re-allowed-to-be-angry-when-you-re-dying
#FearlessFriday #AuthenticEmotion
Grace isn’t mandatory. If you’re dying and you’re pissed—own it.
Read more: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/you-re-allowed-to-be-angry-when-you-re-dying
#FearlessFriday #AuthenticEmotion
October 10, 2025 at 3:00 PM
You’re Allowed to Be Angry When You’re Dying
Grace isn’t mandatory. If you’re dying and you’re pissed—own it.
Read more: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/you-re-allowed-to-be-angry-when-you-re-dying
#FearlessFriday #AuthenticEmotion
Grace isn’t mandatory. If you’re dying and you’re pissed—own it.
Read more: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/you-re-allowed-to-be-angry-when-you-re-dying
#FearlessFriday #AuthenticEmotion
Your Death Isn’t a Movie Redemption Arc
Dying doesn’t mean becoming “better.” Stop letting Hollywood dictate your humanity.
Full post: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/your-death-isn-t-a-movie-redemption-arc
#FearlessFriday #DeathMyths
Dying doesn’t mean becoming “better.” Stop letting Hollywood dictate your humanity.
Full post: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/your-death-isn-t-a-movie-redemption-arc
#FearlessFriday #DeathMyths
October 3, 2025 at 3:00 PM
Your Death Isn’t a Movie Redemption Arc
Dying doesn’t mean becoming “better.” Stop letting Hollywood dictate your humanity.
Full post: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/your-death-isn-t-a-movie-redemption-arc
#FearlessFriday #DeathMyths
Dying doesn’t mean becoming “better.” Stop letting Hollywood dictate your humanity.
Full post: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/your-death-isn-t-a-movie-redemption-arc
#FearlessFriday #DeathMyths
You’re Not a Burden: You’re a Person Who Is Dying
Needing care doesn’t make you a burden. Being human does. And that’s okay.
Full post: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/you-re-not-a-burden-you-re-a-person-who-is-dying
#FearlessFriday #DyingWithDignity
Needing care doesn’t make you a burden. Being human does. And that’s okay.
Full post: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/you-re-not-a-burden-you-re-a-person-who-is-dying
#FearlessFriday #DyingWithDignity
September 19, 2025 at 3:00 PM
You’re Not a Burden: You’re a Person Who Is Dying
Needing care doesn’t make you a burden. Being human does. And that’s okay.
Full post: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/you-re-not-a-burden-you-re-a-person-who-is-dying
#FearlessFriday #DyingWithDignity
Needing care doesn’t make you a burden. Being human does. And that’s okay.
Full post: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/you-re-not-a-burden-you-re-a-person-who-is-dying
#FearlessFriday #DyingWithDignity
The Dying Are Not Morality Puppets
Death isn’t a redemption arc. You don’t have to become a saint to “earn” a good goodbye.
Read more: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/the-dying-are-not-morality-puppets
#FearlessFriday #AuthenticityOverPerformance
Death isn’t a redemption arc. You don’t have to become a saint to “earn” a good goodbye.
Read more: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/the-dying-are-not-morality-puppets
#FearlessFriday #AuthenticityOverPerformance
September 12, 2025 at 3:00 PM
The Dying Are Not Morality Puppets
Death isn’t a redemption arc. You don’t have to become a saint to “earn” a good goodbye.
Read more: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/the-dying-are-not-morality-puppets
#FearlessFriday #AuthenticityOverPerformance
Death isn’t a redemption arc. You don’t have to become a saint to “earn” a good goodbye.
Read more: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/the-dying-are-not-morality-puppets
#FearlessFriday #AuthenticityOverPerformance
Reposted by Without Fear | End-of-Life Doula
Closing the eyes is often the first act of care after death—quiet, sacred, human.
You don’t need permission. Just presence.
📖 Learn how: https://www.homefuneralalliance.org/guidebook
#HomeFunerals #DeathCare #NHFA #Labubu #EOLD #endoflife #labuburial
You don’t need permission. Just presence.
📖 Learn how: https://www.homefuneralalliance.org/guidebook
#HomeFunerals #DeathCare #NHFA #Labubu #EOLD #endoflife #labuburial
September 6, 2025 at 12:01 AM
Closing the eyes is often the first act of care after death—quiet, sacred, human.
You don’t need permission. Just presence.
📖 Learn how: https://www.homefuneralalliance.org/guidebook
#HomeFunerals #DeathCare #NHFA #Labubu #EOLD #endoflife #labuburial
You don’t need permission. Just presence.
📖 Learn how: https://www.homefuneralalliance.org/guidebook
#HomeFunerals #DeathCare #NHFA #Labubu #EOLD #endoflife #labuburial
TOMORROW! I’ll be speaking at the World Oddities Expo ATL 🖤 Join the weird, the wondrous, and the death-curious.
My talk on Post-Death Body Care & Home Funerals is at 4:10pm.
🎟️ worldodditiesexpo.com/atlanta-ga
#WOEATL #DeathPositive #HomeFuneral
My talk on Post-Death Body Care & Home Funerals is at 4:10pm.
🎟️ worldodditiesexpo.com/atlanta-ga
#WOEATL #DeathPositive #HomeFuneral
September 5, 2025 at 7:26 PM
TOMORROW! I’ll be speaking at the World Oddities Expo ATL 🖤 Join the weird, the wondrous, and the death-curious.
My talk on Post-Death Body Care & Home Funerals is at 4:10pm.
🎟️ worldodditiesexpo.com/atlanta-ga
#WOEATL #DeathPositive #HomeFuneral
My talk on Post-Death Body Care & Home Funerals is at 4:10pm.
🎟️ worldodditiesexpo.com/atlanta-ga
#WOEATL #DeathPositive #HomeFuneral
What Does "No Regrets" Really Mean?
Regret isn’t weakness—it’s proof you lived boldly, chose deeply, and risked being real.
Full blog: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/what-does-no-regrets-really-mean
#FearlessFriday #LiveBoldly
Regret isn’t weakness—it’s proof you lived boldly, chose deeply, and risked being real.
Full blog: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/what-does-no-regrets-really-mean
#FearlessFriday #LiveBoldly
September 5, 2025 at 3:01 PM
What Does "No Regrets" Really Mean?
Regret isn’t weakness—it’s proof you lived boldly, chose deeply, and risked being real.
Full blog: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/what-does-no-regrets-really-mean
#FearlessFriday #LiveBoldly
Regret isn’t weakness—it’s proof you lived boldly, chose deeply, and risked being real.
Full blog: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/what-does-no-regrets-really-mean
#FearlessFriday #LiveBoldly
Reposted by Without Fear | End-of-Life Doula
Closing the mouth after death helps restore natural dignity to the face, and its easier than you may think. Using a scarf, ribbon, or cloth gently tied under the chin, this simple step supports the jaw and soft tissues as the body relaxes. #death #dying #labubu #labuburial #homecare #eol #endoflife
September 4, 2025 at 7:17 PM
Closing the mouth after death helps restore natural dignity to the face, and its easier than you may think. Using a scarf, ribbon, or cloth gently tied under the chin, this simple step supports the jaw and soft tissues as the body relaxes. #death #dying #labubu #labuburial #homecare #eol #endoflife
You Don’t Have to Leave a Legacy
Real legacy isn’t branding. It’s intimacy. It’s what those closest to you carry—not what the world applauds.
Read more: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/you-don-t-have-to-leave-a-legacy
#FearlessFriday #LegacyTruth
Real legacy isn’t branding. It’s intimacy. It’s what those closest to you carry—not what the world applauds.
Read more: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/you-don-t-have-to-leave-a-legacy
#FearlessFriday #LegacyTruth
August 29, 2025 at 3:00 PM
You Don’t Have to Leave a Legacy
Real legacy isn’t branding. It’s intimacy. It’s what those closest to you carry—not what the world applauds.
Read more: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/you-don-t-have-to-leave-a-legacy
#FearlessFriday #LegacyTruth
Real legacy isn’t branding. It’s intimacy. It’s what those closest to you carry—not what the world applauds.
Read more: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/you-don-t-have-to-leave-a-legacy
#FearlessFriday #LegacyTruth
Performing Grace While Dying? Hard Pass.
Grace isn’t a costume you put on to make others feel better. A good death isn’t always pretty—and that’s okay.
Full post: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/performing-grace-while-dying-hard-pass
#FearlessFriday #WithoutFear
Grace isn’t a costume you put on to make others feel better. A good death isn’t always pretty—and that’s okay.
Full post: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/performing-grace-while-dying-hard-pass
#FearlessFriday #WithoutFear
August 22, 2025 at 3:00 PM
Performing Grace While Dying? Hard Pass.
Grace isn’t a costume you put on to make others feel better. A good death isn’t always pretty—and that’s okay.
Full post: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/performing-grace-while-dying-hard-pass
#FearlessFriday #WithoutFear
Grace isn’t a costume you put on to make others feel better. A good death isn’t always pretty—and that’s okay.
Full post: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/performing-grace-while-dying-hard-pass
#FearlessFriday #WithoutFear
Embracing Serenity at the End of Life
From religious trauma to love and acceptance—here’s what peace can look like.
Read more: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/embracing-serenity-at-the-end-of-life-a-journey-from-religious-trauma-to-love-and-acceptance
#Fearless #EndOfLifeCare
From religious trauma to love and acceptance—here’s what peace can look like.
Read more: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/embracing-serenity-at-the-end-of-life-a-journey-from-religious-trauma-to-love-and-acceptance
#Fearless #EndOfLifeCare
August 19, 2025 at 3:00 PM
Embracing Serenity at the End of Life
From religious trauma to love and acceptance—here’s what peace can look like.
Read more: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/embracing-serenity-at-the-end-of-life-a-journey-from-religious-trauma-to-love-and-acceptance
#Fearless #EndOfLifeCare
From religious trauma to love and acceptance—here’s what peace can look like.
Read more: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/embracing-serenity-at-the-end-of-life-a-journey-from-religious-trauma-to-love-and-acceptance
#Fearless #EndOfLifeCare
You Don’t Need to Be ‘Brave’ or ‘Inspiring’ to Die Right
Stop performing for other people’s grief. You don’t owe anyone a “brave” death to make them comfortable.
Read more: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/you-don-t-need-to-be-brave-or-inspiring-to-die-right
#FearlessFriday #DeathPositive
Stop performing for other people’s grief. You don’t owe anyone a “brave” death to make them comfortable.
Read more: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/you-don-t-need-to-be-brave-or-inspiring-to-die-right
#FearlessFriday #DeathPositive
August 15, 2025 at 3:00 PM
You Don’t Need to Be ‘Brave’ or ‘Inspiring’ to Die Right
Stop performing for other people’s grief. You don’t owe anyone a “brave” death to make them comfortable.
Read more: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/you-don-t-need-to-be-brave-or-inspiring-to-die-right
#FearlessFriday #DeathPositive
Stop performing for other people’s grief. You don’t owe anyone a “brave” death to make them comfortable.
Read more: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/you-don-t-need-to-be-brave-or-inspiring-to-die-right
#FearlessFriday #DeathPositive
No one else is coming to save you. That’s not hopeless—that’s power. Because the person most capable of rescuing you… is you.
#SelfLeadership #Empowerment #LifeCoaching #WithoutFear
#SelfLeadership #Empowerment #LifeCoaching #WithoutFear
August 14, 2025 at 7:00 PM
No one else is coming to save you. That’s not hopeless—that’s power. Because the person most capable of rescuing you… is you.
#SelfLeadership #Empowerment #LifeCoaching #WithoutFear
#SelfLeadership #Empowerment #LifeCoaching #WithoutFear
One jaw unclenched. One deep breath. One honest conversation. This is how you start again—not with a grand gesture, but with small choices that open big doors.
#CalmInChaos #MindfulLiving #LifeCoaching #Clarity
#CalmInChaos #MindfulLiving #LifeCoaching #Clarity
August 12, 2025 at 7:00 PM
One jaw unclenched. One deep breath. One honest conversation. This is how you start again—not with a grand gesture, but with small choices that open big doors.
#CalmInChaos #MindfulLiving #LifeCoaching #Clarity
#CalmInChaos #MindfulLiving #LifeCoaching #Clarity
2025: The Year We Break the Silence Around Death
Death isn’t taboo—it’s universal. Let’s make this the year we start saying the quiet parts out loud.
Full post: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/2025-resolution-the-year-we-break-the-silence-around-death
#DeathPositive
Death isn’t taboo—it’s universal. Let’s make this the year we start saying the quiet parts out loud.
Full post: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/2025-resolution-the-year-we-break-the-silence-around-death
#DeathPositive
August 12, 2025 at 3:00 PM
2025: The Year We Break the Silence Around Death
Death isn’t taboo—it’s universal. Let’s make this the year we start saying the quiet parts out loud.
Full post: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/2025-resolution-the-year-we-break-the-silence-around-death
#DeathPositive
Death isn’t taboo—it’s universal. Let’s make this the year we start saying the quiet parts out loud.
Full post: https://www.withoutfeardoula.com/post/2025-resolution-the-year-we-break-the-silence-around-death
#DeathPositive
Gratitude isn’t pretending you’re okay. It’s saying, “Pain didn’t make me cruel. It didn’t take my softness.” That’s the fiercest victory.
#Resilience #GrowthThroughGrief #InnerStrength #WithoutFear
#Resilience #GrowthThroughGrief #InnerStrength #WithoutFear
August 11, 2025 at 7:00 PM
Gratitude isn’t pretending you’re okay. It’s saying, “Pain didn’t make me cruel. It didn’t take my softness.” That’s the fiercest victory.
#Resilience #GrowthThroughGrief #InnerStrength #WithoutFear
#Resilience #GrowthThroughGrief #InnerStrength #WithoutFear
You’ll never be okay with every ending. That’s not the goal. The goal is learning to live beautifully, even with the ache.
#GriefWisdom #AuthenticLiving #WithoutFear #Legacy
#GriefWisdom #AuthenticLiving #WithoutFear #Legacy
August 10, 2025 at 7:00 PM
You’ll never be okay with every ending. That’s not the goal. The goal is learning to live beautifully, even with the ache.
#GriefWisdom #AuthenticLiving #WithoutFear #Legacy
#GriefWisdom #AuthenticLiving #WithoutFear #Legacy
Micro-joys keep us alive when grief feels bigger than the room.
The coffee, the birdsong, the warm light—these aren’t small things; they’re lifelines.
#MicroJoys #GriefCare #Presence #Resilience
The coffee, the birdsong, the warm light—these aren’t small things; they’re lifelines.
#MicroJoys #GriefCare #Presence #Resilience
August 9, 2025 at 7:00 PM
Micro-joys keep us alive when grief feels bigger than the room.
The coffee, the birdsong, the warm light—these aren’t small things; they’re lifelines.
#MicroJoys #GriefCare #Presence #Resilience
The coffee, the birdsong, the warm light—these aren’t small things; they’re lifelines.
#MicroJoys #GriefCare #Presence #Resilience
Fear is loud because it wants to keep you small. Flip the script: stop obsessing over what might go wrong—and start planning for what could go beautifully right.
#Courage #MindsetShift #LeadershipCoaching #WithoutFear
#Courage #MindsetShift #LeadershipCoaching #WithoutFear
August 8, 2025 at 7:00 PM
Fear is loud because it wants to keep you small. Flip the script: stop obsessing over what might go wrong—and start planning for what could go beautifully right.
#Courage #MindsetShift #LeadershipCoaching #WithoutFear
#Courage #MindsetShift #LeadershipCoaching #WithoutFear
Healing doesn’t happen just by moving forward. It happens when you stop long enough to feel. Don’t skip that step.
#Healing #GriefWork #MentalHealth #LifeCoach
#Healing #GriefWork #MentalHealth #LifeCoach
August 7, 2025 at 7:01 PM
Healing doesn’t happen just by moving forward. It happens when you stop long enough to feel. Don’t skip that step.
#Healing #GriefWork #MentalHealth #LifeCoach
#Healing #GriefWork #MentalHealth #LifeCoach