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Yan @yanderequandary.bsky.social · 15d

If a Human Resources department isn’t retaining employees, then should it even exist?

Yan @yanderequandary.bsky.social · 19d

Some people claim that the game #Myst has aged poorly. I strongly disagree!

It was never good and people who claim to genuinely like it are lying.

Yan @yanderequandary.bsky.social · 20d

I’m looking at you, @atlassian.bsky.social

Yan @yanderequandary.bsky.social · 20d

One thing AI can’t do? Relate to human beings visually. You’ve seen the hands. So why are software companies increasingly building their UI around AI? It rarely improves it & usually requires me, the end user, to make more clicks. Users don’t want more tabs-within-tabs-within-tabs—No new clicks 🚫🖱️

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Yan @yanderequandary.bsky.social · Aug 12

Sometimes men from my past will contact me and I have to wonder:

Have they forgotten how they treated me? Or are they hoping I have?

Yan @yanderequandary.bsky.social · Aug 5

Not to play devils’ advocate, BUT…

Isn’t bad marketing a failure of imagination?

Yan @yanderequandary.bsky.social · Aug 5

I truly appreciate the honesty of rats

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Yan @yanderequandary.bsky.social · Jul 29

If God had wanted us to hate gays, He would have made them less likable

Yan @yanderequandary.bsky.social · Jul 26

“Protecting my peace” is one of my Top 5 Red Flags and the article I’ve linked explains why pretty well: medium.com/@christinala...

Dear Men: Selfishness Is a Trap

How self-interest ends up weeding out the people who could truly help you

medium.com

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Yan @yanderequandary.bsky.social · Jul 20

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Yan @yanderequandary.bsky.social · Jul 20

I’m always really hoping to see more rat interest posts from you. All you rats do is talk about sports, eat cheese, and type

Yan @yanderequandary.bsky.social · Jul 20

I like it. It’s fun, like a helmet a Viking would wear, but if they were from Mars

Reposted by Yan

Tomer Rozenberg @tomer-rozenberg.com · Jul 20

There are two kinds of tired: One requires sleep. The other requires change.

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Yan @yanderequandary.bsky.social · Jul 20

I am so grateful to be “Mom” to my children. They impress me every day. When did they become so wise? So kind? How are they so well adjusted when I’m not? Where did they learn those effective coping strategies? It’s an honor to see them become themselves more and more. They are my Light in the Dark

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Yan @yanderequandary.bsky.social · Jul 17

Not every worm is “malware”

Just sayin

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Yan @yanderequandary.bsky.social · Jun 28

I don’t think we should conflate those things. Those are separate issues that should be handled separately. Lumping them together isn’t going to help anyone, but it will continue to perpetuate the notion that being trans/queer is dirty or wrong

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Yan @yanderequandary.bsky.social · Jun 28

You don’t turn your back on someone you love. People are not hobbies to be picked up while they’re fun, only to be put down again.

I’m not a commodity, I’m not a distraction, I’m not something to be experienced. I’m a person. With real feelings and hopes and dreams and everything. Be gentle

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Yan @yanderequandary.bsky.social · Jun 21

I ran into the exquisite #QueenVampire of New Orleans tonight at the #sipanddip at the #audobon #zoo tonight! You can catch her live (undead?) at the #allwayslounge tomorrow night

The Queen Vampire of New Orleans strikes a stunning pose at the Audubon Zoo Cool Zoo

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Yan @yanderequandary.bsky.social · Jun 19

It’s not manipulative or controlling for me to refuse to see a man if he’s “talking to” or seeing other women. It’s not jealousy, either.

It’s a boundary.

I choose to set and enforce it, because I respect women. Myself included.

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