Graziano Bolognesi
@9rzb.bsky.social
Poet wandering through philosophy, art, and the quiet corners of thought. Author of “Il Tempo non chiede scusa”. Socialist & Catholic. Happily engaged to Alessia. ENFJ 9w1.
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Sapevo di fare la scelta giusta quando mi sono trasferito in Sicilia!
November 14, 2025 at 10:34 AM
Sapevo di fare la scelta giusta quando mi sono trasferito in Sicilia!
Tra l'altro nemmeno esisteva AVS, è una foto del 2018.
November 14, 2025 at 10:26 AM
Tra l'altro nemmeno esisteva AVS, è una foto del 2018.
La zip è l'incubo di ogni barbuto.
November 12, 2025 at 5:58 PM
La zip è l'incubo di ogni barbuto.
Credo che la tristezza sia diventata una zona comfort, anche a me capita.
November 8, 2025 at 5:00 PM
Credo che la tristezza sia diventata una zona comfort, anche a me capita.
L’unico “investimento” è il dono: amare senza calcoli, dare senza pretendere, accettare che la vita generata ti superi. Chi ama davvero non misura, lascia fiorire.
November 8, 2025 at 3:20 PM
L’unico “investimento” è il dono: amare senza calcoli, dare senza pretendere, accettare che la vita generata ti superi. Chi ama davvero non misura, lascia fiorire.
È un errore psicologico e filosofico: confondere l’essere con l’avere. Un figlio non si possiede, si accompagna. Non è un progetto da far fruttare, ma un mistero da lasciare sbocciare.
November 8, 2025 at 3:20 PM
È un errore psicologico e filosofico: confondere l’essere con l’avere. Un figlio non si possiede, si accompagna. Non è un progetto da far fruttare, ma un mistero da lasciare sbocciare.
Quando l’amore diventa una scommessa sul risultato, smette di essere gratuito. Ogni “fallimento” pesa ed ogni scelta diversa ferisce. I figli crescono sentendo di dover “rendere” per valere.
November 8, 2025 at 3:20 PM
Quando l’amore diventa una scommessa sul risultato, smette di essere gratuito. Ogni “fallimento” pesa ed ogni scelta diversa ferisce. I figli crescono sentendo di dover “rendere” per valere.
Let us reflect: how can we build a love that does not fear the freedom of the Other? The answer lies in accepting vulnerability and respecting the uniqueness of every woman, without seeking to possess her.
November 8, 2025 at 9:05 AM
Let us reflect: how can we build a love that does not fear the freedom of the Other? The answer lies in accepting vulnerability and respecting the uniqueness of every woman, without seeking to possess her.
Male violence does not strike only the body, but the essence of female freedom. It is a sadistic act that wants to "educate" women to obedience, denying their uniqueness. True love, instead, celebrates otherness.
November 8, 2025 at 9:05 AM
Male violence does not strike only the body, but the essence of female freedom. It is a sadistic act that wants to "educate" women to obedience, denying their uniqueness. True love, instead, celebrates otherness.
Female pleasure, "oceanic" and not limited by the phallus, is anarchic and frightens. Men often reduce it to stereotypes ("whore") to exorcise their own inadequacy in the face of this boundless freedom.
November 8, 2025 at 9:05 AM
Female pleasure, "oceanic" and not limited by the phallus, is anarchic and frightens. Men often reduce it to stereotypes ("whore") to exorcise their own inadequacy in the face of this boundless freedom.
Some women, uncertain about what it means to "be a woman," may fall into masochistic dynamics, seeking in men an illusory guide. Violence feeds on this fragility, transforming love into slavery.
November 8, 2025 at 9:05 AM
Some women, uncertain about what it means to "be a woman," may fall into masochistic dynamics, seeking in men an illusory guide. Violence feeds on this fragility, transforming love into slavery.
Freud spoke of the "refusal of femininity": the difficulty, for men and women, to accept the anarchic freedom of women, which does not bend to universal norms. Every woman is unique, and this frightens.
November 8, 2025 at 9:05 AM
Freud spoke of the "refusal of femininity": the difficulty, for men and women, to accept the anarchic freedom of women, which does not bend to universal norms. Every woman is unique, and this frightens.
A powerful example? In “L'Amica geniale” (Elena Ferrante, 2011), the attempt to tear out Lila's tongue is an attack on her freedom. The tongue is a metaphor for voice, identity, and being a woman. Silencing her means subjugating her.
November 8, 2025 at 9:05 AM
A powerful example? In “L'Amica geniale” (Elena Ferrante, 2011), the attempt to tear out Lila's tongue is an attack on her freedom. The tongue is a metaphor for voice, identity, and being a woman. Silencing her means subjugating her.
In #patriarchy, women are trapped in stereotypes: mother or sinner, Eve or Mary. Male violence strikes at her freedom, seeking to transform her into a "possessed thing" to exorcise the anguish of otherness.
November 8, 2025 at 9:05 AM
In #patriarchy, women are trapped in stereotypes: mother or sinner, Eve or Mary. Male violence strikes at her freedom, seeking to transform her into a "possessed thing" to exorcise the anguish of otherness.