Is “actually” now truly neutral as a preface? Is it semantic drift? Is the baseline human communication so bad that it’s universally surprising when someone says something interesting or useful? It’s not just me, I’m seeing it all over, addressed to other people who are typically brilliant & useful

Men need to understand their competition is not other men - it’s a happier, less stressful & longer life. If they are not actively working to provide those things to their wife/gf, they need to get on it fast.

I believe in you! Adding to the chorus of folks who said nicotine is xtra hard to quit if you have ADHD, in case that’s relevant or useful.

Time for a Usual Suspects-style next act.