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Adam Gaffney
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NHS lad, ex-IKEA lad, that one that ate the onion, and various other memes.
I think that's fair and I also don't think it's what Abi was referring to in the original post tbf, you're saying please, plus your follow-up is still a question also! It's just the "I'll have X" with no follow-up I also feel is rude.
But it's just a cultural language difference really.
January 18, 2026 at 6:22 PM
There are a few legitimate reasons they might say no e.g. it's sold out, it contains certain allergens. The conversation for me usually just goes like:
"What would you like?"
"Can I have the X, please?"
"Yep that's no problem!"
"Great thank you!"
Doesn't feel stilted and just feels polite!
January 18, 2026 at 6:15 PM
Not sure if it's growing up in a UK school but hearing "I'll have Y" just makes me instinctively want to respond "oh you will, will you?"
January 18, 2026 at 5:46 PM
Feels more like the right are becoming more radically right (which is very concerning still) rather than people moving more to the right.
January 18, 2026 at 5:42 PM
Hope to see a higher result for Greens in reality but still this would be a pretty positive result all in. Yes 18 Reform seats feels disgustingly high, but it's essentially just the people who already held those opinions and voted Tory last time.
January 18, 2026 at 5:42 PM
We should have support systems in place for people who regret a bad decision. But most of us will make 1000 decisions in our lives we'll regret later, some of which could've done with the gatekeeping that transition gets.
January 21, 2025 at 12:32 PM
There's no excuse for trans healthcare to not be the same way outside of bigotry, absolutely none. "Oh that's different it's for health reasons" they'll say. Completely ignoring how transition can literally save the lives of people contemplating suicide due to the lack of transition.
January 21, 2025 at 12:30 PM
I just went for a consultation about my appendectomy. They laid out all the possible worst case scenarios, asked if I still wanted to go ahead with it, I said yes so they booked me in. That's an irreversible surgery, they can't just stick my appendix back in in a few months.
January 21, 2025 at 12:30 PM
bold statement about one of the best games ever made but I'll allow it
January 1, 2025 at 3:53 PM
What did Balatro do to deserve this
January 1, 2025 at 3:48 PM
But then it'd be considered hyperbole to call them murderers, despite making active decisions they are well informed can cause death.
January 1, 2025 at 2:39 PM
Reposted by Adam Gaffney
December 11, 2024 at 11:15 AM
Liberals for some reason can't believe that transphobes actually mean what they say. They're so desperate to make excuses for them and give them the benefit of the doubt, but won't make a single step to do the same for trans people.
November 22, 2024 at 12:30 AM
I hate that this is how I find how Jake Paul is actually younger than me.
November 16, 2024 at 9:05 AM
People who weren't victim to it could just ignore it, and pass off comments as jokes because it didn't affect them. They're more annoyed they have to acknowledge it now than necessarily annoyed about the issue itself.
November 16, 2024 at 9:03 AM
Trans people should have the right to be cartoon supervillains just as the rest of us have!
November 15, 2024 at 11:48 AM
Either that, or my music taste is so incredible and broad that they can't find any deeper cuts than the songs I already listen to.
November 14, 2024 at 8:21 PM