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Harmony. | Collar of Worlds
@affinity.bsky.social
The thing that controls, even if it's also not what does the controlling. 18+. Most pronouns work.

Author of The Place Where We Can Stop Running, a Human Domestication Guide novel: https://archiveofourown.org/works/58402522

AD: @cayenaleva.bsky.social
This year I also experienced the thing you wrote in May, about being your best self in a new setting and then meeting others who are their best selves, and how that can cause this explosive spark to form. Thank you for sharing it.
December 28, 2025 at 11:24 PM
I once had a roundtable with a bunch of hypnokinksters where we unpacked these terms and what they meant to us. One ace-friendly definition was: A kink is an optional mix-in to the main event of a scene, while a fetish can *be* the main event, and needs nothing more to make a scene satisfying.
November 28, 2025 at 9:06 AM
Little tiny round glasses, like Venjent.
October 9, 2025 at 2:41 AM
July 16, 2025 at 8:48 AM
Do you not… wash your hands? Clean the surfaces of your home? Ensure adequate airflow in your indoor spaces?

And the people who *do* do these things have the train-wreck life?
June 23, 2025 at 6:28 AM
Turning that corner and seeing the amusement park, plus that music kicking in, is what cemented NieR: Automata in my pantheon of One Of Those Games. It was such a magical moment.
November 29, 2024 at 7:05 AM
😭🙏🏻
November 21, 2024 at 1:44 AM
It's about a hundred thousand words. It's explicit, kinky, queer, and polyamourous. It's a love letter; who it's addressed to is a secret. It's one of the rawest things I've ever done, as well as the longest thing I've written by about 30k words.
November 8, 2024 at 2:28 AM
I'm pretty sure I've read that. It's really good. I think about it a lot when the subject comes up.
October 19, 2024 at 12:00 AM
IIRC, a thirty-five year old opted for MAID when it became apparent that no housing was available to accomodate her disabilities. Like. Fuck whoever that was. We 900% do.
October 8, 2024 at 7:29 AM
I keep looking at stuff you've made and telling myself, "This is done digitally. It's all digital VFX in a big stack. This is not actually digitized handheld VHS footage of someone wandering the backrooms."

But it never quite gets to my heart. I can't make myself believe it. That's talent.
September 14, 2024 at 12:31 AM
I'm still chewing over Georg Barkas' "The Year In Researching Intimacy", which changed a lot of how I looked at my own relationships and put into words things I was searching for ways to talk about for a while. hazlitt.net/feature/year...
September 5, 2024 at 6:19 PM