I think you are over optimistic about the possibility of an empathetic compromise. For a number of trans identified males, the breach of women's boundaries is part of the game, for others it is the need to compel acceptance. Naomi Cunningham summarised the problem on Strathclyde Law School's site

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Not more charges, more allegations. Which if they lead to charges, would prevent discussion of the quality of the previous evidence in the media. Tactical? That would be an ecumenical matter.
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She looks a bit like Alexianna