Alejandra Valens 🌸
@alejandravalens26.bsky.social
Yeah, obviously 🏳️⚧️
Talking to cishet men about what male gaze means is so frustrating.
“Yeah but we make naked dudes too” bruh.
“Yeah but we make naked dudes too” bruh.
December 31, 2025 at 7:30 PM
Talking to cishet men about what male gaze means is so frustrating.
“Yeah but we make naked dudes too” bruh.
“Yeah but we make naked dudes too” bruh.
From a family that doesn’t acknowledge things (I got boobs and makeup and everyone still treats me like I’m a good old man), I have to ask, is it better to be ignored or to be actively misgendered? I feel like being missgendered and just leaving would be easier.
December 26, 2025 at 3:34 AM
From a family that doesn’t acknowledge things (I got boobs and makeup and everyone still treats me like I’m a good old man), I have to ask, is it better to be ignored or to be actively misgendered? I feel like being missgendered and just leaving would be easier.
Any other depressed queers on Christmas’s eve?
December 25, 2025 at 8:04 AM
Any other depressed queers on Christmas’s eve?
And like; I don’t want a parade or anything, it would just be nice to be seen a little. That’s what family is supposed to be for isn’t it?
I really showed up with a full face a makeup and boobs to two separate noche buena family parties and everyone still refers to me as male. I don’t know if I should say something or just ignore it, I only have to see these people once a year anyways.
Maybe in two or three years.
Maybe in two or three years.
December 25, 2025 at 8:03 AM
And like; I don’t want a parade or anything, it would just be nice to be seen a little. That’s what family is supposed to be for isn’t it?
I really showed up with a full face a makeup and boobs to two separate noche buena family parties and everyone still refers to me as male. I don’t know if I should say something or just ignore it, I only have to see these people once a year anyways.
Maybe in two or three years.
Maybe in two or three years.
December 25, 2025 at 7:57 AM
I really showed up with a full face a makeup and boobs to two separate noche buena family parties and everyone still refers to me as male. I don’t know if I should say something or just ignore it, I only have to see these people once a year anyways.
Maybe in two or three years.
Maybe in two or three years.
Noche buena means it’s not navidad
Objection! My defendant is Latin American, and they celebrate Christmas Eve, too!
December 25, 2025 at 3:44 AM
Noche buena means it’s not navidad
I’m in the process of buying a new car and selling my old one and I literally have to remind myself that cars aren’t alive and little Tony isn’t sad that I’m getting rid of him
December 22, 2025 at 10:19 PM
I’m in the process of buying a new car and selling my old one and I literally have to remind myself that cars aren’t alive and little Tony isn’t sad that I’m getting rid of him
Went into the men’s bathroom, a guy walked in as I washed my hands, walked back, I assume to reread the sign, and didn’t go back in until I went out. Mission accomplished girls.
December 20, 2025 at 10:21 PM
Went into the men’s bathroom, a guy walked in as I washed my hands, walked back, I assume to reread the sign, and didn’t go back in until I went out. Mission accomplished girls.
This obviously means I’m not a real woman of course. I’ve never seen a woman who ignores her feelings and focuses on just getting things done without ever addressing it or showing weakness, my mom definitely wasn’t like that growing up and I probably learnt it in school.
A lot of the time I reject everything that makes me masculine while trying to not seem like I'm pretending to be feminine, but sadly I heard somewhere that men are hardwired to be probem solvers and when I get depressed I default to just solving the problem without crying about it because who cares
December 19, 2025 at 12:20 AM
This obviously means I’m not a real woman of course. I’ve never seen a woman who ignores her feelings and focuses on just getting things done without ever addressing it or showing weakness, my mom definitely wasn’t like that growing up and I probably learnt it in school.
A lot of the time I reject everything that makes me masculine while trying to not seem like I'm pretending to be feminine, but sadly I heard somewhere that men are hardwired to be probem solvers and when I get depressed I default to just solving the problem without crying about it because who cares
December 18, 2025 at 10:56 PM
A lot of the time I reject everything that makes me masculine while trying to not seem like I'm pretending to be feminine, but sadly I heard somewhere that men are hardwired to be probem solvers and when I get depressed I default to just solving the problem without crying about it because who cares
Having me as a gf would be so convenient because from the right angle I look sorta pretty and I'm also hardwired to hide my feelings forever
December 18, 2025 at 10:40 PM
Having me as a gf would be so convenient because from the right angle I look sorta pretty and I'm also hardwired to hide my feelings forever
The one thing I’m thankful for with adhd is that I see a lot of people dealing with just having to read the news and knowing how messed up things are.
My adhd sees a wall of text or a news format and I stop knowing how to read.
If something is important, someone you trust will tell you about it.
My adhd sees a wall of text or a news format and I stop knowing how to read.
If something is important, someone you trust will tell you about it.
December 17, 2025 at 5:52 PM
The one thing I’m thankful for with adhd is that I see a lot of people dealing with just having to read the news and knowing how messed up things are.
My adhd sees a wall of text or a news format and I stop knowing how to read.
If something is important, someone you trust will tell you about it.
My adhd sees a wall of text or a news format and I stop knowing how to read.
If something is important, someone you trust will tell you about it.
You got games on your phone
December 17, 2025 at 3:02 PM
You got games on your phone
My keychain looks like my little brother asking me to play with him
December 17, 2025 at 2:57 PM
My keychain looks like my little brother asking me to play with him
Half the time I’m in the discover tab I’m saying “what is this what are you guys even talking about?”, but my feeds with things I like are always empty.
December 17, 2025 at 2:01 PM
Half the time I’m in the discover tab I’m saying “what is this what are you guys even talking about?”, but my feeds with things I like are always empty.
December 17, 2025 at 2:06 AM
I hate being employed you guys
December 16, 2025 at 7:05 PM
I hate being employed you guys
Is it wrong to start calling myself a femboy because declaring to the world that I’m a woman feels like I’m about to be punched in the face?
December 16, 2025 at 5:05 PM
Is it wrong to start calling myself a femboy because declaring to the world that I’m a woman feels like I’m about to be punched in the face?
Me when I talk to my peers about things I know
December 16, 2025 at 3:11 PM
Me when I talk to my peers about things I know
First self ipl session, it hurts less than the professional option, but I focused on small places way more.
8/10.
8/10.
December 15, 2025 at 9:09 PM
First self ipl session, it hurts less than the professional option, but I focused on small places way more.
8/10.
8/10.
Working sick is the worst, but at least it’s only a couple more days.
December 15, 2025 at 7:15 PM
Working sick is the worst, but at least it’s only a couple more days.
Man I hate being sick. All the voice training I did goes out the window and the ilusión of me being a woman breaks. All because some parents send their kids sick to school.
December 15, 2025 at 2:47 PM
Man I hate being sick. All the voice training I did goes out the window and the ilusión of me being a woman breaks. All because some parents send their kids sick to school.
And honestly, I’m not sure I want my name to be decided by what’s easier for someone else.
But making things easier by everyone at personal cost is pretty on brand for me.
But making things easier by everyone at personal cost is pretty on brand for me.
I was wondering, when you’re born your parents pick your name, they give it some thought and decide that word is gonna be for you.
I just changed one letter to make things easier for everyone, but I realised there’s nothing stopping me from just choosing a new one.
I just changed one letter to make things easier for everyone, but I realised there’s nothing stopping me from just choosing a new one.
December 12, 2025 at 11:21 PM
And honestly, I’m not sure I want my name to be decided by what’s easier for someone else.
But making things easier by everyone at personal cost is pretty on brand for me.
But making things easier by everyone at personal cost is pretty on brand for me.
I was wondering, when you’re born your parents pick your name, they give it some thought and decide that word is gonna be for you.
I just changed one letter to make things easier for everyone, but I realised there’s nothing stopping me from just choosing a new one.
I just changed one letter to make things easier for everyone, but I realised there’s nothing stopping me from just choosing a new one.
December 12, 2025 at 11:19 PM
I was wondering, when you’re born your parents pick your name, they give it some thought and decide that word is gonna be for you.
I just changed one letter to make things easier for everyone, but I realised there’s nothing stopping me from just choosing a new one.
I just changed one letter to make things easier for everyone, but I realised there’s nothing stopping me from just choosing a new one.