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FFXIV • BL • Other stuff that catches my fancy, I guess.

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I'm not sure, but Ashaa might have been the shortest lizzer there? lolidk 😂
October 19, 2025 at 6:34 AM
Thank you so much for offering. I'm in discussion with someone right now so I think I might be ok, but if that falls through, I'll be sure to reach out! ;w;
September 6, 2025 at 9:33 AM
Over-simplify people's identities and gender. Bakla just is the more modern word that has inherited aspects of the pre-colonial identity that went by other names.

But yes, it is 100% correct to say historical Filipino gender identities were much more fluid than the binary that was forced on us.
August 2, 2025 at 9:28 AM
Totally! Which was what I was hoping to co-sign when I said I fully support the sentiment.

I just wanted to bring this up because it is a very real contention in various spaces (from academic to grassroots communities) to have bakla be conflated with trans and how that can flatten and sometimes>
August 2, 2025 at 9:28 AM
> Gender the Philippines was not as binary as we understand today from Western influences, and while bakla originally could be seen as a third gender, if going by modern conceptions, it would be inaccurate to say bakla is always 'Trans'. Many bakla fully identify as fem cis men.
August 2, 2025 at 8:50 AM
I'm totally down with the sentiment here, and I didn't wanna be a downer, but while that is a theory that sounds like it makes sense, there are other more substantive etymologies of the word.

It also isn't explicitly trans. Effeminate cis men absolutely fall under bakla.

Historically & culturally>
August 2, 2025 at 8:50 AM
A history of conflict and war, not that it's a good excuse lol
June 7, 2025 at 1:46 PM
They did it with the demi flag too :3
June 3, 2025 at 1:41 PM
What people typically do for ace spec flags with specific romantic orientations are to put the romantic flag in a heart
June 3, 2025 at 1:37 PM
Decided to include uncle cuz why not lmao

He'd also be a boomer and use the old poly flag.

#AquillaremBalventius ▪︎ #a-teamffxiv
June 3, 2025 at 8:56 AM
The true wild card. Achi'a's abrosexuality is largely out of his control, but i haven't determined how much it fluctuates by.

#Achi-a ▪︎ #a-teamffxiv
June 3, 2025 at 8:56 AM
Grandpa is largely beyond all sexuality.

#A-Kirau-Kor ▪︎ #a-teamffxiv
June 3, 2025 at 8:56 AM
Just getting all of the gay fellas over and done with

#AndriGevaudan ▪︎ #a-teamffxiv
June 3, 2025 at 8:56 AM
So, so many gay men.

#medeeValentione ▪︎ #a-teamffxiv
June 3, 2025 at 8:56 AM
I have a lot of gay men, soz.

#AyumuUrabe ▪︎ #a-teamffxiv
June 3, 2025 at 8:56 AM
The NB part of Alf's identity is the main thing, but it's also very hard to zero in on Alf's sexuality, so I settled for using the og pride flag to to sort of communicate a certain queerness that might not be as easily deliniated.

#Alfasoix ▪︎ #a-teamffxiv
June 3, 2025 at 8:38 AM
Alda is also very easy tbh lol

#AldaGrayve ▪︎ #a-teamffxiv
June 3, 2025 at 8:38 AM
I'm honestly still flippety floppity on the extent of Auth's intersex-ness, more than the amount of intersex I already headcanon for all viera.

But I do very much strongly vibe with his having had some vaguely afab upbringing.

#AuthvaldrYmir ▪︎ #a-teamffxiv
June 3, 2025 at 8:23 AM
There doesn't quite exist a flag for 'high libido, sex positive asexual', so I kept it to Aro and Pan.

#AringrimrYmir ▪︎ #a-teamffxiv
June 3, 2025 at 8:23 AM