🥹 Thank you I really appreciate you seeing my efforts. Its been an uphill battle to be kind to myself.

My plan is to get back into lolita but mostly ouji fashion.

But moving to Europe comes first lol.

So small accessories that dont take up a lot of space is the plan for the next month lol

I got it at my used bookstore for a steal $25!! I wanted one so bad when I was into Lolita fashion but at the time I was a teen-young adult so saving to purchase big items took priority over $50+ bags.

I got this bag second hand at my local bookstore for $25 and Im so happy.

Its always gonna feel better when its personalized. I think thats why Curse of Straud actually works so well because while a set campaign it does a lot of things to make the players feel like they are the only ones to experience it and their characters are ingrained into the realm.

🙏🥹💜

Absolutely stunning

Gotta put out the sign to let them know Im not an evil businessman and or landlord.

I completely understand. Trauma is a bitch. You deserve your peace and I’m glad you have spaces that are safe for you. Having empathy and sympathy for others despite what hell this life imparted on you is an amazing strength. I send you my internet hugs.

Also also I just wanna point out forgiveness and turning the other cheek were ingrained in me as a child. People will really go on and say kindness is manipulation because you’re not seemingly as miserable as they are

Conflict avoidance is a survival mechanism usually brought on by trauma its insane of people to demand you just “get better”.

That takes time and therapy.

I’ve had to learn to be direct due to my people pleasing. If I’m not I end up having massive panic attacks, only solved by talking to the other person. But that only works now because I have surrounded myself with people who aren’t manipulative aholes

Aaaa congrats!!

SAME

Jeff/Beth + Pals chronic illness