Hell ID let him ruin me 🤯

Or if so inclined - one of the Chriss....Chris'ss..........
Chris Evans!

Your phone is such a judgmental prude!!

It needs a spanking 😈 lol

18 here last month! The time has flown, hasn't it?!

in the 4C's (doesn't start with a C for one, so that would ruin the alliteration!) for the same reason as some avoid the "sane" in SSC - there is a negative connotation associated, so the 4'C's is more of a positive framing.

So for instance, it would not be solely on the dominant partner or the more experienced partner to be responsible for their partner's safety and well-being - EVERYBODY involved should be communicative of their comfort level, risks, safe words, etc.

that other people might not be comfortable with.

RACK also specifically refers to kink, where SSC doesn't (as it's more a broad sense of principles). For some, however, the inclusion of kink keeps BDSM firmly in the realm of sex (ignoring those practicing w/o any sexual element)

Together they formed GMSMA - NY's Committee of Gay Male S/M Activists.

The focus of SSC is on activities being safe, that participants are of sound mind, and all parties consent to the activities.