A. Eamon
@anotherenby.bsky.social
Just another enby, moonlighting here because I don’t feel like coming out in academia. | Drama kid, dungeon master, disaster bi, chaotic ADHD mess, #firstgen academic. I also hit things with swords. ⚔️ | she/they 🌈
Honestly can’t wait to move into our house because this flat is stressing me out. The landlady is always texting me about cleaning duties when we’re like a day late although she has my partner’s number too and keeps nagging and I just can’t put up with it any longer. Plus weird neighbours.
December 23, 2025 at 8:35 AM
Honestly can’t wait to move into our house because this flat is stressing me out. The landlady is always texting me about cleaning duties when we’re like a day late although she has my partner’s number too and keeps nagging and I just can’t put up with it any longer. Plus weird neighbours.
Ich dachte immer, dass meine emotionalen Reaktionen nicht den Erwartungen anderer Menschen entsprechen (entweder “zu viel” bei kleineren Dingen oder “zu wenig” bei großen Dingen) und anscheinend gibt es tatsächlich wegen sowas richtig miese Vorurteile gegen neurodivergente Menschen? Wtf?
December 14, 2025 at 9:21 AM
Ich dachte immer, dass meine emotionalen Reaktionen nicht den Erwartungen anderer Menschen entsprechen (entweder “zu viel” bei kleineren Dingen oder “zu wenig” bei großen Dingen) und anscheinend gibt es tatsächlich wegen sowas richtig miese Vorurteile gegen neurodivergente Menschen? Wtf?
New therapist is great so far ✨
December 11, 2025 at 11:12 PM
New therapist is great so far ✨
I keep thinking that maybe if I’d acted on my intuition instead of letting sb convince me that ‘he’s a great guy and it’s a dream come true’ I might have prevented some horrible things. But then again: I was a teenager. I didn’t know better. None of us did. And overthinking this doesn’t help anyone.
November 23, 2025 at 10:58 PM
I keep thinking that maybe if I’d acted on my intuition instead of letting sb convince me that ‘he’s a great guy and it’s a dream come true’ I might have prevented some horrible things. But then again: I was a teenager. I didn’t know better. None of us did. And overthinking this doesn’t help anyone.
A few years back, I had trouble breathing. Took a year to figure out wtf was going on and how to deal with it. Which wasn’t fun, especially because there’s past trauma which includes not being able to breathe involved. Anyways, the problem has returned, so let’s hope it won’t take a year this time.
November 19, 2025 at 8:09 AM
A few years back, I had trouble breathing. Took a year to figure out wtf was going on and how to deal with it. Which wasn’t fun, especially because there’s past trauma which includes not being able to breathe involved. Anyways, the problem has returned, so let’s hope it won’t take a year this time.
Ugh. So I have to look for a new therapist because mine can no longer work. Really great. Just as we were finally about to actually get somewhere. And now I have to start over with somebody new. After finding somebody new. Which will take between 3 months (if I’m lucky) and a fucking year.
November 5, 2025 at 9:57 PM
Ugh. So I have to look for a new therapist because mine can no longer work. Really great. Just as we were finally about to actually get somewhere. And now I have to start over with somebody new. After finding somebody new. Which will take between 3 months (if I’m lucky) and a fucking year.
Whenever I get angry, there’s my therapist’s voice telling me to take a deep breath and reconsider the impulse vs my best friend’s voice telling me to follow my heart if I think my reaction is justified, even if the reaction throwing things at assholes. Both are not helpful but appreciated. 🫡
October 14, 2025 at 7:03 AM
Whenever I get angry, there’s my therapist’s voice telling me to take a deep breath and reconsider the impulse vs my best friend’s voice telling me to follow my heart if I think my reaction is justified, even if the reaction throwing things at assholes. Both are not helpful but appreciated. 🫡
Really sucks when you learn that the dude you threatened 15 years back because the vibes were off abused people later. I guess it was textbook behaviour in hindsight but I really wish I’d punched him.
September 30, 2025 at 6:55 AM
Really sucks when you learn that the dude you threatened 15 years back because the vibes were off abused people later. I guess it was textbook behaviour in hindsight but I really wish I’d punched him.
Every time I stop myself from throwing hands when I encounter small town bigots in the wild, I should get a fucking gold star sticker.
September 30, 2025 at 6:53 AM
Every time I stop myself from throwing hands when I encounter small town bigots in the wild, I should get a fucking gold star sticker.
How people cannot get angry seeing people absolutely drowning in money with their fucking villas and their fat cars and walk past several homeless people minutes later is beyond me. Nobody needs a fucking € 3,000,000 house or a €1,000,000 car.
September 3, 2025 at 9:46 PM
How people cannot get angry seeing people absolutely drowning in money with their fucking villas and their fat cars and walk past several homeless people minutes later is beyond me. Nobody needs a fucking € 3,000,000 house or a €1,000,000 car.
Absolutely fucking love when I’m on vacation and the people who are supposed to cover my tasks do fuck all, so I come back to an inbox full of angry people. ✨
August 29, 2025 at 10:20 PM
Absolutely fucking love when I’m on vacation and the people who are supposed to cover my tasks do fuck all, so I come back to an inbox full of angry people. ✨
“Please elaborate.”
✨No.✨
✨No.✨
August 21, 2025 at 8:15 PM
“Please elaborate.”
✨No.✨
✨No.✨
Idk but sometimes my brain just blanks when other people’s brains would do the risk assessment thingy and then I do stuff which will make others go “why would you do this??”
August 21, 2025 at 8:14 PM
Idk but sometimes my brain just blanks when other people’s brains would do the risk assessment thingy and then I do stuff which will make others go “why would you do this??”
Throw a real life crisis at me: 🤷🏻
Throw a crisis at my favourite characters (doesn’t matter which kind of media): 🥺😭😡
Throw a crisis at my favourite characters (doesn’t matter which kind of media): 🥺😭😡
August 21, 2025 at 8:12 PM
Throw a real life crisis at me: 🤷🏻
Throw a crisis at my favourite characters (doesn’t matter which kind of media): 🥺😭😡
Throw a crisis at my favourite characters (doesn’t matter which kind of media): 🥺😭😡
ffs when will people finally learn that all human beings are flawed one way or another and stop putting others on a fucking pedestal
August 13, 2025 at 12:45 AM
ffs when will people finally learn that all human beings are flawed one way or another and stop putting others on a fucking pedestal
It’s absolutely wild that complete strangers for some reason enjoy me being silly while playing games online. Can’t quite wrap my head around this 🤯
August 11, 2025 at 12:01 AM
It’s absolutely wild that complete strangers for some reason enjoy me being silly while playing games online. Can’t quite wrap my head around this 🤯
Gotta love those friendships that just end once you’re facing a personal crisis and are no longer as available and as much “fun” as before.
August 8, 2025 at 1:02 PM
Gotta love those friendships that just end once you’re facing a personal crisis and are no longer as available and as much “fun” as before.
It’s so funny when newbies at the club are like “huh, I noticed that if I carry a sword with me, people no longer mess with me”
Well, yes, they either think you’re a psychopath and/or think you’re gonna hand their asses to them lol
Well, yes, they either think you’re a psychopath and/or think you’re gonna hand their asses to them lol
August 4, 2025 at 10:49 PM
It’s so funny when newbies at the club are like “huh, I noticed that if I carry a sword with me, people no longer mess with me”
Well, yes, they either think you’re a psychopath and/or think you’re gonna hand their asses to them lol
Well, yes, they either think you’re a psychopath and/or think you’re gonna hand their asses to them lol
Born to be the court jester, forced to act as the fucking diplomat
August 4, 2025 at 1:14 PM
Born to be the court jester, forced to act as the fucking diplomat
Over the past 10-ish years, I have continuously been told that I have a nice voice and that I should do audiobooks and I kinda wanna go for it but I don’t know where to staaaaart.
July 26, 2025 at 4:39 PM
Over the past 10-ish years, I have continuously been told that I have a nice voice and that I should do audiobooks and I kinda wanna go for it but I don’t know where to staaaaart.
I mean, I know that this week is just … crash week. Because I’ve been overdoing it with the stress the past three-ish weeks. Really wish I could do this with less breakdowns because that’s exhausting too and I don’t see how it contributes to the overall goal of being less exhausted lol
July 26, 2025 at 12:09 PM
I mean, I know that this week is just … crash week. Because I’ve been overdoing it with the stress the past three-ish weeks. Really wish I could do this with less breakdowns because that’s exhausting too and I don’t see how it contributes to the overall goal of being less exhausted lol
Absolutely overwhelmed by daily stuff like taking a bloody tram but give me a life-or-death situation and I’m suddenly functional af
July 26, 2025 at 12:07 PM
Absolutely overwhelmed by daily stuff like taking a bloody tram but give me a life-or-death situation and I’m suddenly functional af
That exciting question of “am I a truly horrible person who nobody could ever possibly like or love … or did I just not get enough sleep for the past several days?” 🫡
July 25, 2025 at 1:49 PM
That exciting question of “am I a truly horrible person who nobody could ever possibly like or love … or did I just not get enough sleep for the past several days?” 🫡
People sometimes ask me how tf I’m coping with everything going on in my life. Well, the thing is … I don’t. I’m trying to ignore it away until I can finally work on it in therapy. It’s not going great but it’s not awful either. It’s just … life.
July 22, 2025 at 11:20 PM
People sometimes ask me how tf I’m coping with everything going on in my life. Well, the thing is … I don’t. I’m trying to ignore it away until I can finally work on it in therapy. It’s not going great but it’s not awful either. It’s just … life.
I really miss acting at the moment. Idk, while I really enjoyed directing plays for the past fours years, it’s just not the same as getting to be and explore somebody else for a couple of hours a week. 🥲
July 22, 2025 at 11:15 PM
I really miss acting at the moment. Idk, while I really enjoyed directing plays for the past fours years, it’s just not the same as getting to be and explore somebody else for a couple of hours a week. 🥲