Oof that's rough. What a terrible first impression

My first time meeting an online friend in person: "oh wow you're so much prettier in person" followed by "you know, cause most girls put more flattering pictures online compared to what they look like irl"

My gasts we're flabbered. It was definitely a compliment but wow.

@kenklippenstein.bsky.social +1 to the above, even adding "detainee" to the headline would clarify who was harmed, though the preference is always to re-humanize folks who aren't afforded humanity in life.

I appreciate your posts