Adelina Adler
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Adelina Adler
@askaddyadler.bsky.social
Sex Coach & Educator
(2) remember how pressed the government was during COVID? We had time to protest. How many new homebrew businesses popped up? How many new skills did you learn? How many of you lost your shit because you've NEVER had mastery of your time before?

Time. That's the resource we fight for.
March 17, 2025 at 10:14 PM
I'm here for Glam Foamy
February 10, 2025 at 11:23 PM
This!!! 🙌🏽💖
February 10, 2025 at 11:23 PM
This. And it's usually all to soothe their own ego. Virtue signaling. Because associating with the "sullied" depreciates their projected goodness.

They are so pressed to be seen as good they'd rather let shit go to hell than look bad. AND they want a cookie for it. Smdh 😑
February 10, 2025 at 11:21 PM
And I won't stop until the world lets you be free. I promise.
February 10, 2025 at 6:35 PM
I want others to be able to find themselves, to see themselves beyond conceptual abstract. Yes, people like you are here. No, you are not alone, not abhorrent and broken. Yes, you too can be free. Yes, you too can find such peace, happiness and bliss in self.
February 10, 2025 at 6:35 PM
I'm a relationship anarchist and, hell, an anarchist in general. Scientist, philosopher, dominatrix.

I want to be visible, to remain visible. Defiantly visible. We are here. We always have been. Like grass piercing concrete roads we remain. Natural, wild, free.
February 10, 2025 at 6:35 PM
I have an altar with bones on it and am not a fan of the Christian god. A survivor of both SA and of the death cult that is conservative evangelicalism. I am AFAB, an organizer and leader of resistance.

My brain is flavored with AuDHD & Bipolar II disorder. I have trouble feeding myself.
February 10, 2025 at 6:35 PM
For a long time now I've made the intentional choice to live my life loudly because there are some who can't. I'm a pansexual sex worker, my blood tells the story of inhumane trade, attempted genocide (and blessed resilience - "yet we remain"), and the imperialism that brought it.
February 10, 2025 at 6:35 PM
I'd appreciate that, thank you! It's ok. With all this shit we're in rn, I get it. Head's on a swivel, all out of fucks to give, and less-than-zero tolerance for even a whiff of bullshit. Honestly? Sometimes "angry gets shit done!" 💁🏽✨

I appreciate you allowing me space to explain. 💖
February 10, 2025 at 3:52 AM
I don't think it's funny at all. Thank you for challenging that, though. It's important to stomp that shit out asap. We're seeing what happens when we don't.

I just found Shaka's work through mutual colleagues here on bluesky. I love what I've seen from him so far, but I'm still getting oriented.
February 10, 2025 at 3:39 AM
Thanks for clarifying. The 🤭 was meant to be the liberals, since I was referring to things I've heard in activist circles from them. It's mocking their teehee attitude. "We" was for myself, you all, and everyone who already knows there's nothing dirty/derogatory about homosexuality.
February 10, 2025 at 3:32 AM
Exactly. It still ends up evoking the same harmful message, ultimately. If I were to replace sexuality with, say, a racially based cartoon, that probably would get recognized and mentally red flagged by most ppl immediately. So it's very telling when ppl don't recognize the link there.
February 10, 2025 at 3:22 AM
That's absolutely true, they know where to look if they want to. I see understanding differently. More analyzing than empathic.

One of my survival mechanisms is to "know your enemy, audience, fears." For me, the more I know how they work, the more I can recognize, fight, sway, or strategize. Intel!
February 10, 2025 at 3:15 AM
Ohh, I see. I'm so sorry, I see why it was confusing. Thank you. I thought OP wanted to know why liberals thought it was ok/excusable to do, so I offered what I knew from working with some. 😅 My wording was too sloppy. I'll do better. 🙌🏽
February 10, 2025 at 3:05 AM
I realize that you thought I meant that it was okay to use sexuality as a weapon. No. Absolutely not. I'm sorry for not being more clear.

Serious question: what part of what I said made you think that I was for sexuality being used as a weapon? I'd like to avoid future miscommunication.
February 9, 2025 at 7:34 PM
Agreed. Is there a difference if the artists themselves were queer? Does the context change there, do you think? Does the message change character then? If cis-het ppl do it, definitely a problem. What about our own?
February 9, 2025 at 7:27 PM
I am LGBTQIA+. My "we" referred to the queer community and others who register homosexuality as normal. I work in decolonizing and deconstructing structural models in relationships. My job *requires* me to think about ppls' perspectives in order to reframe thoughts.
February 9, 2025 at 7:20 PM
I understand the confusion. I hope you understand my intention at least and the context behind the words used. I was not disagreeing. Both things can be true at once. Liberals don't see it as an issue, though they should pause and challenge why.

Thank you for being critical and skeptical, though!
February 9, 2025 at 7:14 PM
It is just as foolish to assume that every one one is acting purposefully out of malice and ignorance. Especially when it comes to deconstructing, conditioned discrimination and prejudice. In order to teach them, we need to understand why they think it's acceptable and then speak to that.
February 9, 2025 at 7:14 PM