The final messages between us. In the document, I describe how after I unblocked Lonny they messaged me, accusing me of giving them an STD I had tested negative for multiple times previously. They insisted they hadn't slept with anyone else, which turned out to be a lie.

Shortly after I decided to make a Tinder account as well, they drove 2 hours to my town and found me on the app. The tone in their emails immediately changed from being loving and apologetic to insulting and accusatory.

Some of the emails Lonny sent me after I had blocked their number. We were broken up, but they had been texting me frequently asking to get back together, saying they still loved me, but then tweeting about being back on Tinder, which really bothered me so I blocked them.

Some of the messages a night before I left Lonny for good. I came out as nonbinary to them back in August of 2019, yet Lonny would frequently misgender and deadname me when they were upset with me.

Lonny messaged me while I was at a tattoo appointment, insisting my friends were secretly all in love with me and hitting on me.

Messages from times I tried to leave Lonny.

These messages are a few weeks after Lonny videocalled me and began cutting on camera while telling me it was my fault. I discuss more details from that situation in the document. Their response to me wanting them to take accountability was that we share the blame.

We were on a break when Lonny started texting me while I was in lab for my A&P class. I didn't read their messages but let them know I was busy. My phone continued to blow up, so I left, thinking there was an emergency. I then spent hours assuring them I hadn't slept with anyone.

When I got to Lonny's, they became extremely upset I didn't tell him I had a partner. I explained I did what I felt was safest since I've known men who get violent if you outright reject them, esp if they find out you're queer, but Lonny kept yelling at me. I left shortly later.

3 months into our relationship, I had planned a trip to go out of town, and the day before I left, I was buying weed. I had called Lonny while I was picking it up, and the dealer started hitting on me. I diffused the situation by laughing uncomfortably and saying I had to leave

This document describes a few examples of the abuse I endured during our relationship. Below, I've attached screenshots of messages and emails. The messages come from Messenger files I downloaded before deleting my Facebook (they read from the bottom up).
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