no Gmail that is not a match for my search

every buck should stop in exactly one place

dating apps are full of people who keenly express their desire to meet *people in general* but but not *you in particular*

for me love is necessary for sex but also I love all humankind

does anyone else think "I should explain this with an analogy", construct a sentence in their head like "this situation is like if [analogy goes here]", and then get as far as saying the "if" before you realise you didn't come up with the analogy yet

contra Mary Oliver, you do in fact have to be good

As a vegetarian, one thing I miss is foods like crab where you have like a dexterity puzzle to do and you get a little reward of food when you get it right, vegan meat substitutes are too easy

I'm testing an app that uses Bluesky to log in. I'm having some issues with it and would find it helpful to know if other people have them too. Message me?

(It's an app that allows you to express friendly or romantic interest in your mutuals, and discloses it to them only if it's reciprocated.)

I'm running my own Bluesky personal data server and it wasn't very difficult and it means I didn't need to agree to the ToS (unless they snuck it in without me noticing)