Bit Rebellious Lapidarym
bit-rebellious.bsky.social
Bit Rebellious Lapidarym
@bit-rebellious.bsky.social
(He/They) Transmasculine Demiagender AuDHD Demisensual Aroace, currently writing fantasy novel(s).

https://www.twitch.tv/bitrebellious
Some systems are born plural. Some identify as endogenic for that reason.

We are valid. We don't need trauma to be valid, and we are endogenic.

I/we are the Bit Rebellious Lapidarym. I/we grew up in conversion therapy.

I/we were tortured for saying "we" but still don't qualify for diagnosis.
November 24, 2025 at 4:16 AM
Queer history needs to include survivors/casualties of conversion therapy (under all it's names).

ABA is conversion therapy. Always was, the two are indistinguishable.

I'm trans. I was tortured for being trans for years (within ABA) before being diagnosed with PDDNOS (a type of autism in DSM 4).
November 16, 2025 at 12:03 AM
Since it's ace week, I want to say that while I was already a survivor of conversion therapy when I came out as ace, I am also a survivor as an ace. As in, the same old gay conversion therapy tactics were used on me (by "professionals") to erase my (a)sexuality. Even in queer run "safe spaces."
October 21, 2025 at 10:07 PM
Gay conversion therapy never stopped. Born in NY State in the 90s, grew up in gay conversion therapy since a toddler. School district paid for significant amounts of conversion therapy for me throughout my childhood. Insurance required by NY State to cover it went into effect when I was a teenager.
October 8, 2025 at 5:44 AM
Reposted by Bit Rebellious Lapidarym
autside.substack.com/p/beyond-bru... - today's article is a very specific and detailed case against ABA for 'speech therapy.'
Beyond Bruises: How BigABA Blocks Autistic Language, and Why It Matters for Literacy
When Most Autistics—and Many Neurotypicals—Are Gestalt Language Processors, Erasing Our Pathways Is Not a Niche Harm but a Widespread Crisis
autside.substack.com
September 10, 2025 at 1:52 PM
To all the self-proclaimed allies telling me NY is the safest place for trans people:

The exact type of conversion therapy I grew up in is not only legal in my home state, (NY) it's illegal for insurance companies not to cover it.

www.nysenate.gov/legislation/...
NY State Senate Bill 2021-S1662B
Relates to the practice of applied behavior analysis.
www.nysenate.gov
June 3, 2025 at 2:07 AM
I keep telling myself there's no point in talking about it until I finish it. About several things I have yet to finish after years.

I'm writing a Fantasy LitRPG novel and an original TTRPG system specifically for the universe my novel takes place in.
May 22, 2025 at 12:33 AM
Reposted by Bit Rebellious Lapidarym
Next up, Aros in TTRPGs which I'm incredibly excited to watch as synxiecbeta will lead Cinder Scoria Bit Rebellious and The Lady Dame to share their experiences as Aromantic folks.

🗓️ Wednesday June 26th at 6pm Pacific
June 10, 2024 at 4:13 PM