So I used to do. Like. It sounds a bit cringey. But country/folk/barn dance stuff?? The ones where they pass you around between guys like a drink, cough. Anyway. Some men could lead soooo well, but some really, really could not. And I have two left feet if I’m not led well, so it was a big pain.

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you are here, in the home of your body, right now. horrible things have happened; horrible things are happening; there is much to be done. but you are here, in your body, right now. you deserve to be here, & we deserve to have you here, present & tethered. you are here. you are loved. please stay.

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No but you’re so valid for saying this. WHY are they all daddy doms?? 😂

I keep meaning to see whether tumblr’s new search features means I can murder that shit when looking for things. Because holy crap, I really cannot stand it. 😭😭

I feel like this is the always funny side about stuff like this though. Me being a “bother” is obviously illegal. Other people “bothering” me is A+, however, please repeat 😂

My parents had my name picked out for like six months and then randomly put some entirely different thing on the form, like ????

But you’re awesome, y’know? And you’re only going to get more awesome as time goes on, I promise. 💜💜💜

But so much trauma could have been avoided just by people knowing more. Leaving it be. Educating themselves and little you. Fuck, put you on damn puberty blockers and let you take a hot minute to make some choices. Obviously I am preaching to the choir. It just makes me so fucking mad and sad 😭😭😭

The world would be so much better if people could just leave well enough alone with people and sex/gender. I’m forever glad you dodged the butchering/surgery. And I do suspect your body will reshape over time on the T, and quite extraordinarily so, because bodies are magic like that.

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I am unfortunately Feeling My Mortality a whole lot recently so. Ugh. I guess. 😭😭

Did you use a guide or something? I’m sort of unaware of how it works aside from on the ao3.