The Only Bob Sacamano
bobsacamanox.bsky.social
The Only Bob Sacamano
@bobsacamanox.bsky.social
Hot #masc4masc gay man.
The expression of a closeted gay man. 80s baby.
#decloseted
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Here in the thread, ChatGPT responds to the question, “How does Saturn deal with mid-life coming out?”
I remember as a kid between first and fifth grade, on a beautiful day, praying the rosary in the parking lot to a statue of mother Mary. I remember looking around and thinking that I nor my peers didn’t understand a word. I sensed that it was wrong. 30 years later, I see that as indoctrination.
January 2, 2026 at 1:05 AM
In the grand scheme of things (i.e. the universe), our technology today isn’t really that advanced. We aren’t exactly teleporting. Yet people are struggling to use the technology. I wonder if people historically weren’t so repressed politically and theologically, how would we have evolved?
January 2, 2026 at 1:01 AM
If you’re a Catholic in 2025, you have a choice to leave Catholicism and pick a Christian denomination that’s less authoritarian and does same sex marriage, allows priests to marry, and has women priests. While you’re at it, might as well pick one that doesn’t go crazy with the supernatural stuff.
December 28, 2025 at 12:16 AM
Have you ever heard the expression of a closeted gay man?

Apparently Bluesky has once, as they’ve deleted my last post. Ten thousand years of repression voiced in 2025 will do that.

I don’t take responsibility for the public’s inability to interpret words, considering I have zero followers here.
December 24, 2025 at 12:52 AM
Who is going to get the ball?
November 8, 2025 at 12:54 AM
Regarding the recent 2025 Texas amendment allowing judges to refuse officiation of same-sex marriage and the upcoming similar SCOTUS “conference”:
October 31, 2025 at 6:06 PM
Somebody needs to hand wave Douglas Murray away and say “no fem”. 👋👋
October 19, 2025 at 2:56 AM
To achieve real progress, and for the sake our sanity, we should seek to clarify circumstances around gender nonconformity:
October 11, 2025 at 5:43 PM
If our intention is to seek real progress, on a rational basis, it has become clear that now is time for activism to meaningfully define the LGBT+ letters and delineate them when relevant.
October 10, 2025 at 10:21 PM
Better off not thinking about this and just move on, as decades of being closeted will make the thought of conversion therapy bring about PTSD. Nevertheless, regardless of the legal outcome of the SCOTUS decision on conversion therapy, the justices should be clear about the following:
October 5, 2025 at 9:44 PM
“At the most specific level”, she says. It caught my ear. I clicked rewind.
September 18, 2025 at 2:08 AM
It’s really difficult not to observe that both sides have gone crazy. It’s so obvious that anyone who thinks otherwise must have an implicit bias. This platform is terrible. As dangerous as MAGA is, the woke mind virus is still alive and well.
September 7, 2025 at 12:02 AM
I’m masc gay like JD Vance is masc gay. Vance is “straight passing”, but let’s be honest: we all know he’s gay.
August 30, 2025 at 10:19 PM
Snoop may no longer be a young nigga, but he sure is a dumb n*****. Pac was right.

P.S. We need assimilated gay couples portrayed in the media, including children’s movies. Helps liberate and normalize. Makes a difference.
August 28, 2025 at 11:21 PM
Down low, discreet, low key, closeted. Bi, my ass. What pussies masc gay guys are. It’s a weakness.
August 24, 2025 at 9:36 PM
At the Met on a date. The guy’s devastated over Trump’s “order” to remove “rainbow painted streets”. It’s a tragedy to him. He needs the rainbow streets. And I’ve got decades of trauma and lost life from being closeted, that the country doesn’t understand, from Christian and heteronormative culture.
August 24, 2025 at 7:32 PM
It’s not easy finding other masc gay guys in the gay community, or anywhere, in 2025. But I’d imagine it’s easier than 20 years ago.
August 24, 2025 at 7:07 PM
In 2025 masc gay guys can be found at once! Go to the city w the most gays. NYC. Go on the Grindr app. There, they have pictureless profiles, or pics with their heads cropped out, with profile tags “discreet” and “masc”. They are faceless. They are nameless. They are lost souls. All of us strangers.
August 4, 2025 at 1:03 AM
Would the party celebrating my parents 50th wedding anniversary be a good time to tell my family their culture has deprived me of what they would die for? Or would that kill their buzz?
August 3, 2025 at 12:04 AM
Sexual orientation is based on an attraction of clear, observable and stable traits.
July 4, 2025 at 11:37 PM
The risk of false logic with gender identities is real with consequences on social and legal acceptance
July 4, 2025 at 11:02 PM
What’s it mean to have someone’s back in LGBT?
June 29, 2025 at 11:13 PM
2025 Pride in West Village today. First time, better late than never.
June 29, 2025 at 10:43 PM
Not all truths necessarily need to be spoken loudly. But many do. Knowing when to speak the truth matters.
June 29, 2025 at 4:22 AM