but then again, it raises the question: am i unable to give up the freedom of being single because i truly think i'm not ready yet, or is it because i need something to fill the gap and i found it as an equal substitute, so it was merely a distraction?

or maybe i just haven't found the "right person", if it actually exists at all

though i think if we keep the momentum going, bluesky can be an actual twitter alternative. secara UX mirip banget, dari onboarding sampai day-to-day experience (bahkan settingsnya mirip). this is more polished than threads when it first launched, mungkin karena aslinya emang udah lama ya.

as a vtuber/idol fan, i think this is a chicken-or-egg situation; orang males pindah platform kalau idola mereka nggak pindah, sementara idol juga males pindah platform karena nggak ada penggemar mereka di platform baru