The reasons men state for wanting to join Burned Haystack on Facebook are WILD.

If you want a great example of dog-whistle language of men who are following Incel groups, here's this dating profile.

We talk a lot about how to rule men out ("burn the haystack"); here's what you DO want. These are specific needle attributes to look for:

Burned Haystack® teaches you how to burn the haystack away and find the needles. Not every single needle in a haystack will be YOUR needle, but trust us that dating ANY needle is a better experience than dating hay.

Thank you for being here, Friends! 🥰🔥💙

A guide for when you can't decide if you should keep messaging with him:

Rules 9-10 of Burned Haystack Dating Method®

Rules 5-8 of Burned Haystack Dating Method®

Rules 1-4 of Burned Haystack Dating Method®

Introducing Jolene to Bluesky 😻

Okay, Haystackers, let's show these Bluesky people how much fun Critical Discourse Analysis is 🤓. Here's the game:

The screenshot below is from a cis-het man (I have confirmed this) lying about his gender to enter a group protected for women. What one word here tipped me off?

And some echo chambers truly are beautiful 🤷‍♀️