Yea, you learn to cherish the quiet days. There's no wrong way to accomplish doing nothing.
February 3, 2026 at 2:04 PM
Yea, you learn to cherish the quiet days. There's no wrong way to accomplish doing nothing.
Then I'm very glad Winnie's hole is a multitude of things I can inflict on myself and my friends.
January 29, 2026 at 4:39 AM
Then I'm very glad Winnie's hole is a multitude of things I can inflict on myself and my friends.
I'm really glad that wasn't a joke, I loved Ring of Pain.
January 29, 2026 at 4:31 AM
I'm really glad that wasn't a joke, I loved Ring of Pain.
I'm glad they put in a random aside about why someone would have a size fetish, in a tone that suggests *that* requires little introspection, but feet need an entire article.
January 28, 2026 at 4:44 PM
I'm glad they put in a random aside about why someone would have a size fetish, in a tone that suggests *that* requires little introspection, but feet need an entire article.
Np, I like you too.
January 22, 2026 at 9:54 PM
Np, I like you too.
As for the days long gap, no idea how to make that less awkward. I've gone with a short apology that I refuse to think about afterwards. I think it worked, but again, refusing to think about it so I can keep talking.
January 22, 2026 at 11:14 AM
As for the days long gap, no idea how to make that less awkward. I've gone with a short apology that I refuse to think about afterwards. I think it worked, but again, refusing to think about it so I can keep talking.
Sounds like you want to bother them, and want them to bother you. The word bother sounds bad, but that's how most interactions start, so its fine if its a relationship.
January 22, 2026 at 11:14 AM
Sounds like you want to bother them, and want them to bother you. The word bother sounds bad, but that's how most interactions start, so its fine if its a relationship.
Both? "I dont want to be a bother, but I have needs, and here they are:" sounds great to me, but I like blunt direct communication. You don't have to be subtle if it's not getting you what you want.
January 22, 2026 at 10:26 AM
Both? "I dont want to be a bother, but I have needs, and here they are:" sounds great to me, but I like blunt direct communication. You don't have to be subtle if it's not getting you what you want.
Hypothetically, it'll feel like like shit while you try to get it out, but hypothetically you can practice blurting out things like that until it's always too late to take back your feelings, and hope more good things happen than bad.
January 22, 2026 at 10:21 AM
Hypothetically, it'll feel like like shit while you try to get it out, but hypothetically you can practice blurting out things like that until it's always too late to take back your feelings, and hope more good things happen than bad.
Nah, that's an incredibly reasonable thing to ask. Even just as plainly as that. "I like it when you talk to me, so please do it more. Daily even."
January 22, 2026 at 10:17 AM
Nah, that's an incredibly reasonable thing to ask. Even just as plainly as that. "I like it when you talk to me, so please do it more. Daily even."
Hypothetically, heartbreak is what started the crying, so I got nothing besides the heavy handed coping techniques, e.g. heavy blankets and food.
January 22, 2026 at 10:09 AM
Hypothetically, heartbreak is what started the crying, so I got nothing besides the heavy handed coping techniques, e.g. heavy blankets and food.
I guess what I mean is, the worst of those feelings are temporary, and knowing that makes them go away faster.
January 22, 2026 at 8:31 AM
I guess what I mean is, the worst of those feelings are temporary, and knowing that makes them go away faster.
I try and barrel through those feelings by assuming someone out there thinks all my minor failures make me look cool. It doesn't super help, but it does redirect me toward doing things I like instead of the crying.
January 22, 2026 at 8:14 AM
I try and barrel through those feelings by assuming someone out there thinks all my minor failures make me look cool. It doesn't super help, but it does redirect me toward doing things I like instead of the crying.
I feel the same, which limits our posting quite a bit. Ya'll still put out plenty of bangers.
January 12, 2026 at 4:38 AM
I feel the same, which limits our posting quite a bit. Ya'll still put out plenty of bangers.
Catharsis, I guess. It feels better to scream at the paper than scream internally.
December 28, 2025 at 8:21 PM
Catharsis, I guess. It feels better to scream at the paper than scream internally.
Ganbatte. The process sucks but the results are real.
December 28, 2025 at 7:41 PM
Ganbatte. The process sucks but the results are real.